Don't think so. I've had quite a few gfs and hook ups but I'm not at all a chad nor am I overtly attractive.
I seem to get girls but having an attitude of "couldn't care less." And this doesn't mean I'm a brooding silent type I just pretend like I am utterly disaffected by the opinions/desires of others. I'm not but I just pretend I am and it works for the most part.
For instance there was this guy at my work who used to bully me or try to I guess. I was very annoyed by it and it did stick with me a lot but I just acted like I was completely oblivious to his attitude. Every comment I pretended it was earnest and kept acting like he and I were friends.
Later one of the girls at work confided in me and was complaining about him, this was a regular conversation, and she eventually said "do you know how much he hates you?"
I just smiled at her and said "trust me I know" which she thought was hilarious and immediately the conversation turned into an entirely different dynamic. Later when this guy would try to start on me as usual I would still bring the same attitude I always had but this time be sure to shoot a glance at her and the rest of the girls who she had obviously told and they thought it was great fun to watch.
I'll admit nothing eventutated but I left for another job shortly after. I realize this is only an anecdotal example but I would say the image in OP is wrong, I'm highly unchad like but simply not giving a fuck and being friendly but aloof has always worked for me especially when people start to see that aggressive or the really in your face type of behaviour typically exhibites by chad types has its downfalls as well, mainly being too obsessed with superiority.
>>25664174 The guy's commentary is based on the assumption that physical looks are the most important thing to breed, when in reality intelligence is becoming more and more desirable from a eugenic point of view
there's literally no science behind social darwinism, in fact science points in the opposite direction the whole meme was invented back in the 1800's so that rich people could say >i'm better than you and don't ask why and now retards and rich people who know exactly what they're doing apply it to everything
straight men who want to meet women based on shared interests and are interested in monogamy are essentially irrelevant in modern sex, especially if they're shy
this has always been a dream of mine (monogamy) but I've been coming to the realisation that this ideal just plain isn't upholdable in the modern age unless you want to be wait out and be voluntarily abstinent (which I've been doing up to now)
I've never had a one-night-stand (despite offers), and I have been waiting out for just a nice fucking girl who is interested in monogamy and shares my hobbies (along with a few other qualities I won't list)
There's a nice girl in the next town over who I found with my bare-bones OKC account. I'm going to make a proper account and say hello to her, but if that doesn't work out I'm going to message the easy slut on OKC in my town who only made her account for hook ups and I'm going to join tinder too. I've been told often I look attractive, I could "pull" a decent amounts on these sites
that's it society, I didn't want this but you've fucking broken me at this stage
so when any girl says some vapid shit like >where have all the good men gone? ;__; I'm going to think >to tinder, you're there already after all
Can definitely attest to this. In high school I used to try to emulate Kramer which I have to admit was pretty cringey. At first the girls laughed at me but theb when you laugh at them for laughing at you they get the impression that there's some joke they're not a part of, this spawns self-doubt and then of course they see how sure of yourself you are and all of a sudden this whole aloof type of attitude seems very appealing.
It's not as directly effective as your run of the mill alpha style of doing things but it certainly works.
>>25664862 That's very interesting. And completely true, in hindsight, if I were to relate it to myself. I really liked this one girl in high school, but I didn't show a single thing to her, mainly because I was too cautious of competing with other more "chad-like" guys around her. I just acted completely indifferent around her, where others would laugh at her joke, I would act unamused, or at best, just smirk at her joke. I would do exactly as you did, just act as though you are completely unaffected by anyone's actions or thoughts. I did that in the infancy of me knowing her. But of course as she started to display more acts of interest towards me, I started becoming more confident that she liked me, which ultimately led to my demise. I started acting more straight with her and demonstrating I liked her, and thats when she started to clearly like me less. Females are very strange. If there's one thing I've learnt as you yourself have, girls like an indifferent guy. At least I learnt that fairly early, at my age of 18, rather than suffer years more of embarrassment.
>>25664323 So what's different about Japan? It's obviously not just that they kept their women in line or something, because Western society did that for a long time just as they did, and Japan isn't doing it now just as the west isn't.
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