Does anyone else feel grossly inexperienced when it comes to dating and relationships?
I feel because I never really had any action in high school I'm almost permanently locked out of relationships in general.
Yes. I am 24 years old and in college. I feel like a loser and I simultaneously crave a relationship and am terrified due to being inexperienced. Most people who are my age and still in college have at least done something with their life. I just smoked a lot of pot and masturbated frequently.
I'm in a new town and everything too. I'm trying to get out there and meet people but damn, it's tough.
I stopped in a record store the other day and saw a cute girl but I couldn't think of anything to say that wouldn't seem overtly try-hard.
You think that Chad is this hyper masculine guy who fucks women. No Chad is a little faggot who badmouths other men behind their backs to make himself look better. Everytime bullies at school gang up on one kid to impress their harem of sluts they are being extremely female in essence.
OP here. This is why you are in the same position as me.
I spent my high school years gaming and gaming and gaming. And now I'm out on my own and the temptation to game until I don't remember why I wanted a relationship in the first place exists.
Absolutely i had my first romantic interaction with a girl at 21. 3 dates, we kissed, slept together, felt her tits etc no sex. Basically it feels like if i had more experience this prospect would have ended in a better way instead of her breaking up.
But at least i'm happy i started what others have been doing for years. I feel bad about missing out on sex (feels like i could have gotten it in that 'relationship' but due to inexperience i did not know well how to initiate. I feel quite weird i liked the romance a lot and i don't know how i would feel about what other uni students do just fucking. Maybe i'l try tinder soon