Something I never understood: why is being penetrated seen as the "submissive" position? I mean, you're making a man do all the work, making him sweat and all you do is just sit there as he fucks you. Doesn't it seem like HE'S the submissive one if he has to put in the effort to please you?
Depends on how you do it, there are some penetrative femdom positions (e.g. Amazon position). If your movement/sight-of-partner is compromised more you're the submissive one in the position.
Something I never understood: why is getting stabbed the "submissive" position? I mean you're making a man do all the work, making him sweat and all you do is just sit there as he stabs you. Doesn't it seem like HE'S the submissive one of he has to put in the effort to murder you?
Tell me who looks submissive and who looks in control here
No actually the guy in the bottom left is the one with the dick. There are no traps in that picture. You're the blind one senpai, look at where the dick starts. If you think it's the top right one that possesses the dick look at where it "sprouts". It's not the right place
Makes me think of murder,only betas/weak people are killed,submissive=weak=women.
Alpha killer Chad here, I eat people.
Something I never understood: why is being tortured seen as the "submissive" position? I mean, you're making a man do all the work, making him sweat and all you do is just sit there all tied up as he tortures you. Doesn't it seem like HE'S the submissive one if he has to put in the effort to torture you?
She is risking her life by fucking in a position that usually compromises her ability to fight/run to violence he could will. The choice to stop/change positions is ultimately up to him should he threaten her.
Same thing with marriage. The groom kisses the bride and then hoists her off like property. Even though he'll be working for her and obeying her for the rest of his days, he still feels like the dominant party.
Maybe as men we just need to feel that way.
>Doesn't it seem like HE'S the submissive one if he has to put in the effort to please you?
You are basing this retarded idea on the basis that consent was given, in the wild many females are penetrated WITHOUT CONSENT, get why being penetrated is submissive now moron (its so fucking obvious), its because its an invasive act that is SELDOM DONE BY FORCE WITHOUT THE SAY OF THE ONE BEING PENETRATED. "Rape" is not even a real thing, it does not exist outside of human social constructs like laws, "rape" is just an alternative mating strategy employed by many males of various species.
So to summarize, in order to be penetrated you either have to:
A. Lay back and LET someone penetrate you, key word here is "let", as in "allow", as in "submit your body to being penetrated by said individual". To allow someone to do something to your body is to SUBMIT YOUR BODY FOR THEIR USAGE, when I force my penis into a woman I'm not submitting my penis to her usage, her body IS THE BODY BEING ACTED UPON. Not only that but she is so vulnerable at that point that even if she wanted to stop under natural circumstances (no human social constructs like laws, jail, police, etc) I don't have to stop, I could just continue penetrating her.
B. Be forcibly penetrated which automatically puts you in a position of submission since you're being dominated.