Any advice what to do on it ?
Try to find some events near you, if you can. Before sending invites, talk to people. And join some groups that have interesting topics (fetishes) for you. Just say hi to comunity.
Well, In my place it's mostly fetish parties. You have to sign in to be let inside. Sometimes dress code is required. Just find some, ask people, show some interest. I bet you'll find fast someone who will tell you more.
I don't have much experience with FetLife but I think it's not good place to seek sex. At least to get it fast. If you want to know what does user want, just read their profile.
And it's not dating site. But I can't tell for sure. You can always try.
Looking to make friends too, the people seem intresting. I have had sex with someone on it basically i put up a personal advert and was lucky. What do you use it for ?
Are you a girl ? because it is probably alot diffrent if you are
No, I'm a male. I have made account about one and a half year, after my ex and I went to some "Shibari-grill". It wasn't something big, just meeting.
Well, I just talked to some girl but she had a bf and lives about 400km away. And know I just lost interest in it, to be honest.