Normies on r9k help me, to make yourself feel better once again.
The sister of my brother's friend is willing to have sex with me because she wants to take a losers virginity like mine. I want to make her enjoy it or get her to want more of me but I know that I'm too ugly for that. But I have no clue how to do it. I have seen lots of porn but I don't think that it actually would go like that. So how do you have sex? I'm asking about the way you move your body. Please give me a detailed explaination.
Sex is shit when you focus too much on the other person or try to turn it into a performance. Just focus on what feels good to you.
>I'm asking about the way you move your body. Please give me a detailed explaination.
The best way to fuck up sex is to think too much about it. Just turn off your brain and follow the ancient primal instincts that are hardwired into you.
And forget about porn, real sex is nothing like porn. Real sex has awkward moments, fumbling, not knowing what to do, trying to find out what you each like, just relax and go with the flow. Its not a performance, its not a test, its just something that two people do together.
You can even ASK her what she likes, because different people like different things. Most likely she'll like to be kissed on the neck, have the hair on the back of her head grabbed, she'll probably like to be pinned down and fucked, or she might want to ride you. Don't be afraid to be firm with her either, don't be afraid to offend her with your sexuality.
Stop thinking so much and you'll be fine, animals can have sex, its not an intellectual exercise that you have to study up on.
Good luck, ganbatte.
When you walk do you actively think about how which muscles you're going to use or do you just do it? Same principal with sex. In fact it should be the same principal with most social interaction. Thinking too much, being up in your own head trying to thnik of something witty to do or say is the easiest way to fuck up social interaction.
Focus on the present moment and what's around you, instead of dwelling on your own thoughts or trying to plot and scheme in your head.
For example right now while you're reading this, try to focus on the physical sensations in your toes. This forces your brain to sweep your body and helps ground you in the present moment.