This gril liked me on a dating site but I didn't message her because we didn't have much in common. Are my standards too high? I need a girl to at least have some interest in reading classic literature to want to date her.
Say you found that girl you're looking for ... then you'd sperg out and fail because you don't know what you do.
If you're not Chad (having sexual reference experiences with girls from ago 13++) and still get into it with some girl, literally try to get her into bed still - you'll fail 95% (I guess you know that), but durign this path you collect reference experience and get better.
Think about it: The more often you've tried to push for it and fail, the less likely you're to fail when it matters.
Hi friend. Have you stopped to think that maybe you are giving yourself unnaturally high standards for a partner because the thought of getting close to someone absolutely terrifies you and it's easier to say "she's not good enough for me" than it is to open yourself up to the vulnerability of being in a relationship? Baby steps. She's a real QT. You don't have to commit to her or share your terrible secrets but you can meet up with her for a fairly innocent activity and slowly titrate bits of yourself to her as you feel more comfortable.
Oh god, I can inagine that makeup running down her cheeks and tears glistening as she chokes on a cock.
You done fucked up op, shoulda went for it!
She has large cute eyes, yes.
But she's not an 8 because that's a pic she chose for the dating site and she is most likely quite fat irl. If you take a random snapshot of her, she'll probably be a yourthful (still healthy looking) fat chick.