I don't understand where to meet women. I want to love someone, but I don't know where to find that person or how to approach her. Do I just go to a bar on saturday night and just sit at the bar, look kind of smiley and easy to approach, and wait for something to happen? That feels stupid and cringy
Loving yourself is impossible without external validation
you know op i think, and im just spitballing here, i think the first step is to enjoy doing normal social shit. things like buying groceries etc. if youre anything like me you avoid social situations like the plague and do your best to not go outside but i think maybe if you withdraw far enough, youll yearn for those simple interactions and enjoy the inane shit people instigate while outside
yes, i do
other people are only going to want you for what you bring to the table, so if you want to please them then that means you do so for something in return? what does society give to you that you should respect it
That stupid advice about "lol you gotta be happy by urself b4 you can make someone else happy!!" is so fucking dumb.
Humans aren't happy by themselves. People can't be happy alone. It's against human nature. People are only truly happy when they have a comfortable life and someone else to share themselves with. It's terrible advice to "lol go try to be happy alone first xD"
Shut up fucking faggot. Setting a gay goal has nothing to do with filling the void of utter loneliness I feel. I've set many goals and accomplished all of them. It made me happy, but does nothing for the loneliness. Career-related goals, fitness-related goals, music-related goals, they're all separate to love.
I was approached by a group of ~15 YOs at Jimmy Johns the other day. Despite being massively attracted to them I stood solid like a rock and the coke overflowed in my cup.
Opportunities like that come along once every month or so, and I blew it.
Just wanted to share.