how the fuck does it work? when i try to shove my finger up my ass, it hardly seems to go in much. What exactly does the prostate feel like? I can't tell if I'm touching the prostate, or just a piece of shit that's lodged up in there. I don't even know if I'm shoving my finger up my asshole, or just rubbing around it.
Take it from someone's who's been fingering his ass everyday for like... 15 years now.
What you need to do is drink a lot of water, that pushes out absorbs everything in your system. Wrap your fingers around toilet paper and stick it up there, any shit that won't come out on it's own will come out with that. Do it until the toilet paper comes out clear. Then USUALLY you're free to finger for several hours.
Do it in the shower so if you get some unwanted stuff, you can rinse it off in the shower quickly.
You guys are cleaning your ass with inefficient ways. Take the shower head off then use that tube outside your ass, let the water rush into you. Then you shit out that water into the toilet. Keep doing it until you can handle enough water while counting to 30 at a normal pace. Personally I wait until 40-50. Then keep shitting that out over and over again. Eventually the water will be clear and your stomach will feel empty and clean. You finger your ass and make sure all the water leaves your system.
There you go, your boipussy is clean. Also buy a small dildo, fingers aren't thick enough to pleasure you, and other objects aren't smooth, safe, or hygienic. Eventually you'll want to work your way up. Make sure you're horny as fuck before you do anal play. If you're not horny or watching porn and feel like you want to get fucked in the ass like a slut, then you're not going to be productive.
Also imagine yourself as the girl when you watch porn.
What do you mean? After the ass is cleaned and clear you just wiggle your finger or preferable too in and out for a good minute or so. Feels really good.
On a related note, I think finger my own ass makes me aware of how to finger pussy/ass on a girl too. Too bad none of them will ever take advantage of my arcane anal knowledge.
I have never done it, but I think there's a difference between a guy and a grill fucking their asses because, as you said, we have a prostate.
Maybe a gay robot can tell us how it feels.
>What exactly does the prostate feel like
It feels like you have to pee, then like you have to pee, and then it feels like you're cumming.