why the fuck would you ever want a kid? if you want some fat ugly thing that just cries all the time and you have to waste thousands of dollars on for 18+ years that will still end up hating you despite that because of some retarded thing they made up in their head that you did to them you already have a wife.
>>25606421 Nah man. That moment when you see your kid and you realize he's going to have life, the experience; christmas, kissing, breaking up, getting in a fight, friendship, terror, every life experience you can imagine and more.
They say life flashes before your eyes when you die, maybe that means you die when you have a kid, because my life genuinely flashed for me then.
>>25606475 >>25606465 >>25606462 lmao you fags act like life is some disney movie and you get to raise some perfect angel and live in a comfy suburb with a 7/10 loving wife to come home to and children who love you regardless.
you niggers live life in an apple TV commericial get your head fixed
>>25606633 >being this much of a melodramatic whiner
There's a healthy bit of room between the two nonsensical descriptors you used, the "omg kids are so bad so expensive i can't afford xbox live if i have a kid :(((" and "omg kids are so divine family life is like a sitcom it's so perfect!"
having a family is fine. it's neither of these things that you're memeing it to be.
>>25606633 Just like anything, there are good days and bad days. In my opinion, the good days make the bad days worth it. Is it for everyone? Of course not, but I guess I'll just never understand why people who don't want to have kids have to be so spiteful about it.
A wife would be nice but I don't want kids. I'd rather be one half of the couple that just takes a nice vacation every year and spends the rest of their time working and enjoying themselves. The world doesn't need more kids and my older sister's already pumped out four so I don't see the need to procreate.
Soon as I find a woman who equally doesn't want kids I'll wife her.
>Getting married/having children in 2016 I'm right there with everyone else on that one. I'm only sad that it's that way at all. I grew up with the idea that someday I'd be a capable human being and find a nice girl to settle down and have a few kids with. Yeah, I bought into the idyllic fantasy that we're taught in school and from the media.
I'd still like to have that, but it's not going to happen and I know it. I can barely take care of myself, let alone a wife and children. The odds of finding a decent, non-whorish woman that'll also put up with my shit is about 0%.
This guy has a point but we're still alright. On a side note I'd say there are no men who want to marry women, only men who marry women who want to marry men. If that doesn't make sense go fuck yourself.
Also all of this is 100% true and I don't care if you don't believe me.
> Be me, married 2 years > Wife gets new job in different city, lease is up in two months so she starts her job and i close up shop > Super hot office slut i've been flirting with for months knows his > Wife leaves > We hook up > I feel insanely guilty about it and office slut hates me for not wanting to continue the affair
> Move to new city, things are going great > happily married for several years. no thoughts of cheating > We decide to get pregnant > Semen does its job > Wife can't drink anymore > One night get roaring drunk at family party and make out with wife's cousin > Cousin is super turned on, we end up fucking but I can't get off or even stay hard because whiskey dick > Give up, one last kiss > wife apparently wakes up during all this, wanders around and finds us neck deep but not fucking
Hasn't been bad at all. We function as a reasonably cohesive team working for ourselves and each other. I was worried the sex would start to suck but it's actually managed to get better over the years as we become more adventurous.
The worst part. Oh, the worst part.
Pregnancy and childbirth. My wife had to have a c-section after 33 hours of contractions. Having to walk into an OR at 3am and watch my wife get cut open was definitely not something I want to do again.
My kid is pretty dope though. Just took his first steps and, of course, his first word was daddy.
Ups and downs for sure, but I don't regret any of it.
>>25607211 >>25607270 >the jews control everything the world is shit the white man is going extinct in 20 years it will be illegal to be white niggers and women are going to destroy society >i must have a nice white wife and breed tons of white children to join the world
>50 years ago >marrying young and having children was the norm >men were happy and fulfilled >women were happy and fulfilled >children had a stable family to raise them
>now >marriage is a joke >most people have multiple sexual partners >women are obsessed with their career, trying to act like men >most people don't have kids until they are in their 30s >a lot of children are born out of wedlock, and raised by single mothers >men are not happy, no guy wants to marry a slut >women are unhappy, their bodies are screaming at them to have children, but they risk having to raise it without male support >children are all kinds of fucked up >men are giving up on women and replacing them with porn and video games >women offer so little that they are easily replaced with porn and video games >girls grow up to hate "feminine" gender roles because they were told that they are oppressive >boys grow up to hate male gender roles, because they had no father, or only an emasculated one, to teach them how to fill that role >everybody is miserable
But remember, traditional values were oppressive and made everybody sad!
I understand why people would want kids more and more as I age and I'm not even 24 yet (in a couple months), yet all the more of that I see the more I realize it isn't for me, I don't think I'm cut for that and I have such a low opinion of myself I couldn't look a child in the eyes and let him call me dad, it'd just feel horrible knowing how much he'd trust and look up to me when I know what kind of horrible wreck I am.
Still, both my parents want grandchildren and there's just some sort of immense feeling of guilt in letting a chain of life that stretches back to the very first cyanobacteria that came alive end because of my faggotry, and I love my parents, so I'd like something of them, the very best to live on past me even if I'm shit myself. Who the fuck knows, maybe one day if I can become a truly powerful individual who can actually protect a family and not just some cuck.
>>25607640 Then deal with the times you were born in, fuckboy, swim against the current, join one of those crazy cults that let you have five wives or whatever, just stop spouting your defeatist shit trying to pass it off as some kind of moral statement.
>>25607191 How old is your son? I initially couldn't wait to for my son to be mobile, but now that he's crawling and getting into everything it's crazy. It's fun but I miss the days were we he could just lay on my chest and chill.
Also, pretty much agree with you 100% on pregnancy and child birth despite it being a pretty typical labor and delivery. Placenta is nasty as fuck looking.
>>25605460 I don't need other people to justify my sense of self in life.
I am the ultimate cuck. I fuck and drink smoke and think. I fly around the world in first class. Knowing there's hookers who got datass. You think I'm worried about a wife and kids? Fuck it I'll take sweeties and beaties with porn over some bitch being loud as a horn.
Having a family ain't but shit and tricks. You got one girl to fly home to I got 2-3 in 9 countries. I don't need kids I don't want kids. I have money music and glory for all my worries.
I made my life great, no one is going to tell me my life isn't complete without love and family. I love myself fuck haters.
>>25608466 How animalistic are you? Do you howl at the moon? Are you some otherkin fucknugget? You have a wolf inside you or are you as big of a cuck as Rito? Fucking shills don't pay bills. Move out of the basement and fuck a bitch. 2d won't give you head while you browse.
It's becoming more and more common for people to not have kids. I'm very curious as to what it'll be like when we have a bunch of elderly people with no families to care for them. Will we just have an epidemic of rotting elderly corpses or will nursing homes just skyrocket. Its very interesting.
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