/r9k/, how do you completely give up and stop caring so much about women? For you wizards on here, how did you do it? I don't want to worry about getting a girlfriend, anymore. I just want to focus on finishing up my master's and on research and hobbies.
I'm starting to get tired of the game, and I just want a way to curb the urges without castrating myself.
23 year old anon who's given up on women here.
You're going to need to realize that as long as you have a social drive, the urges will always come. Work with them. Feeling horny? Fap or channel the urge into something else if possible. Feeling lonely? Go online, meet with friends if you have them.
Realize, firstly, that the urges are just that: urges, and they can be resolved without directly fulfilling them. Simply put distract yourself with different activities whenever possible.
Hookers are the answer. Once you've fucked ten or so of them you will no longer care about a relationship. You think you want to pursue a woman until you cum in her. Then she has served her purpose and your mind goes back to vidya and anime.
i relate to this thread. i've learned to satisfy my own needs myself that i don't care about women anymore. sometimes i feel like i'm watching a pov stream about my life and i can't do anything with it, but that may just be the weed talking
Youtube MGTOW, and if you take nothing else away, just realize that shits stacked against you, its objectively a poor decision and you'll be better off focusing on your self. Don't place your happiness or self worth in the hands of others, never trust anyone with something that powerful, never rely on anyone else for your happiness.