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>been going on dates with a guy for about a month >he never

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>been going on dates with a guy for about a month
>he never tries to hug or kiss me, which I think is weird, but shows interest in other ways
>he always texts me first, makes plans for us to hang out every weekend, etc.
>figure he is just shy and waiting for me to make the first move
>invite him to a party with my friends one night
>get pretty drunk and I ask him to go back to my place
>kind of expecting him to start making out with me as soon as we get there, but he just sits on a chair and sort of stares at me
>ask him to cuddle with me, he begrudgingly agrees
>try to kiss him and he pulls away
>tells me he just wants to sleep
>ok.png
>next morning, I wake up and he is wide awake, staring at the ceiling
>"h-hey.. do you want to get breakfast or something? i'm too hungover to drive you home right now"
>says he isn't hungry
>says to not worry, he'll just walk
>he lives five miles away
>"that's k-kinda a long way to walk. i can drive you home later, it's not a problem"
>says he'll just walk
>gets up and fucking walks home
>never talks to me again
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>#wastehertime2016

Based
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>>25597552
Women confirmed shit tier and whores.
>I'm dating this guy
>We just met
>Why isn't he shoving his cock deep inside me XD?
Fucking roasty, if a guy doesn't want sex he doesn't want it, jesus christ you're a clueless piece of shit.
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>>25597552
You're probably fat or ugly, or both.
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Is all women think about is getting pounded? Christ woman are all whores,
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>>25597552

hahaha get fucked roastieee,,,,

fuck rsst
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>>25597619
I didn't ask for sex. We'd been seeing each other for over a month and I just wanted to make out. Is that n-not a normal timeline?

>>25597636
I'm okay looking. Not fat. We met on a dating site and he kept asking me out on dates, so I assume he didn't have problems with the way I look.
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>>25597692
>doing anything lewd before marriage
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>>25597552
He's thinking of someone else. She still has his heart, and his balls are chained to it. Don't take it personally, I'm sure youre a qt.
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Hate to be that guy but women rly have shittaste in men
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You were probably WAY too needy.
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>>25597720
He's a quiet dude who seemed boring and nice. I thought I'd give him a chance.
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>>25597763
But you're a whore. He deserves better
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>>25597692
>one month
>ONE
>fucking
>month
Don't you have porn you can watch or something?
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>>25597801
>>25597823
what exactly is a normal amount of time to wait before kissing a new person
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>>25597763
That guy deserves better than a roastie.
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>>25597881
Wedding day t.b.h
Anything else is low tier normie trash
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>>25597710
>tfw 4chan is turning into a fundamentalist Christian board
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>>25597881
Kissing is different. Normal kissing right away, heavy kissing 1/2 year to 1 year, and french kissing a few months after that. THEN you move on to sex if you're a degenerative fuck and not waiting for marriage like you're supposed to.
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>>25597692
>I'm okay looking
Post a pic or something maybe you are lying
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>>25597881
2nd date max, sex the first week Or first date if you're both cool with it
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>>25597552
>>25597692
>>25597763

Assuming you're actually who you say you are and not just some shitposter, I'm actually inclined to be on your side for this one.
I'm not sure what the dude's motives were, but I feel bad for you. It seems you made it pretty obvious, but he wasn't interested and just led you on. Girls have done that shit to me before and it pisses me off.
My girlfriend and I had been seeing each other for about two weeks the first time we made out, so I don't think a month is unreasonable.
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>dates
>Parties

"Fembots" ladies and gentlemen.
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>>25597980
So much bait in one post it hurts
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>>25597980
Well memed my good man!
>>25597881
Most people will kiss goodnight on the end of the first date if it went well enough to justify a second date and you aren't living in a sharia zone. He sounds like a real fuckin headcase fampai. At least since you're a roastie your online dating profile should be inundated with other thirsty betas.
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>>25598084
Can't be b8 when everything he said is correct
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>>25598074
I haven't been here in months. I L I T E R A L L Y just came back to tell this story.
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>>25597552

You stupid whore everyone knows you don't have sex 1 month in. You take it in the ass like a good girl for first month then you can have sex after the 1st month of dating.
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>>25598128
And we'll tell you that you're a whore every time you act like one.
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>>25598128
Don't let the door hit you on the way out, you dumb cunt. Take your stories back to tumblr.
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>>25598123
Deleted my profile that same day. I can't deal with this shit.

Fun fact: he deleted his profile sometime around our second date. He hasn't put it back up.
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>>25598139
Save the front hole for Jesus senpai
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>>25598128
Go back to real life, lady. You're not welcome here.
Btw, tits or gtfo.
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>>25597552
oh well... i had something similar going on. Turned out i was his rebound-girl and he was still all over his ex, which broke up over a year ago.
We still hang out though, but he can be weird/austic sometimes.
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http://socialpathology.blogspot.com.au/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/08/21/more-sexual-partners-unhappy-marriage_n_5698440.html
http://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2012/08/more-promiscuity-data.html
:^)
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Lose some weight
hit the gym
feel good about urself
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>>25597552

>not straight up asking "why dont you want to get intimate?"

why are women so fucking stupid?
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>>25598254
correlation causation
data without critical thought it so much fun
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>>25598289
t. roastie
Get fucked degenerate
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>>25598203
too sad. I don't think I'll have the energy to enter the normie world again for a while.

>>25598272
I didn't want him to feel like I was pushing him.
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>why won't he have sex with me when i'm drunk so i can blackmail him
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>>25597881

whenever you both want it, there is no predetermined set time, it just happens.
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>>25597692
Timeline is fine.
He just wasn't into you
>I assume he didn't have problems with the way I look.
That's your first mistake.
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>>25598313
GET OUT YOU ROASTED VAGINA
GET THE FUCK
OFF
OUR
BOARD
NORRMIIEEE SCUUMMM
REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
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>Fat bitch
>Wants to make out in front of a bunch of people
>Fat bitch wants to cuddle in front of people

He obviously wanted OP as a fuck toy behind closed doors, since P is either fat as fuck or as ugly as a hemorrhoid.
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>>25597552
Get rekt kid, gg
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>>25598313

>>25598272 (You)
>I didn't want him to feel like I was pushing him.

forcing him to go to parties, go to your place fuck of you dumb whore, stop doing mental gymnastics, you fucked it up

fucking leave this place
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>>25598342
>>25598369
He's the one who kept asking me out, man. The 'incident' did happen behind closed doors. And I'm not fat.
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>>25598422

Shut the fuck up, bitch. Just because your fat groups tell you to be a strong womyn and that your 220 pound 5ft4 frame isn't obese are wrong.
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>>25598369
>>25598378
I realize that the original post was a little unclear. Series of events is

>go to party
>have a nice time
>I get drunk enough to ask him to go home with me
>we go back to my place
>he is not interested in touching me at all
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>>25598422
Hey, I'm waiting for the tities. C'mon, honney.
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>>25598473
>>he is not interested in touching me at all

Because hes disgusted of you, what don't you get you disgusting pile of trash? Now fuck off and go back to tumblr/reddit.
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>>25598422
Something is not adding up
I assume you're leaving something out
Is he a faggot, or are you just haggard?
I'd say you should post a timestamped pic, but I honestly don't care.
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>>25598510

Of course he is, bitch is thirsty for sex even though shes a female, just look at her Op's picture. He probably sensed shes a gigantic slut and did a runner.
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>>25598473
Assuming you're not a train crash, maybe he is a fag or a limp dick. Or he thinks you were so hungry for his dick and thinks you're a hoe.
Now show your fucking tities.
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>>25597881
Is she b8 or are anons b8ing her? This thread is hilarious.
>w-w-when is it normal to kiss
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>>25598884
both. happy halloween
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>>25597552

Your boyfriend is Raiden from metal gear solid
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>>25597552
Pic with timestamp OP, we'll decide about this matter.
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perhaps the lad has a thing against drunk sex or drinking or something?
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>>25598084
>Being pure and holy is a meme
Welp I gave my advice, it's pretty clear society has been too corrupted to even care about that stuff anymore.
>>25598123
I'm not meme-ing, sex is supposed to be a gift from one spouse to another not some cheap trick you pull on some roasty when you're bored.
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>>25597552
>>get pretty drunk

maybe this was the problem? i'd be scared of having sex with a drunk girl because of the whole rape thing.
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>>25599660
Legit conjecture
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>>25597619
Fred Phelps, please leave.
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>>25599584

>kv's making an excuse for their virginity.

Sex really isn't that big of a deal bro.
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Repeating digits lmao >>25599999
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>>25599660
I'd honestly day a good 90% of all sex between non married couples is done while drunk
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>>25599584
Literally no one cares. Just because stacy didn't give you a chance does not mean it's wrong for people to have sex before they marry in their 20s or later. Not even moralfucks think like this you degenrate.
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I didn't initiate anything with my first and only gf. Broke up because of that. I was too scared to do the wrong thing and embarrass myself.
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>>25597552
Maybe stop acting like such a slut and men will respect you more.
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>>25597552
Hi OP. KV here. My guess is that either you disgusted him with your behavior or he was too shy.
The funny thing is that I would have reacted the same way, due to being alone all my life I have trouble expressing affection.
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>>25597984
This right here. I sleep with women as quickly as possible. It is a good way to quickly get to know each other and see if you're truly compatible.
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Seems to me that he's not heterosexual family. Anyway have you tried talking to him why he acts this way?
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>>25600759
>alone all my life
>trouble expressing affection

definitely also consider this op
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either you're fat/ugly or he's gay

/thread
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>>25597552

He just realized you where an useless roastie whore and left, He's pretty based in my opinion, he thought you could be the one he wanted, turned out you were only a bitch among the others in his book.


You'll have Chad's dick in no time on your dating site, don't come crying here you fucking roastie whore.
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pretty sure OP is a man, but here goes:

-does he ask you questions when you go out?
-does he listen to your responses? i mean like actually listen.. have you tested him?
-does he pay you compliments?
-does he pay for your meals when you go out?
-does he text in a fun loving way, or just to make plans?
-did you bother to ask him how he feels?

it could just be he's lonely. or gay. or both. or not attracted to you.
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>>25597980
>heavy kissing
top zozzle
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>>25600979
>-does he listen to your responses? i mean like actually listen.. have you tested him?

I'm assuming that you're a woman or a fag, so if so, does this actually happen? Why test people?
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You're not entitled to it you disgusting womanchild.
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>>25601083
Go back to /b/ and kill yourself.
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>>25597552
I've acted in a similar fashion to him.
The reason for that is my mother is an alcoholic and I get extremely uncomfortable around people who are drunk (when I'm not).
I was dating a girl once who got really drunk and it just struck me as a massive turn off, enough for me to break up with her. Though I had at least kissed her before.

Obviously that's just a shot in the dark, but if he acted fine on previous dates and was only wierd about it then, it might be something like that.
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>>25601099
>does this actually happen? Why test people?

clearly has NEVER dated a woman

you are always getting tested. ALWAYS. even when you are married. the ride never ends, gents
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>>25597881
>"before kissing"

Yeah right roast beef slut.
We both know you were looking for more than just "kissing"

Here's what actually happened. He could tell by the way you were trying to get him to have sex with you that you must have done so with dozens of other guys before and therefore that you're used goods who does not value sexual and emotional intimacy.

That's what was going through his mind while he was looking at you trying to seduce him like a cheap whore who'll open her legs easily.
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>>25600979
>yes
>yes, would reference past conversations
>not really. but i don't like compliments, so whatever
>yes. I would always offer to pay half and he would refuse
>not really fun way, but we would have conversations outside of making plans
>he kept asking me out on dates so I figured that was a big enough indicator of interest that I shouldn't be worrying
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sounds like hes on the spectrum. a normal red blooded male would have tried SOMETHING. pretty sure my dick would have made an appearance within 10 min when invited to a girls place. hes broken
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>>25601318
does he smile when you're together? does his face light up genuinely? or is it just straight talk with no emotion?

what do you discuss? is it vivid memories, aspirations/dreams, or just boring day to day stuff?

how often do you text? does he joke at all? you said you have conversations but is it just day to day stuff like 'i'm at work'?

he should be switched on when he's with you. does he lean in when he talks? look you straight in the eyes? smile?

i'm a man FYI. this is how i get when i date someone that i really respond to. could be he's just autistic too.
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>>25597552
you are a slut and he doesn't want any of your diseases
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>>25599980
Sex is a big deal, as it sets up most of the relationships between people, as it creates the basis for a family
>>25600052
>le man of hologram projection
When sex is done, one must be sure it's done with the partner you're going to stick in, else you're fueling the degradation of the west.

Here's a story:
chad fucks and dumps virgin girl, she becomes a cock loving whore that will invite her virgin friends to parties full of chads and degenerates that attempt to imitate chad, 2 out of 5 girls fuck a chad or a wannable and become whores doing the same process with their friends, in the meantime guys who initially had a chanse with these girls now are completely unable to approach them as they are slurping all the cock they want, so they become betas and orbiters, hoping these whores will someday give them a piece. In the meantimes those guys disgusted by all this (just like me and the guy you answered) are placed at the same level of these pathetic betas, just because they don't partake in the madness of normies. All this leads to the degradation of the family unit, the basis for society, that leads to hordes of mudslimes being able to invade europe without finding any resistance, as betas and their soft ways, made into decisional roles in society, all this enhanched by jewery, getting profit by mudlsime cheap workforce.
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>>25601530
>you're going to stick with*
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>>25601447
No to most of this stuff, but they don't apply to me either. I think we're both slightly autistic, which is why I liked hanging out with him.

Doesn't matter. Got rejected and am now going to hide away from the world.
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>tfw you have done this before and are pretty sure you are doing this to a girl you like right now.
Pls kill me. I dont deserve life.
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>>25601557
>Doesn't matter. Got rejected and am now going to hide away from the world.

i've been rejected too. many times. it isn't fun. just be wiser the next time and know what to look for. always gauge the interest level. you should be getting lots of questions, smiles, and jokes if the guy really is intrigued by you.
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>>25597552
Guys the answer here is VERY obvious. She kissed some other dude at the party or was flirting with other dudes. That's why he is pissed.
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>>25597552
You are trolling. If not, look women you are not the center of universe. And walking is a relaxatipn exercise and he dont need to fit in your square mentality
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>>25597692
You are pretty an attention whore. You want validation amd attention and frustrated to noy having him in his kness after you. Your ego is busted
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>>25598289
Hey retard, from the perspective of a rational decision the causative relation or whether there are 3rd factors causing the association does not matter.

All that matters is that if something is a good predictor of an undesirable outcome then it is a good idea to avoid people with that indicator.

From the perspective of a male looking for a faithful, long-lasting relationship, it does not matter whether promiscuous behaviour causes women to be unfaithful or whether unfaithful personalities make women be promiscuous or whether there are other factors causing both of them. The fact remains that once you know a girl has fucked a bunch of guys before you, you know that she is 8 times more likely to cheat on you than a virgin (independent of other information) so the rational thing from that man's perspective is to avoid used goods and seek virgins or girls with low numbers.

Maybe you would have realised this if you thought about your reply a bit more critically, scrub.

Get wrekt
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>>25597980
So wait, you're actually suggesting I get married in this shitty self-destructive society? No thanks.
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>>25597552
saw right through you Stacey,
better luck next time.
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>>25601557
Haha being so coward and playing the victim. Go outside to enjoy your life
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>>25597617

First post is best post.
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>>25601763
y-yes. I want affection and attention in return for me being affectionate towards him and giving him attention. is that not what a r-relationship is
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>>25601887
Probably fan fiction
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>>25601900
Well, go find another dude. Saying you want to close your world go ahead and be cowar to life
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>>25601530
>chad fucks and dumps virgin girl, she becomes a cock loving whore

Your meme turned to shit within one sentence.
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>>25597552
You're not entitled to his sex you fucking shitlord
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>>25601225
Yea,nothing more depressing than seeing a woman needing to be dead drunk in order to consider getting physical with you...

Why not cook him a dinner? Even if you never tried to,both of you tackling the problem together will be fun and sweet. And you might get him relaxed enough to talk about your concerns.

There was an old movie called Flashdance,where the main character was a pixie-cute dancer who had the same problem.She confronts him at the end of a date when he politely declines going inside her apartment after he walked her home. She thinks there's something wrong with her,but it's actually something Too Right:he sees her as some rare magical being he dare not soil with his animal gratifications. She just stares at him,takes his hand and sticks it under her blouse! "I'm a WOMAN".

Ah,the thought of that scene makes me SQUEE every time...you may want to track it down on Netflix. He might take the hint.
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>>25601903
>thinking that ruins it for me
Oh, normie.
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>>25597552
you tried to rape him
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>>25601900
But only if you find partner. He did not want u. Get over it whinny girl
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>>25601787
>So wait, you're actually suggesting I get married to a shitty self-destructive person?
Fixed that for you, and no. Plus if you're really that pessimistic just get off to some porn or some shit.
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>>25601999
I am a robot pal
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>>25601786

What do you really assume the pecentage of 20+ year old virgins is? And then from there, what percentage of them do you think would ever wife you?
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Be sure to report OP for illegal content, she is admitting to comitting a crime (sexual assault)
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>>25597713
Probably this.
He wasn't too committed to this online dating thing in the first place and now he's tried it out he's seen it's not for him right now.

I know I've been there.
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It's pretty clear that the boy in OP did not want intimate contact with OP, but she tried to force it anyways by asking for "cuddles". He begrudgingly agreed because he was afraid for his life.

SILENCE IS NOT CONSENT

NO MEANS NO

HIS BODY, HIS RULES
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>>25601557
I can relate to this guy. I've never been good at displaying emotions to people, especially romantic or happy emotions. Maybe this guy had a similar problem. He could look so apathetic all the time because he's afraid of giving off the wrong "signal" when displaying his affection for you. He could've been scared of you, meaning he was put off by your display of affection because he didn't know how to reciprocate it, or was worried that by trying to reciprocate it he'd fuck up and you'd leave him. Then, afterwards he probably realized he messed up and decided not to contact you again to push it out of his head. I actually did something similar to this when I was in high school, and just avoided dating at all for most of college, but I learned to get past it.
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>>25602163
I should probably ask, or else my advice is probably not relevant to what actually happened. Did he say he dated before he met you, OP?
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>>25601475
>NEETbots fear STDs
>yet live in abject squalor and practice abysmal hygiene

Kekaroonies
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>>25602071
She is a deviant pal
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>>25597881
kissed my first gf on 2nd date
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>>25602066
>20+ year old

Lmao when was this obligatory ? Way to show how desperate you are

Also even though the percentage gets low quite quickly in western countries like America are are easily identifiable sub-populations where the percentage is higher , for example Mormon and Muslim girls.

I already had a hot, Muslim, Virgin girl I was close to marrying (had marriage meeting with her father to get permission) but it fell through . I don't feel my chances are bad to find another one. I'm already able to do quite well with used goods sluts.
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>>25602308
I remember asking him at one point if he'd ever had any relationships and he said "not very long ones" or something like that.
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>>25602684
It was a signal of bot
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>>25602684
He may have the problem I described then. Anyway him leaving wasn't your fault if this is the case. He just doesn't have confidence in his emotions and thus decides not to display them. That doesn't mean he wasn't interested in you, though. You could try to contact him again.
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>>25602782
Maybe he'll get over his problem eventually.
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>>25597552
>gets drunk around friends
>probably been gangbanged
>tries to make out and cuddle while smelling like piss and alcohol
>guy afraid of being puked on in the middle of the night but don't want to watch girl choke on vomit
>horrible experience
>leaves girl to avoid it ever happening again
I don't see the problem here
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>>25597552
>>25598473

I think you being drunk and disorderly turned him off. He probably thought you were a nice well rounded girl when you guys went on dates. Then you got faced at a party and brought him home ready to fuck.

You probably should have determined some boundaries first. But you're a girl, you'll find a new guy soon enough.
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>>25598314
>>25598314
>>25598314
>>25598314
>>25598314
So nobody is going to acknowledge this? You guys are fucking stupid
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>>25603056
It was not OP retard
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