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Hey robots, I need your help to not screw my shot with a girl

This weekend we will have a family party and one of my relatives said he has invited a female friend that he will present to me. By the evaluation given by my relatives and the background check that I did on my own, she seems like a nice girl that will suit me just well. Thing is I'm autistic as hell and have high chances of spilling spaghetti all over the place.

How do I not screw everything?

I know how to break the ice and have a nice and fun conversation at the beginning. What kills my game is that I don't know how to move the conversation to the next level.

What should I do in the described situation in case we end up connecting well? Should I just try to get her contact info to later invite her to a date? Or should I try to kiss her right at the party? If kiss in the party is the answer, how can i drive the conversation in such way that it reaches this end?
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It depends what you guys are going to do
Just take her out for ice cream or on a date or something, y'know?
Be assertive
Be alpha
Dont' spahhetti
BECOME CHAD
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don't even fucking bother

you're just gonna get hurt
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>>25596023
I have already been hurt for acting like a beta. If it is to get hurt again then I want it to happen as an alpha.
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>>25596092

except you'll do so as some pathetic fake alpha

you will never be alpha

give up
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>>25596092
this sentence breaks my heeart
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>>25596092

> I have already been hurt for acting like a beta

details? because something similar happened to me

"OH I'M NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU HUH?"
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>>25596213
>new job
>meet qt 3.14 co-worker
>insta crush
>don't have any kind of talk with her for over an year
>one day she just started chatting with me
>never saw she doing this with other guys
>omg she is completely in love with me
>became friends, have lunches together
>ask her out
>shesaidyes.jpg
>fap furiously for days
>before the date happens, she cancels everything
>justkillmeknow.mp4
>anon, you are very handsome and cool but I just don't feel the same as you, I'm sorry if I made you confuse, I'm pretty sure you will find some awesome girl that will really like you
>starts avoiding me
>about two years later we got close again and she dumped me again

The main point here is that she actually liked me, I shouldn't have waited one year or so to get friends with her and ask her out. I don't know exactly where I screwed but I know that behaving like a beta actually helped to fuck my chances
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>>25596497
>>never saw she doing this with other guys
I mean, take the initiative to chat with someone far from her work circle
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>>25596497
>>25596537

and how did you get hurt here, exactly?
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>>25596682
I was totally in love for a girl that gave me false hope and then just dumped me?

Also, she was a co-worker, I used to see her everyday after she rejected me, it hurt like hell

Are you fapping to this?
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>>25596759

people like you are the fucking reason women reply like this nowadays

> "hey what t-"
> "I have a boyfriend"
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>>25595941
Remember OP, if this work and you score a gf then YOU ARE A FUCKING NORMIE AND WILL BE EXPELLED IMMEDIATELY REEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!
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>>25596882
I know senpai, I'm trying to change, I just want to become a normie with a cool girl by my side
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>>25596092
>If it is to get hurt again then I want it to happen as an alpha.

You've already failed.

The best thing you can do here is simply talk to this girl without any expectations. Your best case scenario / goal should be getting her number if everything goes really well. Anything more is pretty much a recipe for failure.
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