It's been a month today ;_;
>"we should stay as friends anon, we get along really well"
>haven't spoken to her since
Should I text her? Fuck me I really miss her robots, she's literally the only person that shown interest to me and we literally haven't said a thing to each other for 1 month. What do I do?
This is what you do..
Text her and say something like
>hey Amy I'll be over at 7:00
This is assuming her name isn't actually Amy.
She will then text back a question or say something like I am not Amy.
Then just say oops sorry...
Let her stew on it a bit and wait for her to contact you back and play a little hard to get.
Unless she has a steady boyfriend she will want to see you again.
Don't do this, there is absolutely no way this will work, she will know you're just trying to make her jealous with a fake situation.
Don't contact her, force yourself to not do it. You WILL move on eventually.
No. Women only ask to remain friends as a form of alleviating any accountability or responsibility from themselves.
When you decide that being friends doesn't fill the void she left and decide that contact is only making the healing process much more painful she can be seen as the golden beam of sunlight that offered you a helping hand that you hit away like a bitter manchild.
Women are vile creatures that stop at nothing to ensure they're the victims in any given situation. No matter how downtrodden you feel as a result of the breakup she will insist (most likely behind your back) that the problem is and always has been you.
This picture is so true.
The first week of the breakup I thought I would be ok. But than you start thinking of her, and the memories come back, and than you are texting and writing her like a fool. I'm 3-4 months in from a break up over a girl who I loved (still do some) and was with for 3 years. I still stay up at night thinking of her and feeling sick and sad. It's harder for guys because girls can easily get other guys, but it can sometimes be rare for another girl to come in our lives , especially a girl that can live up to a girl you loved for 3 years and built a lot of emotional shit over. It almost seems daunting to think you have to start all the stuff over with a new chick, and than you start thinking "what if it all turns to shit again", Being a man hurts sometimes. I think we attain high value of the traits loyalty, compassion, and empathy than females.
What a blatantly shitty idea you dropped there. There is no way someone would fall for that and you'll wind up appearing desperate as fuck.
Just move on anon, don't contact her under any circumstances
you are basically me. its been years and im still not over her. i have, however, started to embrace being a shut in and am starting to accept that ill never find a woman who measures up. there are advantages to being single, grass is always greener on the other side, if i did have a gf i would eventually start getting annoyed, sex would eventually be boring, and id want to play lol more than spend time with them
the reason she is doing well isnt because women are magically different, its because she was planning on breaking up with you and probably talked with her friends about it and already had the emotional fallout with support from her peers. you are feeling bad because you were unprepared
It's been nearly 5 months here. I noticed she unblocked me on facebook on new years eve, it's funny really because that's the first time I checked. Then I got blocked again 2 days later.
It gets easier, even when I think about her it doesnt hurt my heart anymore, the opposite of love is indifference
>falling for the "let's be friends" meme
You don't want to know what she's doing and you don't want her to know what you're doing. I mean, if you don't rocket ahead in life she'll just feel happy about breaking up with you and she'll think you're pathetic. You also have to see that she's getting dicked by whatever guy.
It might hurt one person a lot but it's really better not to be friends.
This. There should be another chart showing one month beforehand showing the girl telling her friends amout planning it and talking to other guys to look for a replacement. For women having a BF is like having a job; you never leave your current job before finding a new one if you can help it, even if it gets really bad. Then they also like leaving on amicable terms to have good references for future bfs/employers. If there's a big gap in having a bf that could be a red flag for future bfs.
>having a girlfriend
>coming to r9k
NORMIE! GET OUT OF MY FUCKING BOARD
The week image should be the girl with her new bf. From my experience with all women all around me. My 5 sisters and female friends all had a new bf within a week. Even when they were the ones that got dumped. The longest I ever saw one without a bf was a month and that was just because she was preparing to move. Within 2 days of moving my sister informed us that she had a new bf.
You faggots are pathetic. as long as the anon stayed within the frame the curiousity within this girl will eat her up. She will have to find out what's going on with this guy.
This is assuming she doesn't have some steady chad to fuck.
He just needs to make sure he never acknowledges that it was a ruse. Just say
And leave it at that. Make sure to ignore anything else she says for atleast 20 or so hours.
straight auts cuddo you aint even be koofin aye ee uhh
i lived with my ex for 3 years
when she left i got really drunk every day for a few months
it's about a year and a half later and i'm still drunk everyday, but not as sad now.
i'm going to visit her next week
i'm going to die.
If you do just keep her around as a friend. You have to get rid of the feelings because being with her will make you less lonely but she won't want to get back to you, but that's okay. You can focus on other things while not being lonely and if she wants you again it will just be a pleasant surprise.
Why did you break up? Those things haven't changed. If anything, she has sucked so much nigger dick since you broke up that she has a coon baby in her esophagus. Let her go. She's a whore, because all women are.
Of all the men I've ever spoken to who have had girlfriends all but one have been ecstatic after the first few hours. The most you'll hear them complaining about is having to go without sex until they find someone else.
Source: about a dozen people I knew closely who had relationships spanning near or over a year who broke up
This is honestly some Freshmen high school shit. Literally my freshmen year gf tried this. It was see through then and assuming OP actually is this sites age requirement it'll be pitiful at his age.
You have some serious caching up to do.