>tfw mom smokes cigarettes all the time >told me she would stop 10 years ago >wasn't able to quit then, will never be able to quit ever >one day she will have smoked one too many and leave me i already did everything i can to make her stop but she wont i'm really scared of losing her
>>25591160 >I know some smokers who have lived into their late 70 so? i also know some who have died because of it i used to smoke for 2 years too when i was 20 and it's the dumbest thing i've ever done.
i know many people don't die from smoking but it makes me so sad to see her distroying her body just because of an addiction and that for over a decade my dad has been smoking for 40 years but i couldn't care less if he died
>>25591322 you are right anon, it's all just down to genetics. There are plenty of smokers who live into their nineties, and people who never smoked who get lung cancer. It might increase chances if you're susceptible but it's still all just down to luck. Same with cardiovascular disease and everything else
>>25590956 No matter how much i mentaly prepare myself to this, i know it's gonna hit me like a brick and i know i'm gonna regret every time i treated her like shit because i was mad about stupid things
I was always really terrified of the possibility of my Mom dying. She would text me while driving sometimes and I'd full out rage over it.
My Mom was making dinner when I was 16, and then she went into her bedroom to lay down. She said that her head felt like she had been hit by a truck. I finished up dinner for her and then asked her if I should call an ambulance, she had her head under her pillow and told me that she'd be very mad at me if I called 911 over a headache. So, against my instincts, I didn't call. About 15 minutes later I hear the most voilent vomiting sounds, run to her room and she's puking all over herself and convulsing. She had a brain aneurysm. I remember riding in the ambulance with her and holding her face, screaming at her to look at me and stay awake. She was a vegetable in the hospital for three months and had many strokes. They told me that even if she recovered she wouldn't be able to use the left side of her body, would never be able to read (she loved reading) or walk or talk. I chose to pull the plug. I keep a vacuum sealed bag of some of her clothes in my closet and when I'm sad I'll sit in my closet crying hysterically while huffing them. There is honestly no replacement feeling for comfy hugs from your Mom, it doesn't exist, nothing/nobody will ever feel as nice as that. I'm really scared that one day the clothes won't smell like her any more. (It's inevitable, I know.)
SO BOTTOM LINE: If you are scared of losing your Mom please go and do something nice with her. It's so so so important, just please. PLEASE. Go for a walk on the beach alone together or a long drive. Get her a surprise gift card to bath and body works. Look at your old childhood drawings or photos together, eat ice cream. Take her to the movies. Tell her you love her.
>>25595249 >>25591223 >>25591358 By the way, my Mom was only 39 when this happened to her and she was reasonably fit. You can't rely on ages, you never know when it could happen. It's so fucking instant. >>25594714 I felt that way. REALLY, REALLY guilty. I was a horrible and bratty kid, huge rebel and constantly worrying her. She was always chasing me around and sitting with me in the principals office. But despite me being a teenage degenerate, you couldn't fucking tell her that I wasn't going graduate and go to university and be successful. I don't know how she put up with me but she would always fight for me. Your Mom loves you unconditionally, anon. Your Mom will never hold anything you've done against you when she's dying. She understands, she knows you're sorry. Just make new good memories that outweigh the bad ones.
>tfw noone even called me out of school as my mom was in her lasts moments at dying from cancer >tfw get back home from school and dont see my mom, thinking she went back to hospital >tfw dad comes 10min later and tells me she passed away
>get mommy in habit of leaving breakfast for you outside your door every morning >do not engage with mommy during the day unless she initiates it >breakfast isn't there one day >go immediately out your window and down a fire ladder >tell a safe neighbor to call police >if false alarm, reiterate to mommy how important it is that you get your breakfast first thing every morning it's like you're not even trying.
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