I really don't get the hate for single moms on this board. Many of them are just trying to make the most of a bad situation after getting pumped and dumped by Chad. There's no harm in at least talking to them and seeing if you're compatible.
>>25579220 >raising the chad spawn of a stacey too retarded to be on birth control come the fuck on, anyone with a risk of a tiny person growing inside them should be responsible enough to take a fucking pill
>>25579240 date highschool sweetheart and think happily ever after, he changes his mind as he gets older and wants to fuck random girls, child is already born. How is that her fault? >>25579243 It takes two to tango you know, and in some cases its the guys fault entirely. Men aren't well known to have self control when it comes to sleeping around. >>25579250 Like I said, she could have easily made the mistake of picking the wrong guy when she was young, but how is that her fault? she's young, naive and inexperience. Everyone makes mistakes, people don't just know who they should end up with. >>25579261 What better cause than to pay for a childs upbringing so he/she has a decent chance in life. All that money would have gone into booze, drugs or hookers anyways. At least this way the money is going to a good cause. Its not a trick, its just what should be done.
>>25579339 What's wrong with being a "cuckold," other than because 4chan says it's wrong? I married a single mother three years ago and am more of a dad to her son than his deadbeat biological father could ever be. They don't even talk to each other.
If you want to raise another man's child, go right ahead. You're right, you can get a hotter woman than you usually get if you're willing to date single moms but the tradeoff is being a cuck and a beta provider.
I'd rather find a woman who hasn't given her best years to another man and is only with me because she fucked her life up by having a child. I will not compromise there.
You're trying to be rational with men who haven't held a girls hand, let alone had an actual relationship with a living breathing person.
These children exist in the mindset you had when you were 12 and thought you'd get a GF and it'd last forever. They have no sense of how relationships deteriorate, or how people change or grow or stagnate, etc, over the time they're together.
>>25579402 If your baby burnt their hand on the oven would you just say haha you deserve it because you should have known better? thats ridiculous.
I already said shes young and inexperience, when you are that age you aren't particularly good at making the right decisions and if a guy you love is asking you for sex more times than not you are going to give into what he wants and your own teenage hormones. Its not her fault. She's the victim here.
You can't be a cuck if you enter into a relationship AFTER she's fucked other guys. You should actually look up what the words you use mean instead of coming across as an idiot AND an omega.
My point was if you never got to experience the best years of a woman, then you are a beggar and not a chooser and your refusal to compromise doesn't matter because you are not actually being offered anything to turn down.
>at store about to pay for items >two girls in front of me >one is cute as fuck >she's talking about how she's been single for 4 years and hates it >"wahh guys are so shallow" >wonder if she has mental issues or something >suddenly she stops talking and starts power walking away from her friend >"KAYDEN, GET AWAY FROM THAT"
stupid roastie broke the cock carousel's cardinal rule: don't get pregnant
>>25579383 >What better cause than to pay for a childs upbringing so he/she has a decent chance in life. All that money would have gone into booze, drugs or hookers anyways. At least this way the money is going to a good cause. Its not a trick, its just what should be done.
>telling yourself this because you desperately want to be better than someone.
No-one really cares if you date single mothers. Actually commiting to them might be a bit of a different story, but there is absolutely no way having a mummy as a fuck toy is worse than being an adult who has never fucked anyone.
>>25579769 My sister constantly asks me for cash to help raise her bastard children she had because of her poor life choices she made. Also you should be careful. Even being a friend to a single mother in the US can get courts ordering you to pay child support.
>>25579447 I suppose you are right but it still something that needs to be said >>25579474 because it can happen out of the blue, suddenly one day he leaves or cheats >>25579673 the father is gone, thats the whole point, so now she is left to raise the kids alone and have you ever done that before because its one of the toughest things in this world. She's doing her best and if that means having to go out to find any source of income she can so that her child gets a decent life then shes a pretty good mother. Plus she is giving another guy the opportunity to do the honorable thing by helping a child in need of a father and security. >>25579567 It could be any age, but that age refers to a point in your life where you are lacking in experience. If you got scammed by someone is that really your fault? ever heard of fool me once shame on you? fool me twice shame on me? Its not a woman's fault she's inexperience, everyone goes through that phase. Everyone makes mistakes. She could have easily thought the father was the one but then one day he decides to fuck his way across europe and disappear forever.
Robots are the guys who eventually drop the bluster and commit to single mothers. Dating a single mother is usually a mutual agreement to be fuck friends. Only a total fucking omega would actually offer one an actual relationship.
Just like the practice girl / practice girlfriend confustion meme, you autists fail once again to grasp the significant details.
>be 31 year old making (barely, but still) six figures >upwardly mobile as fuck >happy, healthy, successful, sexually experienced, single >go on dating sites >admittedly 6/10 at best, maybe even a 5 >still get dozens of unsolicited messages >get replies from every single woman I message who is over the age of 21, and about half the ones 21 and younger >don't need any "game," just have to be pleasant and outgoing and talk about cool stuff I did and the conversation flows >mfw literally laughing out loud when single moms message me >mfw literally pounding my desk in raucous laughter when a single mother expects me to talk to her >mfw laughing just as hard at all the 30+ year olds who will never have children because their wombs have dried up, and you can tell they regret it and are trying desperately to pretend they're still young >mfw going right ahead and only replying to 22 year old secretaries with nice asses
>>25579964 Yeah, I think it fucked me in the head a little. I have some strange and mostly negative views towards sex. Unfortunately it didn't completely destroy my libido so I'm in some sort of hellish virginal Limbo.
I think the worst point was walking out of my room and seeing my mother in the living room all over a guy that couldn't have been a day over 18. I was 22 at the time.
Abortion is still legal. Adoption is always an option.
If they were in a relationship and got left by the babydaddy or something, I feel for them, but what guy in his right mind wants to get tangled up in that? The ex could be a crazy stalker and you would NOT be able to avoid him.
I have NO problem with someone of any sex having sex "before they're married", but I do have a problem with bringing a baby into the world without a secure way to raise them. Unless you are independently wealthy and don't need to work, don't make a kid because it will ruin your working life AND your home life, and certainly your future dating life. And I assure you, that kid is not going to grow up and cure cancer; odds are high they'll end up in jail.
>forcefully introduced to semi-attractive lady at local new years gathering >she's a single mom >nope.png >maintaining polite conversation while trying to find excuse to wander away from her >eye catches solid 10/10 leggy blonde tween girl in dangerously short dress >she comes up to us >"Mom I have nothing to do!" >mfw
Obviously, I widow did not get there by a faulyt of her own (unless she killed him, pa dum, pum) but still, why would you want to date someone who will ALWAYS have another person who is more important to them and more needy, than you are, even if it's a pretty good kid. Never mind when the kid is a hellion and tries to interfere with you and the mom on purpose.
Maybe they should have group homes for single/widowed women, for support, and guys could just stop in an fuck one and leave, without having to deal with the kid.
oh come on, some single mothers are widows, who are very nice women, but had the unfortunate luck of losing her husband. don't dismiss all single mothers, I agree that single mothers who left or were left by choice are fucking scum
>>25579812 This is true. They can try to nail your ass because you are a 'fatherly figure'. Which is why you should never EVER date a single mom in the USA. Its much harder to deny if you are dumb enough to date one.
>>25580154 >>25579966 To be fair it ain't hard to be a better person then a single mom. Such low fucking standards it is.
>works as a contractor >stays at a woman's house while fixing it up >a man staying at a woman's residence even for a night is considered her "common-law husband" >has to now pay child support despite never even fucking her
complete bullshit but it's been a year and all attempts to fight this have failed.
>>25581140 My cousin was next door neighbor to a single mother at some apartments. He babysat her kid a few times for her and she later sued him for child support when moved away into his house and won. He never dated her or anything. He even had a gf the whole time he lived there.
>>25581285 I suspect that statistic is kind of misleading though, considering the number of people who now don't see marriage as a worthwhile institution. I know many couples in their 30s and 40s who've been together for 10+ years and aren't married, most of them have kids and a house too Unless they've factored long-term relationships into the study and it just didn't show up on that graphic
>>25580156 When single fathers exist, it's usually out of circumstance, because the mother is insane. When single mothers exist, it's out of consequence, cause they're insufferable, or don't think long term. Widows are the exceptions.
>>25581413 >>25581338 >>25581452 Looking at the rate of cohabitation I'm inclined to think it's impact on the unmarried babies graph isn't significant. It depends on other factors like reliability of tracking co-habitators, fertility rates between co-habitator and married couples, etc but firing from the hip I don't think it makes all that much of a difference in the the graph.
I could be wrong I haven't been thorough. http://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/nvsr/nvsr64/nvsr64_01.pdf
>>25581205 >My cousin was next door neighbor to a single mother at some apartments. He babysat her kid a few times for her and she later sued him for child support when moved away into his house and won. He never dated her or anything. He even had a gf the whole time he lived there. >>25581140 >That happened to my brother. >>works as a contractor >>stays at a woman's house while fixing it up >>a man staying at a woman's residence even for a night is considered her "common-law husband" >>has to now pay child support despite never even fucking her >>25579812 >My sister constantly asks me for cash to help raise her bastard children she had because of her poor life choices she made. Also you should be careful. Even being a friend to a single mother in the US can get courts ordering you to pay child support. KEKS U C K S
>watching the tele >"man kills ex-wife" story >first thought: "she probably deserved it"
Women honestly think they can just back a man into a corner and rob him blind without repercussions. If more men just killed the women that tried to steal from & exploit them then this career choice for women wouldn't even exist and we'd all be free.
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