>tfw finally had my first kiss and gf ever, at age 28
>everything was going fine, the perfect relationship basically
>two months fast forward
>she dreams about our future, she tells me she loves me, she asks me (jokingly) if i want to marry her
>two week later
>she breaks up with me because she "does not want a serious relationship at this point in her life"
jesus christ. i thought you guys were kidding, but women really have to ruin everything. it was LITERALLY perfect. better than i could ever imagine. and i knew she felt the same.
why do women change their minds so quickly?
they are fucking retarded and only care for themselves.
also, if you wanna keep going, find other women to date. best thing would be to date several cunts at once so if one gets retarded again, you still have some other sidebitch.
The thing is that you gave her commitment too easily.
You have to be very random all the time and don't reveal too much about yourself. Also marriage is the worst decision a person can make.
*and she also said that if she wanted to be in a long term relationship with someone right now, or in the far future, she could imagine noone she'd rather be with than me. like, she said she's not ready yet and thinks that in like 10 or so years she would be. she said i showed her whats possible in a relationship, when someone really has his shit together and tries his best not only for himself, but also for the other person and the relationship as a whole
She's is really young, it's absolutely normal for her to have some fun.
Your are 28 and obviously your are looking for a more serious relationship, maybe you should stick with older girls
i get what you're saying, basically she needs something to conquer as well. if she has it too easy, she'll get bored quickly and has no challenge, won't think i'm worth that much. but why should i fake it? if i'm sure about the person, i'll commit. and she often took steps to commit even more, like i described in op post. and she's told me countless times that i went about it the right way.
>random about yourself
>dont reveal much
this sounds just so fake and like i'm playing a game. i'm an honest man, i say what i feel, show who i am and have pretty much nothing to hide. if that's a problem for a girl ( it wasnt for her), it's on her and not me.
we were in a thermal bath and both had those bangles on that they give you at the entrance you know how they check for how long you've been in there. when she asked me that, i said nothing, looked in her eyes. took my bangle off, put it on her wrist, then took hers off, and put it on my wrist. she said that was the most romantic thing anyone has ever done for her. then we both laughed
i'm such a good dude i wont post her. she didnt play me or anything, she was respectful up to the end and wanted very badly to stay friends with me. i told her i needed some distance and a breather for a month, and we haven't written or talked since.