Why do women have to keep their horniness secret? Why are they shamed if they act like guys about it?
They don't. Go to a library, they'll pass books between each other all "careful, the pages might stick, GUH-HUH!"
I'm pretty sure they don't. I've seen women say that STDs are practically medals of honor. They are far hornier than men. That's why you can't ever find a virgin gf, they're all cockhungry sluts.
1. Women are not shamed for their sexuality. Their sexuality is glorified, deified, mythologized, and placed on a pedestal, while male sexuality is vilified and feared.
2. They're not guys, and men and women are not the same.
3. Women in general don't need to "act like guys." Men will approach them. A sexually aggressive woman is looked down upon because she's seen as desperate, with the implication being that she couldn't just attract a man's advances.
Men instinctively desire a woman who has abstained from carnal relationships. In order to present the image of virginity and purity women will put on airs by pretending to be disdainful or uncomfortable with sex. This facade quickly collapses when she enters a relationship with a desirable male as she uses her sexuality to try to secure his resources. Of course some women have an actual low libido, but generally women just don't want to be seen as sluts, but have no problem being a slut for their companion.
>but have no problem being a slut for their companion
What planet are you from? Women are shameless sluts and have many companions. Finding a woman with only one sex partner is about as hard as finding a virgin. They're serial polyandrists.
Are you robots for real?
Women have lower sex drives than men.
Lots of them can't even orgasm.
The only reason sluts exist is because hordes of horny males descend on attractive but otherwise sexually rather unenthusiastic females who have sex with the men to fill the total emotional void inside their half-developed female brains
I'm creating a hypothesis that would explain OP's observation. I know women have an instinctual desire to be whores, but that wasn't the question he asked, he was wondering why they try to keep it a secret. My response was because people rightfully judge them for behaving like harlots and in their desire to secure resources they try to maintain an image of purity to be an appealing prospect to potential mates.
We don't have to keep it a secret. It's just polite to not talk about that kind of thing in mixed company.
We're shamed if we act desperate because acting desperate makes everyone uncomfortable.
>because she's seen as desperate
Couldn't the argument be made for guys as well? Desperate for a companion? A love life? Even a personal cumdump?
Not head over heels desperate sure but willing to put yourself in "danger" for something that may not even work.
>course some women have an actual low libido, but generally women just don't want to be seen as sluts, but have no problem being a slut for their companion.
That's what happened to me..
She lied to me about everything and gave me some STD's
This is actually the correct answer.
Women evolved to biologically shame and harass their sexual competition. That's why women are so passive aggressive and catty.
Men are more physically domineering, women just fuck with you mentally to get their way.
>Women are not shamed for their sexuality.
>A sexually aggressive woman is looked down upon because she's seen as desperate
This is pretty accurate. I have a very low libido to the point where I don't want to have sex ever, but I hear other girls talk about it (how horny they are/ needing to get laid, and their partners and stuff) when there aren't other people around. I get ignored and hear awful conversations a lot