>>25553324 Interesting. It's nice that she calmed you down so easily. Can't really imagine myself in a scenario like that, but then I'd probably never go through with this sort of thing anyway. Admittedly, I'm holding out, but even if I wasn't, that shit's kind of pricey.
Her smelling good sounds about right. There's something about a really good scent that holds you long after they're out of your presence.
>>25553407 well I jerked off a few hours before she came over. I came after about 10 minutes during the blowjob, had like 10-15 minutes break where we just cuddled and then more blowjob and sex for the remaining time.
I'm curious why she even does this. she was literally a 9/10.
>>25553671 Just look up escort services in your state. You'll probably find one. If you live anywhere near Nevada, there's a apparently a highly recommended brothel service there, most notably in Vegas probably.
>>25551287 >tfw not a virgin >tfw i've had some girlfriends >tfw i'm not a fat beta shitlord >tfw secretly i don't find relationships or sex pleasant at all >tfw i still feel like i SHOULD like it, and that i'm fucked up for not liking it >tfw i still feel the need to fuck but i know i wont enjoy it
wish i would go full normal person or full asexual. i'm neither and it sucks
>>25553858 yes, and i tried it twice. it was absolutely horrible and i felt completely disgusted.
first time i drank half a bottle of jager and smoked a fuckton of weed to force myself to do it. ended up coming down hard and feeling depressed and wanted to kill myself (not that i would actually do it). second time was "hey maybe it was the booze and weed's fault, let's try it sober". ran away after 5 minutes of making out with a fucking bearded dude and vomited.
protip: if you don't think or feel you're gay at all, you might not be. -1/10, would definitely not recommend.
>Europeans get to fuck these girls for less than half of a pay check >Here in the United Cucks of Mexico2.0 we have to spend 500$ flying to a country or our one state where it's legal to spend 800$ for 12 minutes with an overweight mother of 20.
God sometimes I hate this fucking country. You can own a gun but paying to fuck a woman is out of the question?
>>25554145 if they say something like "that'll be $100 for a blowjob" you know its a cop. You're spending money for the escort's *time* not sex. If they mention money and a sexual favor in return, then you need to tell them to leave.
>>25554145 Look into local "hobbyist" sites where you can read ads and reviews. Usually escorts will have ratings and reviews from actual people.
A good nationwide site is The Erotic Review, it's $30 a month for VIP membership and has most major U.S. Cities.
Been into the scene since '11 and never had a close run in with law enforcement. I would also avoid backpage. Look into something like Humaniplex for example.
It's a fun hobby but it can get expensive. Nowadays I have one provider I see regularly instead of trying different girls out. She does everything I want, is reasonably priced, and if you saw her in public you'd never guess what she does since she looks very innocent.
Since I'm an oldfag I'll have to add- shits' so cash
>>25554314 Thanks man. I just want to lose this v-card before I turn 30. But honestly It might be a novelty I wish there was a way to sell it or take advantage of it. Too bad guys don't have a cherry to pop to prove that they are virgins.
>>25554347 Did the math and it's about 200 of your quid.
I'm ok with that since I make some decent money, and I've seen her enough that at this point I stay for 2 1/2 hours even though I pay for one. Also let's me cum as many times as I want and is very submissive.
>>25553832 I know that feel bro, not being either sucks.
>only interested in sex and relationships due to biology >have a fucked up life that needs all of my attention, disregards the whole dating thing >years go by >about to enlist to the army due to many reasons >everything went fine until the psychology part >sit down and talk with a therapist about myself and my life and my goals etc >their job is to pry out any mental defects for your service assessment >goes by pretty fine until she asks about my relationship status and stuff >background is that recruits in relationships have left due to their partner not being okay with the distance and possible cross country moving >just outright tell her that im not the type of guy who dates etc to speed things along, been there for 8 hours already >therapist face: jackpot.webm
The followup questions took up more time than the entire intervju, and since I am basically not interest in women my psychological score went down to 60%. I think I would have gotten lower but 60% is the lowest score for seeking officer's program and I had 85% on problem solving capability and 70% on command qualities and they can't afford letting people with brains pass by.
TL;DR my fake asexuality gives me real consequences
As long as you had a fine time m80. Tb.h the girls on UK Adultwork are cheap but they're mostly Romanian slags. Got mugged once, turned out it was a stick up. Got into the apartment and was jumped by three gypsy faggots.
>>25554488 Damn you should had just said ''Hi I intend to merry my high school sweet hair Cindy! A blonde haired blue eyed all american girl who was not only the prom queen but the captain of the cheer squad''
Yeah, it wasn't too bad cos they could only get my ho money and an extra fiver I had for general shit on me. I only use English ones now, or Polish if I want someone a bit more submissive. When Hungarians and Romanians offer up their cunts, man better be wise enough not to take a punt.
>>25554964 I would type erotic review followed by the city you're looking at. Read the reviews and see if you like any of the girls.
Be aware that the smaller the city the less likely you're going to find anything of quality as far as escorts go. Not a diss, just something I noticed personally. I went to Pensacola Florida and it was slim pickings over there. I've been in Palm Springs California, a place with an amazingly high median income but there were ZERO attractive escorts, yet I drive 150 miles south to San Diego or to LA and there too many gorgeous hookers it's hard to decide which one you want.
That's real shit right there. I can't say I blame you for not giving a damn. Honestly, if I was gonna kick out for this sort of experience, I'd probably actually try to make her cum. The practice would be great, and I'm interested in just how everything works down there. Dicks are easy, but vags take effort and shit (maybe not a lot depending on the girl in question, but comparatively, they're a lot different).
>>25556961 Pretty sure that's not true. If you do the right stuff, she'll get off. Clearly I'm no expert by any means, but I'm pretty sure a lot of girls would disagree with that. That would also imply that they could never get off alone or with strangers which is false, so.
As long as I ask her what she likes, I'm sure I can do it. Just need to understand the ins and outs, and follow her lead. I'm sure she'll have plenty of tips on what I could do correctly after being disappointed by a number of different guys. Lol
>>25557044 That makes sense, but I'd might as well make the most of the experience for the sake of learning.
I have no idea if getting her off would really get me off or not, but I feel like it would. The idea of her having to fake it, while it doesn't matter that much since I'm paying for myself, would make me feel bummed. I'd rather her leave satisfied which would in turn satisfy me (even if not in a sexual way, but I'm sure it will).
>>25557090 Not every girl is sub though. Maybe some girls do need more emotion whereas others don't, but it certainly can't apply to them all. That just seems like a generalized statement somebody made up because they couldn't get some girl off. Not accusing you of that specifically, just sounds like something some bitter alpha male would say because he's not actually any good in bed.
>>25557141 the majority of girls aren't sub, but the majority do need emotional validation to get off. Its why women in "sexually liberated" countries are so depressed from frequent sex with no emotional context. Men are visual and women are mental. You need to remember that if you really want to get a girl off.
OP here, I honestly didn't think about her pleasure/orgasm at all. I mean if you got a steady gf, sure..make it your goal, but someone you just paid? nah. also I wasn't really up for going down on her considering this is her job...
when she was sucking my dick I was almost nauseous because I couldn't actually believe it was happening. When she gave me the nod/okay to fuck her mouth a little and pump her full, I absolutely lost it. Felt like an animal.
if you're 20+ and still a virgin, I recommend everyone do just swallow whaytever pride you got left and pay an attractive escort. there's a certain balance that comes from inside after you've nutted in a girls mouth.
>>25557202 Well, it's not like you can't provide some sort validation if need be. I highly doubt that it's some impossible feet without emotional stuff. No offense, but a lot of the guys on this site seem like they've got deep issues with women. Can't say I take a lot of what I see on here with more than a grain of salt, but what you're saying does sound like it has SOME basis to it, so I'll naturally keep it in mind. Also, as a male, I feel like mental plays a huge part in my life. The immediately physical attraction can be easily overruled the moment I start trying to get connected with her.
>>25557238 I can understand what you're saying, I'm just saying. I guess I can see why you'd be iffy about going down on her, but that's something I've always been curious about. Obviously, it would be better to just get a gf and try anything I want to try, but this hypothetical.
I am 20+ and still a virgin, but I'm not swallowing my pride. I really want my first time to be with someone special to me. I want it to feel like the right time rather than just giving into my lack of intimacy and paying for it. I'm not saying you're wrong or anything--to each his own--I just want to wait. The very idea of having sex with a stranger makes me feel off. I want a special connection with someone.
>>25557605 nah I can respect your stance on that. It's just that I've seen on this board what can happen to a man when that special someone never enters your life and you're fast approaching 30 and still haven't had sex. now, don't misunderstand me, not having sex in itself isn't that big of a deal, it's just that when someone is being deprived of something primal like sex for a very long time, you will eventually go insane.
>>25557695 It already has been a long wait though. I'm 22 and I haven't even been a relationship. I just gotta get mys shit together, and I should be okay. I've already held out this long and I really don't want to give up on having my first sexual experience with someone special. I'm not trying to have some awkward wrestling match with some girl I've known for 73 minutes, hot or not.
>>25557700 I definitely don't want to be fast approaching 30 and still a virgin, but at the same time, what does it really mean if I had to go pay for it. Even if I've "had sex", I still would have never "made love" for lack of a better way to put it which is what I really want.
>deprived of something primal like sex for a long time...you'll eventually go insane
Trust me when I say the urges are strong. However, I feel like the desire for sex would only be enhanced after the first time. Every guy I've asked says they're far thirstier for it now that they've had it once. It would probably be ideal not to set myself up like that. Besides, the world has porn (very specific porn for everyone) and toys can use to spice things up and better replicate the real thing for the time you spend alone. However, I guess no matter how I look at it, not having had sex by my late 20s does scare me even if I did just say it's ultimately meaningless. I just feel like I gotta have faith in that special girl. Even if she dumps me 2 months after we fuck for the first time and I hate her guts, at least the sex meant something at that point in time.
>>25557953 can only wish you luck, just hope you're not setting yourself up for a world of emotional pain. I've heard people grow attached to the first people they have sex with (if that person is a gf/bf) and it really hurts when they dump you.
I really don't have any answers to any of this. I just gave in to my human desires and paid a woman to have sex and I'm genuinely okay with that fact.
>>25558012 "Better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all" I try to believe this is the truth because people who have definitely been hurt still say it. I wouldn't say I've been "in love" before, but I definitely had really strong feelings for someone a few years ago, and it was a really nice feeling especially when she was around. I didn't actually want to sleep with her because the very thought felt wrong because we were friends and she was my teacher and blah, blah, blah, but I'd love to feel that way about someone and also be with them on an intimate level. I feel like it'll be better that way, or at least I hope so. I'm not an idiot though. I know the people who tell me I'm fooling myself have basis to their arguments, but I'm too much of a hopeless romantic to believe the hearsay. That's not to say that part of me really wants to just get the shit out of the way, so I understand your base human desires. I REALLY want to just get it over with sometimes though. I do feel pretty hopeless sometimes, and all this cheesy romantic gunk makes me feel like a loser even if I know it's not wrong to be romantic and hopeful...
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