I am a major grower (I go from 2.5" to a healthy 6").
Would a girl care if she caught me flaccid and saw how tiny it is in that state? Would she start assuming things, or is erect truly the only thing they care about? I mean, I doubt many other growers more than double their dick length.
Also, can you robots post your flaccid->erect measurements so I don't feel so alone?
If they like you and see you flaccid when about to have sex it'll be a challenge for them and probably best method of getting a blowjob. Other than you know, just asking for it.
You should be erect before sex the first few times though, just from the kissing/fondling.
I saw one guy when we were all naked in a spa who must have been about 1.5" flaccid. He once told me matter of factlly that his dick was 20cm hard and he seemed genuinely confused when I scoffed at this claim. Never saw his boner but every girl who was with him, and there were a lot, said he was "huge". He apparently had a mushroom cock too because three of those girls remarked how fat the helmet seemed. I've no idea how the flaccid dick I saw could possibly end up large but apparently it did. That guy was a grower.
That means you're probably nervous and spilling your spaghetti. Go to the bathroom but to breathe deeply and calm down. If you left without an erection it'd be weird to come back with one, don't you think?
It probably helps to start working on her first. Takes your mind off worrying about yourself, plus pleases the grill.
Nice post numbers