>asked a girl to hang out and see movie
>she says she's sick and can't come
>I get pissed cuz I think shes making it up
why am I such a dumbass. and I in no way made it sound as if we were just going as friends.
>op, you should have done a ninjitsu backflip kicking her in her face with martial art prowess cartwheeling sending her hurtling into the kitchen into a kitchen apron right in front of the bread making machine where she could produce you a sandwich like dumb women should. that's what i would've done. :^)
Epic. Simply epic.
The matter stills seems to rest on whether or not she was telling the truth about being sick. The fact she has downplayed it to, oh, we were just going as friends, suggests she has no romantic inclination toward you -- sorry, bro -- so her lying about being sick is pretty plausible, and she refuses to accept any accountability for the situation as women often do. You were straight up. Even if she was sick, which is still possible, it doesn't look like she was ever attracted to you, and if she was, she would've behaved a lot different. You're not a dumbass. You didn't tolerate her shitty behaviour desperate that it might work out if you're patient enough.
sorry dude but i live with it too, she was probably actually sick and OP perceived it as an abandonment, and probably got really shitty with her for no reason
likewise, a lot of dudes in this thread are just straight up accusing her of being a whore, doesn't make a lot of sense at all
>I was i-interested in you anonette
fuck this all just reeks of BPD. let this be a learning experience for you, OP. she's for sure not going to want to bed you at all now, next time be less reactive.
>She was clearly trying to friendzone him and use him for free stuff.
>BUT IT'S NOT HER FAULT!
Fucking whiteknights. No one fucking things a boy and a girl goes to the movies just as friends.
this to be honest. she was a cunt, let him waste money on some tickets then flat out refused to go.
idgaf if she was sick. if she was sick, i would take her home and get her some medicine because I fucking MEAN SOMETHING.
>I fucking MEAN SOMETHING.
This. Which is why she's a goddamn cunt. She was NOT being friendly about it if she was going, "Just as friends," anyway. She's clearly leading him on for shit and when that fell through she tried to shift blame.
The sad part is women think they are so devious and sneaky no one sees this. Everyone sees it. We just pretend not to because we want a goddamn connection and this is the only way to get it in over 90% of the cases.
lot of reading into things you're doing there. I mean, if she wanted to see a free movie, she would have just asked her mom or something.
>Fucking whiteknights. No one fucking things a boy and a girl goes to the movies just as friends.
yeah, I'm a white knight, because women and men can't be friends right?
because "the friend zone" is an inescapable cuck prison and OP didn't just fail the sanity check that most people do when they start out talking to someone
nah, just another roastie whore who wanted free tix to see star wars VII.
>lot of reading into things you're doing there.
Not really. It's always the same old story. She tries to get free things from someone that has feelings for her, gets called on it, and she claims ignorance and paints the picture like men are just completely unreasonable brutes without sensitivity.
Which is fucking bullshit. If they were going "as friends" she would have picked up her own ticket and there wouldn't have been any confusion from the get-go. And she would have told him up front she wasn't going rather than waiting and putting it off.
She clearly knew this would be a repercussion and stalled until she could maintain her "innocence" and shift blame.
>If they were going "as friends" she would have picked up her own ticket and there wouldn't have been any confusion from the get-go. And she would have told him up front she wasn't going rather than waiting and putting it off.
This. Because this is what FRIENDS DO.
>Women confirmed for shit.
>If they were going "as friends" she would have picked up her own ticket and there wouldn't have been any confusion from the get-go.
how much you want to bet OP offered to buy her ticket?
>It's always the same old story.
how many dates have you been on again?
>how much you want to bet OP offered to buy her ticket?
That would clearly move them beyond, "Just as friends." It's literally a signal.
>how many dates have you been on again?
Most women agree with me.
Have you actually only been sick for a day before? I mean in real life, not for the sake of defending whores.
I was ready to call you out for just being a regular robot when I realized most people here have probably talked to a girl in the past few months... What do we call ourselves? Double robots?
Most women agree with you huh? did you just consult your harem or something?
you know what, you win, girl OP was talking about is without a doubt worse than satan. He totally didn't overreact at all and it's not his fault he just blew any chance he had at all with a girl because of some perceived inadequacy.
Keep your victim mentality, it looks good on you.
A different anon, but I have had a UTI that left me immobilized for one day and one day only.
There's also food poisoning, stomach bugs, migraines, etc. There's a whole slew of illnesses that can debilitate a person for roughly 24 hours.
This FUCKING BITCH
Its an EVEN BIGGER DEAL because you are FRIENDS
You expect your wife or girlfriend to pull shit on you but FRIENDS are supposed to be there for you
I was in no state to be leaving the house, much less going to the movies with that UTI; I don't care who the fuck was taking me.
And she's responding to something OP said, but we have no idea what that was. Maybe he was being a complete ass about it (not out of the question). Her response could be perfectly understandable.
Also >Being sick isn't the problem
I was responding specifically to >>25529174
>Have you actually only been sick for a day before?
>Her response could be perfectly understandable.
Most likely not. Especially since her response lacks 100% of the details required for someone being forthcoming. This is passive aggressive behavior designed to shift blame.
Abusers do this all the time.
OP dodged a bullet.
Doesn't all of this hinge on the assumption that she DID lie?
The girl was obviously conning the dude for tickets, but she could've been sick on the day she said she was.
Her reaction makes sense in this context as well, she knows OP will spend a fair bit of dosh for some hours with her so she's able to respond logically & like she wants to go back on the arrangement without actually doing so.
>not shit human beings
Ya got me. I apologize for my shitposting.
>get called on it
>defend it passive aggressively
Hey, look, I can be passive aggressive, too! :^)
>Suddenly in the mood for Arby's.
>beings "friends" with a basic bitch
When are you fuckers ever gonna learn?
You sound like a character from The Big Lez Show
oh, i believe you.
>You sound like a character from The Big Lez Show
Haven't seen that show in ages, t,b,h.
Robots are not islands unto themselves. Humans are social creatures first and foremost.