does anyone else find it hard being a guy? i'm too sensitive.. i wish i could be cute and loving with people like girls are allowed to be, but im a guy so i have to pretend to be cold and distant. i would seem gay if i was allowed to just b myself and lots of guys would be uncomfortable when i want to hug and be too close, or when i dress weird
maybe i need to just let it go and b myself, i dunno. real life is hard
Same. I'm actually against homosexuality as an act but personalty wise I'm very camp, sporting events are just unappealing to me which is practically a death sentence where I live.
same. i prefer creative things. i feel really emotional all the time, but i have to pretend im not.. it could be the reason im depressed that i always feel i have to moderate, fake, pretend and generally "hold back" on how i really am
What country do you live in anon and what is the local culture like?
UK here and its football, lad culture, "having a laugh" and getting drunk 24/7. Some of it can be ok in moderation but too much leads to stagnation, the local social clubs are full of middle aged men who've partied non-stop for their entire lives and its not how I want to end up.
uk as well. i fucking hate the "hard lad cunt" culture here, and i despise those kinds of people
i dont mind getting drunk a lot, but i want to be living life as well.. not just wasting away
kek. yeah uk idolizes the "common lad" who basically gets drunk on beer, is obnoxious with his lad friends, plays football, gets into fights, has no feelings, smashes some random slag every week... is basically a cunt desu
id probably be better off in an asian or other european country where sensitivity in guys is more encouraged but i guess u jus gotta deal with it and not give a fuck