The idea of sex has become a nightmare for me, and I need to fix myself to enjoy a good sex life. I'm a relatively attractive guy and getting a girl into bed isn't particularly challenging, but the sex absolutely is. Here are my list of problems:
>I can't get comfortable with new girls (casual sex)
>I can't get hard unless I've been drinking
>If I do get hard, I'll usually cum super quick unless I've been drinking and I've jerked off beforehand
>I have a terrible sex drive. Every girl I've been with wants to fuck all the time, meanwhile I can only enjoy one fuck per day.
>I repeat, sex while sober is impossible for me. I can't concentrate, I lose my erection, I cum to quick, I become disinterested
>Always get very nervous
>Always think I'm gonna fuck it up (and I do)
The only times I've had good sex is when I'm drunk or relatively high, otherwise it's lame as shit for both of us. I don't know what to do. Sometimes I'll be enough of a beta to tell a girl that I honestly just want to sleep and not have sex. How the fuck do I fix my sex life?
You're probably gay.
>>25520313
>has no problem getting women
>expects sympathy
well fuck your shit too buddy
>>25520313
You need to find a girl you truly like and feel comfortable with. Practice with her until sex is no longer this insurmountable spooky task. Then eventually you will be able to sex easily
>>25520482
Yeap. Stop going after casual sex and take your time to find a girl with whom you communicate well. Involved in sex there is a big unconscious part and probably in your case that part is complaining.
Don't be anxious, tell her your problem.
Get some mdma and some viagra. Find a girl willing to spend a few days with you that you find attractive.
Have fun
>>25521500
Kek. Shock treatment. Might work if everything else fails.
I am still thinking that you really, your unconscious mind, doesn't like sex as it is carried out by teenagers, but a more mature version. Take your time to find the right person.