>be a genuine robot
>kissless hugless friendless autist fat NEET weeb fuck with no talents or achievements in his life
>through self improvement and studying hard turn my life around completely
>have a good carrier, a stable relationship with a qt gf, friends, etc
>come back here, try to help other robots
>"fuck off chad", "jus bee urself brah xd", "le epik selfimprovement meme!"
I'm starting to think most of you actually want to be sad and miserable on purpose
>inb4 I'm tall
>inb4 I'm handsome
>inb4 I have a big dick
none of these is true, and I still managed to go from 0/10 loser neckbeard faggot to owning my own flat, car, gf, job and future
why are you guys so afraid of self improvement and actually putting effort into something?
if you ever were a genuine *robbit* you would know that posing your ebin successs story will only have a negative impact, but the reality is that you probably were a 19 yo memester when you decided to change your life and be yourself
making such a thread makes you a person worthy of a "fuck off"
Already /fit/, already dress decent, like to cook. Terrible social anxiety and fear of rejection are my main problems. All I have left is to get a job and leave my parents house....but i'm scared.
>why are you guys so afraid of self improvement and actually putting effort into something?
Avoidant personality disorder. Unless near dead drunk I'm always afraid and on the edge.
>Implying I want a Gf, a job, or friends
Protip: Wanting to be a normie but failing at it makes you a failed normie
What is your point? Your savior complex is showing, normalfag. Keep trying to uplift robots with your cookie cutter hallmark advice.
Your normalfagness is showing and it's making me sick.
Maybe deep down in my subconscious I still care about things but my conscious mind has stopped caring a long time ago, at this point in my life I'm just waiting to die. I would kill myself but even that is too much of an effort.
>I'm starting to think most of you actually want to be sad and miserable on purpose
A lot of robots don't seem to want to advance in a structure which has shat upon them from a very great height, sometimes for decades and decades. I can only speak for myself, but I don't want to 'see the light.'
Obviously neet pride is ridiculous, but there is a fundamentally correct core to the complaint of the machines.
Their unique situation gives them unique answers to problems which most people are not at all aware of, much like any other marginalised group - the ability to observe social interaction between normies from outside allows for the kind of critical distance which allows people to imagine a world without either normies or robots.
When I was still a miserable NEET I didn't want to hear any of that. When you're deep down you need something tangible to motivate you and you need to start with baby steps. Every day, a dozen or so saviours come here to make threads that are literally "Hey guys look at me, I have everything that you want and I'm going to tell you how to get it, just throw your entire life around, it's that easy xDDD". Even now that I've got my life on track I still acknowledge that most of it was down to sheer luck. I landed a one in a million job and met a one in a million girlfriend.
No matter how ugly you think you are or how much of a loser you claim to have been before, compared to an actually depresses robot you are Chad.
You can do it. It's the first step towards improvement.
The truth is that you have to be muscular and outgoing for any girl to like you enough to want to date you. If you're shy and/or average, then it's next to impossible. I'm 21 and am trying to accept this fact. I've never talked to any girls, but I know that they wouldn't like me. I'm too boring and shy. I also have avoidant personality disorder. It annoys me when people make fun of virgins in their 20s+, because it's basically all determined by birth and childhood. It's not anyone's fault if they're a virgin.
Allow me to try and explain, OP.
Let me preface this by saying I have no doubt you have the best of intentions. You were living in a situation that you see similar to that of others here, and describe how you escaped aforesaid situation. In theory, this is very nice. However, people often act with resentment and the like.
The simple issue is that although we robots may have some attributes in common, in a very general sense, we are all individual people. We may have similar laments, but the circumstances and qualities that make us vulnerable to those laments are quite different.
So, here's the thing. Someone comes on and offers advice, usually well-meaning advice. But it is just so very general. And when very sad and marginalized people are confronted with someone offering solutions, not to them as an individual (having taken into account what is unique about their situations), but rather to a faceless group, they feel like their humanity has been compromised. They become meme-creatures who are, consequently, provided meme-solutions to their meme-problems.
This is why you see so much griping. We are all different with regard to why we hurt in the way we do, but the hurt is something we can relate to regardless of the circumstances that generated it. We are commiserating, understanding that others feel as we do, without having to fully understand why.
I did the same things. I studied my ass off, I became /fit/, I decided to do an irl hobby, and I put myself out there socially.
It all returns to nothing, it all comes tumbling down.
No, it goes far deeper than that. This is like the male version of the SJW. Its not a group of people that you are trying to change or a way of life, its a whole society. It took me some time to realise this but it would actually damage the current state of the world if we insist on helping them. Overpopulation leads to weaker males pretending to be females - that trans shit we see everyday or in drastic cases shut themselves out of the group so that the group can survive. SJW is similar but from female (selfish) point of view - low females dont get what they want due to overpopulation so they insist on getting more.
Practice talking. Omegle might help.
Do you want me to prove you wrong?
>The truth is that you have to be muscular and outgoing for any girl to like you enough to want to date you.
Landwhales would date anyone, trust me. If your situation is too dire, go to some high IQ place, we have specialized highschools in my country, basically the girls in a math highschool would date anything with a dick, legal age here is 18, highschool 12th grade is 18 so no legal problems.
>It annoys me when people make fun of virgins in their 20s+, because it's basically all determined by birth and childhood. It's not anyone's fault if they're a virgin.
Hire a slut?
You should post exactly what you did. The fact you can add details or a step by step plan, shows deceit and leads me to believe you are full of shit, and were never those things.
good on you, friend. Im doing my best too hehe
It just feels like it all pointless in the end of the day, you know. Feels like Im so far behind I will never catch up to other people. I try to work out and I immediately feel so tired. Maybe because Im too weak to change. Gotta keep it positive. After all there is not way I could sink any lower so there is only a way up. Shit, I think Im too tired
See, here is your problem. You want a Stacy but you dont want to put effort in acquiring Stacy. You are no different from the average landwhale - instant gratification is your main concern. I am kinda fit atm so I cant prove my point with a photo in the mirror, also phone is charging but even when I went trap mode (for the kek, got 89/62/91 sizes, was epic shit and I am gonna laugh all my life at the memories) I still managed to hook up with a few qt3.14s.
Kinda. I met my current one (I plan on keeping her until march cuz I have a lot of work to do) at an anifest, she is solid 7/10 at least, dancing since she was 3 yrs old so her body is brutal, still got at least D cups, I speculate that they are actually DD but nvm.
Usually I go out at saturday evening only, used to go out at friday too but started to train more often. When I have a gf I dont go out at all. I met the one before that at an indie party and the one before that at an excursion. Before that comes the summer and I dont want to talk about it cuz the whole of /r9k/ will cringe in despair.
That's cool. I'll probably never be successful with girls, even if I do try talking to them. I'm too shy and boring and have no self esteem. But I hope maybe one day I'll have sex.
I was myself. I don't think relationships work out if you have to actively sell yourself to the other person. It's why I don't like the concept of dating. I just try to find people that I can have genuine conversations with and have no expectations beyond that. I met her on here and by some kind of miracle we were both attracted to each other on every level.
> If your situation is too dire, go to some high IQ place, we have specialized highschools in my country, basically the girls in a math highschool would date anything with a dick
Not true at all. My country has such high schools too, and I studied in one (math&physics school with intelligent children), and there were many girls, and I even talked to them regularly. What next? I'm still a virgin, 10+ years after finishing HS. A few other male nerds/dorks from my HS never had gfs in HS and uni.