https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wLt FvC0yAsw What are /r9k/

Post a tl;dr of vid

>>25516955
Sorry but not falling for this shit today, Schillery Clinton.

>>25517000
>just bee urself

Original

>>25517000
Looks don't matter, confidence is key.

>>25516955
Hurr durr, it s your fault that your ability to pick social cues is minimal. It has nothing to do with that part of your brain that just happens not to function. People use just 10% of their brains anyway, I ve seem them movies, so I know my science!

>>25516955
He's partially right.

The "just be urself" and the "confidence is key" memes are made fun of a ton here but at the end of the day they are partially true.

>>25516955
he is 100% right.


>huuurrrr I can't change I'm autistic reeeee normie leave

fucking loser

so he uses a pic of a girl (alexis ren) that's a dating a male model to prove looks don't matter?

>>25516955
>because they stayed up late playing league of legends
FUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK... absolutely triggered. That's me :(.

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>>25516955
Only two things in life are certain.

Robots and normies.

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>>25517135
>implying you can actually change being autistic
Citation needed.

>>25516955
>haven't put in the work to get confident

Where is this confidence gym where you work hard to get confident?

>>25517198
yea right, with true autist.

not those self-diagnosed "I have asperger" faggots that stay home all day and play vidya.thats not want an autist looks like

>>25517200
the actual gym

>>25517200
its called outside, you know.with social interactions and shit

>>25517313
There is a large spectrum of disorders that, while less serious than rightout autism, impair you socially.

>>25516955
>blonde with brown eyes

Fucking disgusting

Try harder desu

pham, r9k DOES NOT WANT TO FIX THEMSELVES

do you know how many Chad advice threads I've seen in the 4 years I've been here? 100's
Why haven' they worked? because r9k doesn't want to change. Stop trying

>>25517348
well they make it harder, but not impossible.

plus there are meds and therapy to help.


dude I take ( mild) antidepression meds everyday and still am normie as fuck.quit the fucking excuses

>>25517422
Normies take antidepressants. It s normal. By the way, "mild" antidepressants means literally sugar pills. When you take antipsychotics, come back to this board. Until then, fuck off you fakin normie.

>>25517533
all I see are excuses and blaming others.it doesn't mather who I am or what I say.

you still know you could change or atleast imrpove your life a little.deep in your heart you know it.but you don't want to

>>25516955

Looks matter and personality too. It depends a lot on the person and what they are looking for.

Eitherway it's fair to assume that physically atractive people can be emotionally atractive too. Ugly people only has their personality going for them so they are at a great disadvantage yes or yes.

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>>25517614
>>>/>>>/

No clue why you are here in the first place.

>>25517658
me neither, its pretty frustrating to see that spiral of toxic negativity

>>25517130
I could be the most confident man on earth and a girl like the OP pic would never even fucking look me in the eyes.

>>25517837
exactly, you can be the most charming, confident man in the world, but if you are ugly as fuck no 8/10+ is gonna want to date you and show you off to her friends

This is also a good video for all you people with ONEITIS

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TY3rT2N1Ecs

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>just *B* urself, bro :^)

t-thanks...

1.open video: where is blond chic
2.Sees poo in loo
3.closes and hide

>>25517950
Guy has a pretty nice apartment.
Even if what the first video said is true about his looks, he still got mad dosh. Giving him bonus points.

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How can you be yourself when you don't even know what you're supposed to bee?
The only thing this guy is good for is making goofy faces.

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>mfw the surfer model dude who is the actual bf of the girl in OPs pic made a hedonistic self-promotional lifestyle video (featuring mostly her)

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uOHDkIxyu2A

>>25517889
Uhh compared to hitler no one is all that confident so it doesn't even matter

What does his roastie look like? I'm not entirely buying the idea that he has even an 8/10

>>25518725
So that's what being attractive and having money feels like.

They always come so close to just being honest but never do
>put in the time...
>....to be confident
Nigga fuck you. Just come out and say "put in the time to become attractive". He's half right in that, really, anyone can become Chad. Put in enough effort and you can become ripped and rich, it's not impossible, just hard. Even if you have a fucked up face, women will be all over you the second you pull out your wallet, show off your abs, and act a little douchey. Why does nobody want to admit attractive people are attractive because they are attractive? Chad doesn't get girls because confidence, he gets girls because they see him as "better" because of his muscles/money/status. He's right in that people just blame Chad instead of hitting the gym, working on their bank, etc. to BECOME Chad, but he's full of shit in saying it's just hurr confidence. I don't care if r9k goes full "normie get out" but I lived through this shit. All my life I was told I was goofy and awkward, suddenly though when I started exercising and got a less shit job and now have some money, girls find all the shit they used to hate about me attractive. For example I bumped into a girl who I went out with on one date in high school, she stopped talking to me the following day because (in her friends words) I was too awkward. Bump into her and suddenly she's giving me her number and saying we should hang out and catch up. My personality didn't change one fucking bit. I still have shit confidence and still loathe myself yet girls like me. Why? Because I have money, looks, and some degree of normal status now. Admit this shit is looks/status normies, just fucking admit it.
>hurr but the fat guy got her number
And probably then never called him or texted him. Or friendzoned him.

>>25518938

It's like being a GOD. You can do whatever you want. Murder even

>>25518725
>tfw you literally can't even imagine living a life like this.
Seriously. This is what people like the guy in OP video don't get. I can more realistically imagine myself living the life of Mario or something before I could even imagine a single day in that life. Fiction doesn't have shit on how unimaginable that lifestyle is.

>>25516955
no

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krsNcFQwsbc

The fuck is with you guys and white women? You do know other kinds of women exist right?

>>25519049
White people look better

>>25516955
like if i would pay attention to a currynigger

>>25519029
>quoting himself
what the fuck
Redpillers are so fucking stupid, just as stupid as women if not more so.

>>25519049
there are no "kinds" of women. all women iz teh saem. just pick the one that pleases your eye the most.

rEdit: the moment you expose a woman to western degeneracy is the moment you lose a faithful companion.

>>25519146
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2V7TcSr9GiM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eeFdSPaHtt0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFp6LY-tvxQ

It's nature people. Good looks are the first sign you carry good genes. Why do these people not realize there is a natural reason people have a prejudiced towards unattractive people? Nature makes us use looks as a shortcut, even if you pretend it doesn't. Evolution is great and everything, but it doesn't do away with something so embedded in who we are as a species. It's also potentially why people prefer lighter skin, even in dark skinned cultures. Lighter skin lets you more easily decide if someone is carrying a deadly disease or not.

>>25516955
The thing that pisses me off about this video isn't the fact that the information is wrong, it's the fact that this advice only applies to men.

Women don't have to "look inwards" because men do all the work for them relationship-wise. They don't have to mature in any way or gain confidence in themselves because the hard part of getting a relationship isn't there for them.

And after all this, there is nothing anyone can do about it.

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>>25519049
Nigger pls go nobody wants a nigress whites and asians only

>>25519302
ok but who are you to ask women to change to be more masculine? are they all trying to fuck you? if the advice is for men that's because men aren't women. if you're a dude who does fine getting girls, then you don't need advice. get a grip dude.

>>25519302
That's because there isn't a reason for women to do so. Replace humans with any other animal and it's more simplified. All the female has to do is be able to carry offspring, that's it. The man has to be able to fend off attackers, provide, etc.

>>25519390
>ok but who are you to ask women to change to be more masculine?

What does this even mean? I never implied that women HAVE to be more masculine. I stated that women don't have to follow this advice because it will never apply to them.

If you're a dude who does fine getting girls, you still have to go through the experience of actually getting women instead of them coming to you.

>>25519411
>That's because there isn't a reason for women to do so

Exactly.

>>25519169
It's not black and white, and watching PUA videos can help you be better at communication et al.
Source: it helped me

even if it's just a matter of motivating you

>>25519459
>it will never apply to them
and it shouldn't. i don't understand your point. you implied earlier you want women to be more like men but that it will never happen. but there are plenty of masculine women.

>be confident
I am literally laughing

>>25519049
Ugly insecure shitskin detected. Face the fact that your race is inferior in every way including beauty.

>>25519902
I'm an ugly insecure shitskin and white women are better than every other race of women. Even the sluttiness isn't any better. Everything is shit niggas, everything is shit.

>>25519937
Even the sluttiness isn't better in my race* is what I meant.

>>25516955
so basically

>Step 1: Be attractive
>Step 2: Don't be unattractive
>Step 3: JUST B URSELF xD

>>25516955
He is right, but he isn't saying anything that I don't already know.

I know that the reason I'm lonely and depressed is because of me, but I think it's far more fun to be in my own little shithole wallowing in my self-pity while fantasizing about my delusions of a better life than it is to go out and actually try to achieve dreams. Reality will simply never live up to your vision of a dream, so in the end, why even try? I've come to a realization that I'm far more content in thinking that I want something, but never actually getting it, than I am in going out and doing it.

Oh it's another generic "just b urself" video, just what I needed to change my life.

LOL /r9k/ is literally the board for people he described in the video. Look at all these toxic angst filled people in this thread

>>25520334
Iktf.
The other day I almost talked to a girl. I was sure it'd work. Like 100% sure. I've never felt so confident. But I thought "is this really what I want".
The ansser was no. I didnt want to talk to a bitch. I wanted to get home and shitpost and complain. This is the kind of life style we chose.

>>25520334
>Reality will simply never live up to your vision of a dream
I understand this feel, it's the source of all my self-created problems. It's not just that reality is not gonna live up to it, but the road towards these dreams, no matter how tough, is not a guarantee that you'll get there. Pussy is one thing, but a worthwhile relationship and all the other worthwhile bullshit? A lot of it is luck. Work just makes you need a little less luck, but all in all, luck is always a component.

>>25520478

>Toxic

Sorry we triggered you, maybe you should go back to your safe space and have a little sob over it.

>>25516955
Social skills are just that, SKILLS. They can be learned and taught. Some will have a better grasp on it than others, and some will struggle to learn them.

But at the end of the day they can be learned.

>>25517416
I can't change when I'm a 5'1'' ugly manlet.

>>25518657

POO
IN
THE
LOO

FUCK OFF ROBOT

>>25517533
>takes placebos
>guys I'm depressed really but I'm still able to go out and have fun

News flash faggot, you're not depressed. You're just a normal, angsty teenager.

>>25520683
Meant for >>25517533

Please select all images with coffee

>>25518590
Dosh? Is this some recent slang term for cash? Literally never heard it before.

SP used to live in a shitty apartment with brown running water when their channel first started.

>>25520721
How'd you fuck that up so badly?

>>25520475
Another generic comment of someone not understanding that "just b urself" is told a 1000x times because people like you w/ social anxiety can't wrap your heads around that.

Most anxiety is about control, "just b urself" is coming to the realization that not everybody is going to like you and that's okay. You are going to get rejected and it's gonna suck but that shouldn't stop you from going for your goals.

top kek, fingering
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vrqYhFfEStk

>>25519302
Try being an average or below average looking woman with the types of social issues that lead you to r9k. Women do have to look inwards, do you seriously think the only thing guys care about is a body?? For hookups, a lot of them do, for relationships, every man who isn't desperate wants a girl with a mature outlook on life (and stunning good looks of course, which also take effort to maintain).

>>25520911
They got some nice advice vids. Good tips on making a sex playlist.

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>>25521060
>Following Chad's advice
>Not being yourself as staying true to your principles
>not autonomiously unlocking the secrets of your life by your safe
>

>>25517889
Uh not true at all. What is Diego Rivera for example? There's so many ugly people who became famous players (not saying that's Rivera in a nutshell lol just saying)

>>25520780
>not knowing cockney

You dont English much, do you?

>>25520904
I dont have anxiety faggot. I dont give a shit if people reject me either. You normies dont understand shit just like I dont understand normalfags.

>>25520810
I have no idea what the fuck he was trying to do.

>>25518991
Your post was the only thing that inspired me to watch that video. I feel the same way bro.

>>25521141
>that indian guy and vietnamese guy
>chad

The indian is 5'7.
A shitskin manlet has a better life than you, I wonder whose opinion I should consider more... I think I'll take at least some of his advice.

>>25521199
Tell me your story, anon.

>>25518725
Why did he make this video I dont even understand

>>25521274
I don't have a story. Girls don't like me. I've tried being myself and also faking it.
It's not even about being attractive or not, some people are simply not meant to get a gf.

>>25521296
He is flailing around the amazing shit given to him for free by life.

I'll never date her because she's a disgusting piece of shit.

>>25521351
But.... Why? And why did millions of people watch this video?

Honestly it's pretty awkward and I don't think portrays him or his girl or anyone in a particularly good light..........

>>25521540
They are attractive people doing exciting, carefree and expensive shit that even normies long for.

It's wealth/status pornography.

>>25519902
that's not a fact, racist piece of shit

http://youtu.be/6lasNMlIAD8
JUst gotta bee yourself :^)

he's not wrong but he's missing the key point: girls will ALWAYS want a cute guy to be romantic with. You can approach a girl and make her your girlfriend sometimes even if she's not physically attracted to you, but this means you have to work harder than is necessary. Girls preselect by the face. Never forget this. That's why you should always approach the girls who are making heavy eye contact with you.

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>take the time to learn to be confident
>learn to be confident
What a stupid cuck.

If you want to be confident you have to act like an idiot. Women love that apperantly.

Nope, not true. Leagues are real and they define our social circles.

I'm also dubious of his definition of attractive.

>>25522134
you're the type of person the video is about
fuck off idiot

>>25522299
Both you and the video maker clearly have no idea how confidence is built.
But at least you got dubs.

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>>25518991
It hurts

Original post

He's mostly right, but money plays a huge part in it.
Charisma only works within your own wealth class and classes below it. The lucky ones are the exception, not the rule.

>>25516955
Does this guy have a gf?

>>25517334
>outside
I'm standing in front of my postbox. Now fucking what?
"Go outside" is just as helpful as "Bee yourself". Be more specific.

I don't blame other people, I always blame myself. I do understand that I'm a source of my problems.

Anyway it doesn't help, I can't do anything about it.

>>25522331
Social skills can be taught, successful social interactions build confidence. That is why losing your virginity for a guy is such a societal milestone. You've completely your biological imperative of "convincing" a female to mate with you.

Confidence is not something that can be learned like a set of rules; confidence is a state of mind. Positive thinking, practice, training, knowledge and talking to other people are all useful ways to help improve or boost your confidence levels.

Your low confidence isn't gonna change from sitting around doing absolutely nothing.

>>25520674
Doesn't matter
Girls don't fuck you because you're obviously insecure about it
Not because of your height
You can still fuck a bitch that says
>hurr no 5'1 guys
If you're confident enough

>>25522424
Literally, and i sincerely mean LITERALLY talk to someone. Strike up a conversation, even if it dies in the middle or they walk away.

See that qt, go say hi and see where it goes. I don't give a shit if all you say is "hey" at first and then you run away flailing your arms like zoidberg, just do it.

>>25522429
false cause

>>25522467
>flailing your arms like zoidberg
Hello, reddit.

>>25522467
I feel like this would make my social anxiety even worse afterwards. I cringe even thinking about the awkward situation.
Even if my voice slightly cracks at one word I usually scream into a pillow as soon as I come home. Talking to a random person and fucking up would destroy me.

>>25522504
>Hello, reddit

Im 100% unsure what the literal fuck reddit has to do with what I said. Are you saying because I made a futurama reference that's reddit? Because if so fuck off, you petulant child.

>>25522476
Then what is confidence, smartass?

>>25522594
Everyone starts somewhere. The only way to deal with social anxiety yourself is immersion therapy. If no one talked to random people because they were scared you wouldn't be born.

same old tired B CONFIDENCE meme

all those bullshit youtube videos of ugly guys getting girls numbers doesn't mean anything, it's a fucking phone number, she can just ignore it.

>>25521857
>she felt like you were stalking you
why are women so self important?

>being ugly and showing interest in a girl
>get threatened with arrest
wew isn't the 21st century just great

>>25516955
Of course he is.
But it's nothing new, really. I think most of us know that in the end we're the ones to be blamed for our misery. We haven't tried hard enough.
Doesn't change a thing, though. It's the fixing part most of us have problem with, not being blind to what's wrong.

>>25521296

It's got 13.5m views. I don't understand why people watch it, but it's pretty obvious why he makes them.

>>25517313
what does an autist look like then

>>25524591
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_23z9yJAq0

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vKWuzklXUk0

>>25524794
yo do realize that to get diagnosed it usually needs to impair your daily life. the second guy speaks properly but clearly has tics.hes more talkative than most aspies so why wouldnt you claim its just a meme

also 50 bucks says he loves vidya

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>>25518725
>that lifestyle is more unrealistic then actually living in an anime
10/10 QT gf, the blokes easily a 9/10, rich from daddys money, and literally just drives and travels while fucking his gf every day

>>25525180
He's literally the kind of guy who gets approached by 8/10 chicks, and he probably denies them because he only does 9/10 and 10/10. God damn the envy I feel.

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>>25517130
They only work if "urself" is confident and desirable. We're at least honest about how fucked up we are.

>>25517135
Why are you on here if you are not a loser!?

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>>25519313
Speak for yourself faglord.

>>25517084
Ah. So typical normie bullshit. The only time looks don't matter is when you have lots of money.

>>25525564
>walk outside
>see average men in relationships with average women

Go outside once in a while. It'll be good for you.

Your problem is you're probably a 5/10 thinking he deserves nothing less than an 8/10.

"tried this,got pepper sprayed and tasered gg hoe"
-guy in comments

>>25525534
Looks more Arabic. Maybe cushite black, but overall doesn't really have the facial features or skin color I usually think of as black. Or hair.

Not quoted poster, btw

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>>25525643
Yeah it's cause she's half persian half somali so that may be why you think that.

>>25525628
No, actually. I don't think I deserve anyone. I'm not a very good person, and I'm actually probably gonna hang myself later this week. Have a nice life fuckhead.

>Listening to browns
stupid

>>25526039
Unless you're gonna livestream it I really couldn't give a fuck about your life plans, bucko.

>>25518725
>literally a segment of him and his gf fucking

kill me

>>25516955
>even paying attention to these types of videos

I am ashamed for you

>>25517000

>the reason you don't get girls is because you lack confidence and don't put effort into making yourself a better person or show that you care about others on a humane level (you're not just nice to people for sex or because they provide an immediate benefit to you, e.g. money/make you look good/they can do favors for you)

>>25516955

click bait for DESIGNATED

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>>25518725
>Life is a constant struggle to secure resources
>this faggot exists
FATHER WHY HAVE YOU FORSAKEN ME?

>>25521031
Stop chasing Chad

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>>25518725
>That fucking video

Eugenics should be legal

>>25516955
He's right in the idea that most of you guys here are average or better looking but want to fit in with a bunch of helpless retards and keep yourselves down. He's wrong in that you don't have to be attractive. Most "robots' are attractive, they just act like retards on purpose or refuse to change.

>>25521214
Probably has 4chan X, it makes it very easy to reply to the wrong post if you're retarded.

>>25526271
go back to jerking off your self-pity using all your excuses as lube.

I know what I should change, I don't tell myself excuses. I just don't put effort into fixing myself either, the laziness meme is actually real

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>>25518725
I'll never have this, fucking gringos REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

>>25517658
>>25517614
It's pandering for upvotes, he hasn't realized there aren't profiles on 4chan yet.

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>>25516955
The shitskin didn't seem to address anything about Steps 1 and 2 before he went on various tangents. The comment was about not being unattractive, everyone he showed was attractive (including the obese lad).

>>25526551
Fucking beaners

I'll never even have a fat gf because you took all our jobs.

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!

>>25526510
nice projecting, what are you a PUA faggot?

>>25526659
no projecting here, bucko. It's just the only reason anyone says that kind of dumb shit about these kinds videos. They enjoy wallowing in their self-pity because it's easier than having to deal with the possibility of failure.

does wearing a fat suit or having a 5'7' man hit on a tall girls and getting their phone number really prove that looks don't matter?

>>25518991
I sat down in an acquaintance's Cadillac a few years back, the sound system was beautiful and for a moment I took it all in, rich people live lives we couldn't possibly dream of.

>>25518725
He succeed in the capitalist world we live in. I still don't evny him, I just wish I had more money.

>>25518725
Man
fuck that
fuck the robot too

>>25518725
How do these people get so much money? I doubt it's because they're pretty.

>>25518725
You guys dont get it?
These people are models. They have to make money somehow right?

I bet they didnt pay a cent for anything in this video. The hotels pay them/or give it for free, as free advertisement.

It's pretty much an advertisement for rich kids.

>>25519049
they are all white and racist and they only want to breed white women with their seed

>>25526474
>implying i like being a a kisless virgin fuck up
>>25526290
>don't put effort into making yourself a better person or show that you care about others on a humane level (you're not just nice to people for sex or because they provide an immediate benefit to you, e.g. money/make you look good/they can do favors for you)
I'm sure that drug dealers are great people, that's why they are chased by women

>>25520676
Reddit has stolen this meme. It is to late to stop them now

>>25519902
>"Race"
There isn't a genetically homogeneous Indian race, you autist. That would be like saying every European is ethnically Italian.

>>25518725
Why wasn't i born beautiful? this shit ain't fair