> Walking on campus
> See qt grill
> look at her
> She looks back
And THIS is where i quickly look away and do my best to avoid contact. Happens every time
This is a problem. How do you react to this?
Omg Becky, that creepy loser is looking at us again!
up close, you can cheat by focusing your gaze between their eyes. they wont' be able to tell the difference and it will make it easier for you
from far, don't look "into" their eyes, look at the front of their eyeballs. it's primarily a mental distinction but it takes the edge off imo
Ask yourself why you look away, because there's no real reason to.
>but I'm shy
Why? What are you shy of? What's going to happen if you keep looking at that person? Absolutely nothing. It doesn't matter. If you just train yourself to do this, your confidence is bound to get a boost.
disregard tripfag this is horrible adviceI once had a qt girl I would do that eye contact-she looks-break contact thing, and one day I decided to straight up not stop looking. It was very awkward, she told all her friends "that guy" is a creep. would not recommend
Fuck off chad scum.
It's truly a mixed feel.
It's a good feel that you ruined friend date at the cafe because they're shallow cunts.
It's a bad feel that you're so ugly it made them get up and leave.
I've been there a couple of times, truly a mixed feel.
>she told all her friends "that guy" is a creep
Good, then your existence was acknowledged. Whether it's positive or negative doesn't really matter. Chances are mostly likely that you were called a creep either because you ended up trying to stare her down into the ground, or simply already had the reputation of creep but were of no danger to them in a social manner. By establishing your existence to her, you became one, but that's a good thing.
I personally suggest to keep no longer than 1 second of eye contact to avoid staring. This is just something you practice though.
Eye contact is the absolute BASIC of body language. If you can't even practice the basics of the most important aspect of face to face communication, how do you ever expect to lose your shyness?
I am none of these things.
Close your eyes, smile, and give a quick nod.
As you bring your head up from the nod your momentum flows naturally into averting eye contact and continuing on your way.
Based on my own experience, It goes:
Lvl.1 - Never making eye contact ever
Lvl.2 - Quickly looking away
Lvl.3 - What I just described
Lvl.4 - Looking at them as you nod and seeing them smile back - (This is where I am currently at)
Lvl.5 - Saying hi to them
Lvl.6 - Complimenting them on something
Lvl.7 - Approaching them
--ENTERING CHAD MODE--
Lvl.8 - Making them approach you
Lvl.9 - Getting them to follow you somewhere more private
Lvl.10 - Fucking them right then and there
The experience needed before each new level grows exponentially, so unless you inherited a natural skill that boost your exp reaching those higher levels are nigh impossible.
Biggest thing to remember is not to stare, staring adds a x0 to the experience formula.