Would it be worth it to get a part time job just so I can get enough money to buy this?
It's $500 and I'm gf-less in college
>I guess we are new roommates
>is it cool if I throw some stuff in this closet
>what is this anon?
>p-pls no :_;
>"anon commits suicide"
Go ahead anon sounds like a good buy.
GO BUY 500 DOLLARS IN CLOTHES AND HAIRCUT. GYM. GO TALK TO A PSYCH. JOIN A CLUB. YOU CAN BE SAVED MOTHERFUCKER. THERE'S STILL FUCKING TIME.
-YOU FROM THE FUTURE
ps Amanda is kind of a bitch, but her eyes make you the happiest you've ever felt in your entire life, you don't want to kill your self like you did 6 months before meeting her.
>Not buying the only parts of a woman that matters
What type of man are you?
I bet you're a woMAN
I'd kill somebody for this.
Put it in a corner, dress it up, and say you stole a mannequin. It looks edgy. A friend of mine did this and we can't help but laugh hysterically every time I come over and see this thing that he fucked and put in a corner. The funny part is that most normies get drunk and dry hump it all the time or cop a feel.
>I'd kill somebody for this.
Don't worry senpai, soon women will go back to knowing their place
Save yourself the sorrows and sadness, and think about human sexuality, mammalian sexuality, sexual reproduction, how it works. Educate yourself. Find out why it is so powerful and tempting. Why it drives you to desperately find a solution to deal with it because you are thinking of yourself as inadequate.
The truth is, you, now are adequate. Even in your sorriest state, as long as you have desire to improve, or any other higher pursuit.
Examine how this thing works. When you fap, examine your body reactions, your thoughts. What the heartbeat does, how does your vision focus, what about your breathing. What are your thoughts.
You can also educate yourself, look on the internet for a book recommendation on the topic. The author should be a doctor of medicine, since they have a good knowledge of the workings of the human body. So if you do not already know the workings of it, the feedback mechanisms, what are the stimuli, etc. Then it would not hurt to educate yourself.
Regarding your sexuality, you have a choice, you can indulge in it, you can suppress it by discharging it frequently, or you can learn to control it.
Fapping frequently and cumming frequently does not have a good effect on health. The pleasure can grow into addiction, especially with internet pornography. You seek things that turn you on since the old ones don't.
And you spiral down in the vicious circle.
Even when you use fapping as a coping mechanism for loneliness or stress, it does not really solve the issue, only numbs you for a while. You can be numb for a little more than a while, but it has the potential to grow into an addiction.
For practising control, nofap is ideal way to do that. Because then you can focus on more important things than physically stimulating your penis while you simultaneously watch arousing imagery.
So yeah, examine what message every piece of media has for you, and just fucking examine it.
tl;dr: do not yield to life of mediocrity
Is there not an importance to, as you call it, discharging your sexuality when the mood arises? My thought has always been to masturbate when aroused so as to get rid of that feeling, and never at any other time. Won't suppressing (as you say, controlling) those urges consume you with sexual thoughts more and more often? I readily admit that I am uneducated in this manner, and that my only stake in this is my belief that sexuality is consuming the minds of so many of my generation's young people.
When you engage in lustful activities, the appetite grows the more you indulge.
If you manage to just deal with it this way, it might work for you. But you still end up cumming and getting rid of some nutrients, which the body has to replenish.
The sexuality is very powerful and it can consume a person completely.
It has managed to consume me for some years, when I was daily masturbating to porn.
Now I know that if I am stressed and lonely, and I view something nsfw, I end up fapping few days later.
But my nofap experience taught me that if I become aroused, I do not have to act on it, I do not have to discharge, the urge goes away.
In my case this was rather difficult, and I still am not completely cured. That is because my addiction was compulsive. I was compelled to fap because it gave me pleasure. Now it gives me shame, so despite being set on never fapping again, few moments ago I did and it felt bad, shameful.
It all comes down to interpreting what we see and cultivating our thoughts. I might as well been totally indulgent, approving of the women being degraded and reduced to sexual objects. But when you actually think about it, you will conclude that porn is wrong. Mainly for the viewer. And also for the participants.