>Send her a friend request
>She ignores you
The beta uprising can't come sooner.
you usually dont get a notification when they decline so technically you probably weren't ignored. FIGHT HARDER DUDEBRO
>>37904857
>send her a friend request
>she ignores it
>talk to her for a while and resend it
>she accepts
>>37904878
It's been almost 24 hours anon...
>be on dating site
>do my best with pics, profile and messages
>feel like I'm a catch
>sent a ton of messages to cute/attractive/hot girls
>after one week: 0 replies
>go see who have visited MY profile and/or sent ME messages/'I'm interested'-notifications
>pic related; will commence dump, too
>tfw you realize you're only good enough to attract bottom feeders
Life's so unfair.
All of them are within the age range of 24-32, by the way.
I'm not kidding with any of these. It's all genuine...
Ha ha ha this is why I didn't join OKcupid
I saw waaaaaaaayyyyy too many of these types on there and they spooked me off
I'll take my chances IRL, these creatures are something else.
I just want a gf. Why is it so hard?
>>37904779
I just want a PhD in Computer Science. Why is it so hard?
Have you sorted yourself out first?
If you're a huge mess, then what makes you think a girl wants anything to do with you?
Also apparently you need to talk to them, which is the part I'm still working on personally.
What do you mean? It's not hard at all. Have you even tried?
Post what you're writing right now, so we can rip each other to shreds.
Pic related is something I slapped together late last night. There's another page or so if you want to see it.
I wrote a radio sketch the other day.
I'm quite pleased with it. I might actually record it if I can get over the intense feelings of shame of speaking loudly.
http://docdro.id/XRdxTiW
>>37904762
It's a bit hard to get an idea based on the first page alone.
>>37905280
This is very good anon, I would really like to hear you read it
>>37904762
Your dialogue sounds really cringey, desu. Like some dialogue spoken by enemy goons in a low budget action movie or some fanfiction. I thought up better replacements for all 4 lines of dialogue. Less is more.
Want me to give you your "revised" dialogue?
> gf constantly starts drama cuz jealous
> wants to stay in contact 24/7 and chat all day everyday
> friday afternoon
> girlfriend just cancelled our theme park trip we agrreed on having tomorrow
> says she doesnt know what to do
> i propose to do nothing on saturday and shift it to sunday
> hangs up
> gives me silent treatment for 24 hours
> have one single male friend
> see him once in two months for dinner or movies (2 to 3 hours)
>gf gets mad everytime
> gf claims im chatting with other girls
> requests phonelog and chatlog
> gf receives phonelog and chatlog
> gf satisfied but wont ever apologize for the drama
> female colleague calls to go eat during lunch break
> no one else in the office
> decline offer because i dont want to be seen with her alone (fear of gf getting jealous)
> decline offer though im hungry
> at home get jealousy of some weird online times of mine
> tell gf to control her jealousy
> tell her about lunch incident (i declined because of fear of jealousy
> gf twists my words claiming i said she holds me back to chat with that female colleague
>gf breaks up
is stuff like this normal or is she just too clingy and jealous
>>37904710
Lmao this reminds me of my ex, she was exactly like that holy shit; the difference is that i also was acting jealous when she had this retarded behavior.
Anyway this extreme jealousy is not normal at all, she prob has some mental issues. Apparently you dodged a bullet. But yeah, if you ever go back with her, just act the same way, ask her for chatlogs etc. Maybe she learns she fkd up. Also make her say sorry, dont be a beta. Bitches need to learn
you're better off without her op
>>37904710
>>37904793
>>37904822
KYS FUCKING NORMALSCUM
>tfw too sensitive and beta minded
Fuck my brain, why am I so sensitive. I worry about dumb shit and overthink everything. It didn't used to me this way. Is there a way to get mind /fit/.
How can I truly take control of my mind instead of it controlling me
lol @ thinking you can control your mind.
that's like trying to domesticate an animal that under no circumstance can be domesticated.
You gotta toughen yourself up
Taking nothing but cold showers will give you some willpower as well as some sick cold resistance in the future.
>How can I truly take control of my mind instead of it controlling me
This is kind of a mind blowing issue if you start thinking too deep about it. What is you, anyways? Your mind? Conscience? Soul?
So, your mind controls your thoughts, and you want to control your thoughts directly, bypassing the mind. But then what will would you input to your thoughts? A rational, calculated one? And for what goal? You cannot completely remove emotion from the equation because at that point you might as well do nothing.
>Meet a girl on an R9K discord
>talk with her on VC on the server, nothing too big
>she calls me up the next day at like 2am
>Says she was bored and thought my voice was cute
>ohfuckherewegoagain.png
>mfw she's not a land whale, and is a 8/10
>mfw she's ok with not having to fill the void 100% of the time, also isn't vapid
>mfw she's 16
The fuck do i do guys, she's as autistic as i am but i'm 3 years older than her.
>>37904660
>tfw no 16 year old online edgy gf who doesnt understand statutory rape
so what is the issue here again? its not like you're gonna fuck her
That's not that big a difference you faggot
I killed a cat yesterday.
not sure what to feel about it.
>>37904648
howd you do it?did you take pictures
Why did you do it? What was your motivation?
>>37904659
>>37904668
It had babies and was getting all smug about being a mom.
I accidentally sat on of of her babies and she came running at me so i slammed her on a covfefe table snapping her neck
>tfw I was 'cured' of my narcissism
>Work ethic disappeared
>Now dealing with severe confidence and self-image issues
>Developed GAD
>Developed a stutter
>Completly unable to focus
The fucking psychologist meme literally ruined my life.
I was self-aware before, I knew I was cocky and snobby.
But no she has to fucking take away any personal strengths I used to have because "lol it's bad anon"
Professional help is a trap
>>37904593
narcissism isnt bad for you, it's bad for others
>>37904616
So fucking what.
They have to deal with me less than 1% of their life.
I have to deal with me 100% of my life.
>>37904593
She took away the crutch you'd been hobbling along with all your life, so naturally it's going to get worse before it gets better. You have to learn to cope like a normal person now.
Who here likes Mount&Blade?
3610 hours and counting over here.
yeah I like to play. fucking bitches dont know about my realm
I played it a bunch for a while, haven't played in a long time though.
I eventually felt like I wasn't really progressing at all, I had formed my merry band of marauders and everything but I was still basically just chasing bands of looters and deserters around and couldn't figure out how to get to more exciting shit.
I do. Game of my childhood. Anyone /impatientforbonerlord/ too?
How the fuck do i stop turning my friends prison gay
>Inb4 "Go back to /lgbt/ xddd"
>Inb4 "kill yourself"
>>37904489
Will you suck my cock if I ask nice?
>>37904533
If i like you as a person, sure
>>37904489
You can turn me as gay as you want, but I don't fucking share so don't.
women claim to want equal rights yet get into abusive relationships all the time and are visibly disgusted by people that treat them well.
These holes do not deserve rights
roasties explain yourselves
If that's true, how come you don't have a gf?
>>37904474
>stupid normalfag makes another stupid normalfag thread
go back to /b/ no one cares about your fucking moronic ramblings.
>>37904474
you don't treat girls right.
also don't bother commenting on abusive relationships if you haven't been in one. they start off good, euphoric even.
>Close friend gets mad because I never say much and he has to carry the conversation
>I think of things to say
>I say a thing that I thought was kinda interesting
>"Uh... ok? I don't really get why you're telling me that? like what am I supposed to say to that....?"
>mute my mic because I start to tear up because of how much of a loser I am
nice
>>37904462
I know these feels sadly, its just hard sometimes to talk about stuff when nothings happening
Well what did you say anon
Because normies want you to talk about sports and tv shows
Do you also sometimes have a feeling like you understand some social interaction or a piece of art or something MUCH better than almost anybody else around you?
And I don't mean stuff that happened to you but rather stuff you see as a stranger on the streets etc.
I had this revelation while I went to see pic related. Like everybody kinda understood what's it about. But I have this deep feeling that I was the only person who could actually relate to the main character. Maybe even more than the creators itself...
And since then I started observing this stuff on much more regular basis. Like when people argue around me or I go and see a movie or listen to music etc.
Is it just a special snowflake syndrome or can somebody relate to this?
Well, living a life of mental manouvering like most of us /r9k/ poster do, one to a more intense level than others. might give rise to new brain connections so seeing/understanding on a deeper level. (like the ''real'' autist who has superhuman talent, like hearing music one time and being able to play it right away. see link
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_7_RG5XdwCM
>>37904516
I never thought about myself as being autistic tho. And I don't think I am. Probably just socially inept..
>>37904609
The fact that you challenge and question such thoughts and ask yourself if you are "just a special snowflake" is a good sign I think. A certain amount of self doubt is very helpful. Look it up.
Idiots breeze through life assuming they are correct all the time.
Smart people constantly question themselves.
It's a real thing. If you ever lose your inner critic it probably means you're a dumbass. And always remember. The more you learn the less you know. I.e. the more you learn about anything the more you realise there are nearly infinite variables affecting everything making it impossible to actually "know" everything.
Only the truly stupid deal in absolutes. (And I appreciate the irony of that statement.)
>/pol/ full of white chads who've had multiple girlfriends and plenty of sex with white women
>they don't care about female sexual degeneracy or punishing female sexuality because they are the ones banging and gurlfriending all the hot white Stacy sluts
>for some reason they spend all their time hating on Asian, Indian and Muslim beta males who pose no threat to them and can't even get a woman
Why do people who have so much going for them get attracted to such an autistic ideology?
>>37904449
It's infested with Reddit filth.
>>37904449
It's one of the few places online where anyone can air their true views. Everyone is censored elsewhere. Surely this will attract some normies too.
Because they think they can debate