Girl should be virgin, or non-virgin is also ok?
What if girl slept before with 6x different guys.
Including some of them asians, no blacks.
First in age of 14.
Girl is 20 yo + now.
How such experience might affect girl mentally or physically?
PS. Girl didnt love any ex-guy, if that does matter, was trying to but didnt.
Why you guys judge people imidietly like that?
Imagen yourself, you love a girl, she had some guys but ... s8X only with protection, never without ( condom) and she was in depresive " i dont care anymore about anything" stage/mode, now she slowly having restored faith in love, and just because of her bad unlucky past... you dooming such girls?
People make bad decisions, happens.
A weak girl, mentaly broken by harash life, open for any opportunity out there, where she may find true love, whole life dreaming of being loved, trully loved... but guys being an assholes... dishonest... lairs.. cheatingfucks.
What if you would be the one lied to? having hope... and then ... being left over... with pain...
I love her, and so does she love me, there is nothing what may possibly stand on the way for me to be with her...
But she does have some ... backings, blocades... simple things as avoiding showing yourself by camera, on skype, or having no desire whatsover for making love ( s*x), are those side effects of past-experience relations? or some people may be naturally this way..
She did never enjoy s*x... she was cold... forcing herself to do it, just to ... act as normal girlfriend should for her boyfriend...
What about that huh?
There's some science shit about a woman's genetic makeup changing after having a partner. The cells persist and can be found decades later still in their bodies. So if you date a non-virgin most likely she'll still have the cells of her old boyfriend inside her
That's why women with many partners tend to be psychos
She won't fuck you but she fucked all those other guys. Just remember that. You have to work for what she gave other guys for free. All those guys there know what the inside of her pussy feels like, and even hearing her name would remind them.
Once a roastie, always a roastie.
But on a more serious note, why the fuck are you seeking validation for your decision from a bunch of NEETs and shut-ins? Seems rather silly. Are you incapable of making decisions for yourself?
She is probably not sexually attracted to you. You are likely a good person, with a stable job and good situation. However, you are probably not attractive in a physical sense or your penis is not satisfying to her.
You see, natural attraction and desire is a psychological driver. If she does not like sex with you, it likely means the problem is with you. There is a chance she has a psychological problem, but past history of sex would probably mean that is unlikely.
I want to know how such experience from her past life might affect person mentally or physically.
Mental changes? as someone said here, psycho ? why?
I remind you guys, she had always safe s*x with condoms, so still gens might be mixed anyhow?
she never had plessure from s*x... she just was giving herself up to it, by feeling obligaited while being in relationship, how do you rekognize if shes assexual or so?
sex is huge for women, fucks with their mind
For a single partner it is perfect. They form a STRONG bond to you. For multiple partners it pulls with their mind, they will ALWAYS feel something for their old partners. Look at how the divorce rate start to rise with more and more partners
girls who get raped and mentally damaged will be whores for the first week with new guys out of some bipolar shit but they don't like sex because they have an aversion to it cuz rape
maybe she was raped
its not a big deal if she isnt a virgin and is 20+. she is probably lying is she says she is and is 15+ (not a pedo but if you 15 any female you see thats 15 isnt a virgin)
what is a big deal is if she has kids. that pussy is wrecked and you wont get to have sex often without having a baby sitter. thats some bullshit
>I love her, and so does she love me
You won't last.
She changed her fucktoys about every 2 years to date. And I'm sure it was mutual love each time too. What makes you think your case is special?
Actually I do know what makes you think so, I used to think that too when I was young, and there was literally nothing to stop it from lasting forever, and the sex was amazing. But once the initial attraction wore off, it was time to move on. I'm getting close to the 40s territory now and I learned my lesson the hard way.
Anyway, enjoy getting laid while it lasts, I hope it's good. But don't put your heart into it, you'll get burned. And she'll probably settle when she's nearing 40 for some loaded guy nearing 60, if at all.
Tak z doświadczenia dobrze Ci radzę, kolego.
Imagine the first time you ever had pie, the person who gave it to you tells you it's the best pie ever. Imagine that's the only pie you ever eat. You love it and think it's amazing and to you it is the best pie in the world because it's all you know. You will be happy eating it.
Now imagine you try 6 different people's pie, and rhe last one you have is terrible. If it was the first pie you had you'd think it was good, but now you've had so many that you see how different they all are. You will never be satisfied with this pie permanently now. You will constantly be stuck in the cycle of trying new pie for the rest of your life, and a new pie won't even be a big deal anymore. Your first pie was exciting and mind blowing, now you try new ones without a second thought and none of them are special.
>She did never enjoy s*x... she was cold... forcing herself to do it, just to ... act as normal girlfriend should for her boyfriend...
If women don't like sex then why did they Start the Sexual Revolution and demonise prudish men as Backwards and Boring?
why Jews allways gotta jew .... aint sexual revolution started because of Jews in first place?
Anyway.... you guys are depresive ....
Is there at least single person who actually supports my arguments and try to stand on the side of Love/feeling?
Any scientific crap about physical or mental mutations in your body/mind after ex-sex relations?
>The mind mutates
oh god anon, please.
Physical mutations are bullshit.
but you can't say psyche doesn't change and everything you do in your life affects you and sex is a big thin emotionally especially for women.
>Any scientific crap about physical or mental mutations in your body/mind after ex-sex relations?
This is absolute horseshit and if you honestly believed that then all I ask of you is that you don't ever breed.
wisdom of macedonia : r
Did you notice anything among your ex-gf... who had boyfriends before? what was the main problem with them.. etc? somthing what they did share as common problem? some blocades? no special feeling about hug? kiss? being warm? or turning into some type of loner, who wants to have her own moments of being alone? anything?
Nope, nobody here... we le trash man'd our fee-fee's a long time ago.
What the hell happened to you anyways poland? I would've thought all the countless invasions you've had to deal with would've made you hard by this point.
dump her right now
she's a whore, used goods
women are best when they're still fresh and young, their pussy tight, their fertility high, their body beautiful and attractive because that's what's most important to a man
for men it's also about ressources. you accumulate more ressources with time and men age better. so in their late 30s men will still be physically attractive but also have career, money, house and so on. ressources matter a lot to a woman for obvious evolutionary reasons
at a young age men have to appeal to women, at an older age it's the other way around. the worst thing you can do is settle with a used and old woman who just keeps getting worse. that's why you should only commit to a relationship when you have accumulated value and then get a pretty young woman. before that only hump and dump
>Is there at least single person who actually supports my arguments and try to stand on the side of Love/feeling?
we are just trying to save you from putting your dick in a meat grinder
drop her and move on
Had a gf, that would suddenly start being emotional and start crying, when you'd try to comfort her, she'd be like HURR DON'T TOUCH ME, she'd also like me touching her, the just suddenly stop wanting, she also admitted to have had sex with a guy (before we started going out) she didn't want to but did it, because he wanted it (complete horseshit excuse in my opinion), but either way she regretted it apparently, later i found out that she was cheating on another guy with me, and i was like NOOOOPE FUCK YOU!
> who wants to have her own moments of being alone?
This is normal man, everyone wants to be alone sometimes, just not all of a sudden when you are with someone, if anyone does this, it's alarms all around.
>6 different guys
If you ever get married, the likelihood that you'll still be together after 10 years is about 20%. It's much more likely that you'll split up before then, or even before she gets to marrying you.
>fucking at a young age
>not saving your virginity for a healthy relationship
>having mental problems and being a basket case
>Not loving someone you have sex with
kek'd by the past, Poland.
Op's situation sucks. Best not get involved, you'll be sad for a while but then fine. Why do you have to take her baggage? Unless you have no hope of breeding with a normal chick whatsoever. Besides, from what i hear about poland, it's full of normal traditional women
You guys do realize, there is actually hundreds of thousands .... what I'm saying - millions girls out there, second hand girls, who been wild, and were fucking on left and right between age of 15-25, and who might be attractive, good at heart, inteligent, ... but single... and they must marry some guy ... or they remain single forever... what cannot happen ... or they end up with some black dude ... who gona racemix with them and leave them as single moms with half-black kid...
With your logic, about abandoning such girls... you basicly giving them for free to black dudes...
They might not want to, but to not stay alone, they will accept black guy ... and rest of the story should be preety clear for everybody...
I wanna add some more
>PS. Girl didnt love any ex-guy, if that does matter, was trying to but didnt.
I heard that from so many guys who came to me for relationship advice. they found out their gf used to be a whore. and they ALWAYS will say "I didnt love them for real I swear", that they "have changed" and this time is the "real time" where they feel "true love"
that's when you know your gf is a lying cunt who attempts to abuse you emotionally to have it her way
in the end it should be your choice whether you accept such a gf. those relationships do not necessarily turn bad
however, I would never accept this. because that would mean I settle with a woman already below my value and the disparity will just keep growing
>Had a gf, that would suddenly start being emotional and start crying, when you'd try to comfort her, she'd be like HURR DON'T TOUCH ME, she'd also like me touching her, the just suddenly stop wanting, she also admitted to have had sex with a guy (before we started going out) she didn't want to but did it, because he wanted it (complete horseshit excuse in my opinion), but either way she regretted it apparently, later i found out that she was cheating on another guy with me, and i was like NOOOOPE FUCK YOU!
Oh dear fucking god this sounds so hilariously familiar.
To make it clear, i was the guy cucking some poor fag out there that i didn't even know.
Needles to say, i felt fucking terrible and just fucked off, i may not be the smartest tool in the shed, but i'll be damned if i'm a pawn in someones games.
If she's not a virgin, I don't care.
If she experimented with a girl, I don't care.
The moment she sleeps with another man she no longer has value to me as she's proven herself incapable of making a basic choice.
It's called "consequences" and is an integral part of society.
Those who do bad are punished and others, by their example, learn not to make the same mistake. If they do make the same mistake, they are punished as well. The process is repeated until everyone has gotten the message.
If's she's not a virgin, automatic red flag. You're not gonna go around fucking losers while I slave for my medical degree, and then you get decide to get a man worth something. You sluts aint getting a free ride. Learn to live with your decisions
>Was poor student
>Made money selling real estate to Chinks
>All girls from high school and college start messaging
Nope. Stay away from me bitches.
Its about Honor.... being a knight who fallen in love with a girl with such history...
Its a french girl btw'
Anything special I should know about French girls?
>6x different guys
No a dramatic number, but you should multiply by 1.5. So 9. That's more than one per year, making her a serial monogamist.
So likely, she will leave you at some point. If you marry, that'll cost money. So yes for relationships, no for marriage.
>This isn't the 1600s. You like her? She likes you? Think it could work out? Go ahead and try then.
what a nigger
>she is a whore
>but I like her
>and she claims to like me too
>must be true love
I'm littelary a knight, with long fammily tradition in this..
According to priortys in life
2. Love ( feeling of love)
Love is the most important thing right bellow God itself, ( I dont belive in God or at least just taking its existence as possibility)
And since I love this girl, and she claims she didnt love any guy this way before me, I will do whats in my power to make this love bring true happines uppon both of us
>I'm littelary a knight, with long fammily tradition in this..
well that was a nicely executed bait OP
You're sad, the pill is bitter but once you realise that all girls are the same the better it is for you in the mean time.
Just don't marry or have kids and go out there and have your heart broken. You'll learn in time eventually.
Deluding yourself into saving some fallen woman isn't caritas OP. Not for yourself or your progeny.If you're a good Polish Catholic them you should know what the Doctors have said about chastity.
>>them you should know what the Doctors have said about chastity.
“Lust indulged became habit, and habit unresisted became necessity.”
-- Saint Augustine
“Chastity is the lily of virtues, and makes men almost equal to Angels. Everything is beautiful in accordance with its purity. Now the purity of man is chastity, which is called honesty, and the observance of it, honor and also integrity; and its contrary is called corruption; in short, it has this peculiar excellence above the other virtues, that it preserves both soul and body fair and unspotted.”
-- Saint Francis de Sales
"Only the chaste man and the chaste woman are capable of true love."
--Sant Pope John Paul II
Listen to your fellow Pole
What's this true love shit? That's what dating is for. Figuring it out.
Well it sounds like your mind is made up, so what's the point of this topic? Good luck though. Ignore the puritans.
Thank you kindly Sir, for this intel
There are only 3 reasons a girl isn't a virgin.
1) She is bad at picking good guys, and so they constantly dump her after getting sex. Meaning either you're the bad guy or she'll dump you when you don't turn out to be the kind of guy she wants.
2) She loves having sex, and therefore she will likely cheat on you, or base the value of your relationship heavily on the quality of sex rather than anything else. This is the "My girlfriend cheated on me with a black guy." type.
3) She was abused/raped and thus likely has some severe mental issues from this. Either she's afraid of sex now, or is a massive slut and has transformed into type 2.
There are literally no beneficial situations where a girl has had that many partners. Especially not at the age of 20. That means in 6 years she's had 6 guys. Do you really think the next guy she dates is going to last longer than a year when the track record shows she drops them quicker than that?
>girl slept before with 6x different guys.
>Girl didnt love any ex-guy,
She had 6 guys .. since age of 14.... till age of 25, she is 25 years old today,
>some blocades? no special feeling about hug? kiss? being warm?
Sounds like a rape victim, to be honest, OP.
Women who just lay there like a dead fish were generally abused/raped at some point in their youth. They never had a healthy sexual development and they are essentially "damaged goods".
let's say this loud and clear!
Girls can do what they want, when they want!
Taboos existed since the beginning of the time we know (btw, im a guy) but girls should remind this is what they want?? or they are being manipulated or forced to do what they don't want.
do you want to have sex at 14 go have it god bless you!
but bear in mind don't put older man in trouble and use ALWAYS protection!
its 2016 GO do what you want but don't couse problems for others!
to say the truth, no body cares what people do you could be a virgin ore a whore its your life get over it and have fun USE PROTECTION and live like you want to live if people say something fcuk it, if you don't endanger anyone go have fun! as a male i can say this only insecure people want virgins the rest of us don't care we want other things!
if we love a girl we don't count sex partners we count values!
like: faithfulness, truthfulness, sincerity, smartness etc.
Judging others is for the weaklings!!!
Well hot damn! Why didn't you say so? That changes the average of 1 guy per year into one guy per 1.8 years. Definitely better odds!
True love doesn't exist. Love is literally just chemicals in your brain firing off randomly. There's a reason why for years and years before now girls would be married to men based on reasons other than love; and people usually wound up happy with big families. Now suddenly it's about "Love" and "Freedom" divorce rates are skyrocketing with women divorcing most of the time. Because women don't know what they want.
Actually, in case you are curious, most divorces in America happen due to this uber progressive mentality we have adopted. Women having to work long hours at jobs that men normally do, having to share household responsibilities with the husband, being away from their children too much, etc. Of course, this would confuse anyone! It's good that women be treated like decent humans of course, but to be thrown into having to 'compete' with men when we are so biologically different is just sick.
My childhood I spent most of time with my grandpa, he was also a ritter, as I am trying to be now..
We spoke of many subjects, philosophy , scinece,, everything..
About subject of love.
What is true love?
" we like people for what is good in them ( friendly, funny, kind, atractive, good, warm ) but we love for what is worst ( drug addict, lazyass, alkocholic, ugly ).."
If we discover via friendship everything whats best and worst about other person, most darkest deepest secrets, via true friendship, not romance, dating bulshit or other crap, and after we know all what we should, and we still wish to share rest of our life with that person, no matter how good or bad things are in life, we just wish to share rest of our whole life, with that person, to the end ... it means we love.
Shes such ... perfect person in my eyes , I feel so magical special about her, but when I thinking of her history, things she told me, she tell me everything, we talk about all ... I just cant bare, because of my honor? or mental disorder of some sort, I CANT BARE OTHER MAN HANDS ON HER BODY, ther guy DICK INSIDE HER...
You guys are so cute with your broken English.
Yes, that is called your pathetic animal brain has dictated her as the woman you wish to breed with. As soon as you impregnate her, you will lose all feelings of attraction towards her and feel them towards your child instead as it turns into a defensive love.
If you do not breed with her, your brain will eventually decided that she is an unsuitable mate and will stop seeing her so beautifully. Then you will notice flaws on her that you didn't before. I remember look at nudes of my old girlfriends and finding stretchmarks, giant ones, I had never even noticed before because I loved them too much to see that shit.
Then you'll eventually get over it, and the next girl you find will excite you in the exact same ways; and you'll be saying it's "True Love" once more.
and yes for those who will try harash me... you can call me beta? because Im 29, virgin, good loooking according to how girls stalk me, or simply people see me, tall blue eyes, all that bulshit that drags girls to me... more - yes I'm wealthy... doing my own projects... having my own house deep in the forest... so even if you call me Beta... because I DONT f8Ck girls around, because rules forbid me, same as they forbid me alkochol, drugs, smoking and other useless stuff.... its the Honor that guides me through life, those rules... to remain loyal ... loyality is my honor... I wish the best for this girl, I care blindly about her, my love to her is real.. even if I dont resign ... no matter what, wont turn my back on her ... will I ever dare to touch her? ... in this ... "deeper" way ... sexual way .. I DID NOT DO It, fine ? FUCK YOU, whoever dares to flame and bitch of how beta fuck it soudns like..
I feel like shooting myself now,, even if suicide is forbiden
first we have to acknowledge that man and woman are kind of different they cant have the same things because a woman are created with a capability, reproduction so there are things a woman cant do that a man can and otherwise.
if we agree on this we are set for the second part.
Divorce is something very normal, it comes from losing the feelings or other stuff.
now its a trend that when something become hard people tend to run away!
most of the time people marry without truly knowing the other person, so when they know and understand each-other is too late and have to divorce!
is not the society who make people divorce is impulse of getting married because you're in love.
wait before you act, think before you sign!
Save a kid.. be responsible for your actions
Funny that comes to mind every time I talk with american friends.
no not the sucide, of course not ,, never..
you know what,, breeding? breeding is for retards.. I feel like setting world on fire. .. This world, system is broken, people are broken, most of them are bunch of wrothless degenerates, demoralized trash,, I want to see people fucking up eachother, in the ass, with the nukes... a show to die for...
>I want to see people fucking up eachother, in the ass,
no srlsy? why breed? what future you expecting on this planet after 10-15-25 years?
you create a fammily, bring a child to this mess, you will watch them starving, dieing, fighting for survival ...
Fuck it, lets go out and enjoy the ride...
i said it before do what you want man!
no body cares live your life!
but its not breeding its creating a family everyone needs it and when is with the person you love the mos you will be amazed how good and lovely it can be!
Gosh mate... you actually helping me to pull myself togheter,,, regian my reason, senses... sorry I was losing it,, thank You Albanian Muslim Bro Sir... even if Im Christian .. still thanks...
PS Stop being muslim, its just ... wrong : L
religion is a choice same as every other choice we make. It doesn't define us...
Im muslim by choice i found my self more there,
because in the end i think every religion is the same
LOVE is God and God is Love!
take care my friend and dont overthink too much! people want to troll just dont listen to those who want to stop you from being you