>meet girl on /mu/ 3 years ago
>one of those threads where you draw urself and ur fav alabums and hobbies and stuff
>find out she lives in san antonio while i live in dallas
>start playing league together, i was 17 so i snuck over to san antonio without telling my parents
>we were in a committed relationship for 3 years. basically shaped my current life thinking that she would still be around
>she broke up with me yesterday for a fucking pothead
>shes probably fucking him right now
>havent been on here in like 2 years
>i am now drinking jack daniels at 830am because i cant handle the pain
i literally met someone on /mu/ on 4chan. we had a 3 years relationship and now its over.
>this will never happen again
>fuck me for being an asshole
omg i can't believe you actually made a thread after i broke up with your depressed ass lmfao and we actually just got done having sex. hot, slimy sex. the kind you couldn't provide. thanks for nothing lmaoooo
I think you can live without her.
Shit happens. Move on. It's hard but you'll get over her.
Go get qt stoner gf and listen to Grateful Dead with her.
Who the fuck dates somebody they met on here?
LMAO i let you fuck my ass ONCE and after i wanted more you didn't want to because you were so fucking nervous. why don't you get off your ass and do something worthwhile? that's why i left you lmao this is so surreal
i did. she was 16 and i was 17. we moved in together during college and thats when she met some other dude who was a total pothead. im not a fan of weed. fuck stoner gfs
she decided she wanted tpo be more independent. i respoect that, and i wasnt going to stop her so i said okay and all that
doesnt stop the pain though. the fucking pain
i guess but i thought wshe was unique. i thought she was the one. when i met her i was like this is it this is the person im spending my whole life with., i was wrong so FUCK relationships you know? fuck them all. ill just travel and live my life alone when im done with my degree
Don't see how you're an asshole. Don't get smashed to dull the pain, you're only putting off actually dealing with your emotions. Was it sudden? You don't just meet some stoner and then break up with your boyfriend for him in the course of a day.
Anyway, it'll never happen again, but just be glad it did. Don't let the shitty circumstances of the end of your relationship make you bitter about the good parts.
this is some good advice that i havent heard anywhere else. thank you
im an asshole because i am an asshole. i havea short fuse. i was never abusive to her or never yelled at her, but i got really upset at small things like traffic, crowds, etc. and im working on that. this was a wake up call. but ive lost something very important to me in that wake up call process.
it was not sudden, it had been on her mind for a while. she didnt leave me for the stoner, she would have left me anyway. the stoner was just an enzyme
she did and i loved it. no one else will do that
ohhh!!! i get it now haha, its that simple!!! thank you for solving my entire problem. yes that was my problem was that ive never had sex before but then i did, thank you my friend now i realize that my pain is only tempoirary and that i will in fact have sex again thank you my friend you are rgeat!
>the stoner was just an enzyme
What you said in >>61763671 kind of indicates that you had some unrealistic expectations about the relationship (if I met a girl on /mu/ I wouldn't expect it to last a month, let alone a lifetime, no matter how compatible we seemed. As a general rule, people who post here are volatile in some way or another.) Spending some time single to do some ~soul seaching~ is probably a good idea, but don't write off relationships because this one didn't end well.
Anyway, good luck with dealing with your anger thing, and hope you feel better about the breakup sooner rather than later. Shit happens, you know. Better to be single than in a relationship where someone's looking for an out.
Go get drunk with a few close friends tonight, or go to a show or something.
maybe ur right. after all you can totally judge someones entire character and buildup over 3 years from an early morning hammered as shit post on 4chan
but nah man respect i see where ur coming from
wow. thanks man you are really nice. like i said i havent been on here for like 2 or 3 years so i dont really know what the culture has become. back when i was on here the essentials were like nmh, antlers, death grips, etc.
maybe i did have unrealistic expectations, but if you met her in the same situation and same circumstances you wuld not have different expectations. she was almost NEVER volatile to me (thats porbbaly not even an almost - we communicated a lot, but she wa snever toxic or anything). she wasnt an average /mu/tant
idk maybe i will. i just dont feel like ill ever have that same type of connection that i had with her wioth anyone else. i mean i dont really know how to say it well but we met on /mu/ for fucks sake and lasted 3 years, isnt that something
i was volatile to her tho. like i said i never did anything directly to her but i got angry a lot. fuck thank you for the best wishes. ill continue to grieve and drink and then ill get my shit together in like a week or so
lol. no. im not going to talk shit about her then post her picture on this forum like that, thats fucked up. she was beautiful tho. 5' 7" or spomething, medium length wavy black hair, oval face with large brown, sometimes green eyes and thick but not too thick lips. she was a quarter japanese, three quarters white if that gives you any picture at all.
currently going through a shitty ass breakup as well. the 5th one with the same person over the last 2 years.
Every time before this, I used to just avoid any mention or thought of her that I possibly could, figured that was the best way to get over her. Turns out that just made me hide all my emotions and I would eventually explode and could never fully get over her and would end up going straight back again. Obviously the going back was from both parties but still.
This time I've fully accepted it, I even learned that she's fucked a bunch of guys this time around whereas before I've always been the only one, and I was always insecure as fuck so never knew how I'd deal with it. But as it turns out accepting that has made things easier, relieves some of the stress.
None of it will feel good, but you've got to just let your emotions run free so you can get them all out. Obviously do your best to make sure this doesn't have any adverse effects on the people around you, but just make sure you don't hold it in or you'll feel the way you do now for a really fucking long time.
Oh and I know it's insanely hard in times like these, but challenge yourself to go 2 weeks without drinking alcohol. I've been dry for the whole of January, and I feel like I can really sort my head out during the darker times, so while it's a relief to be able to have a drink in the short term, being sober is definitely the easiest way to get over her.
Just try your best my man. I'm sorry to hear it didn't work out, but you will find an even better girl next time, whenever that may be.
it may be just because im drunk but i am crying right now. thank u
maybe ill try being sober. funny thing was ive always hated alcohol and never really drank much. but now im drunking and see why people drink when they get sad. it feels good. but i will try to stop.
that girl just basically increased my standards so much tho. idk if i will find someone that doesnt already have a boyfriend that is into the same things i am. she was, and she was single when i met her. fuck man. thnakj you you are great,
the key thing to remember is that alcohol is a depressant. so you're mixing the feeling of being depressed from this break up with a substance that will make you more and more depressed the longer you keep drinking it, so it won't actually do you any good. you may not notice it but when you wake up next you'll spend the day that bit sadder than you usually would. It's all part of the hangover my man.
it's a tough thing to kick but if you can do it for 1 week, you can then try for 2 weeks and so on.
trust me man i'm in the exact same boat. I keep thinking of all these things that were so great about my ex and can't fathom how I'll ever find anybody like that ever again, but you and I both will at some point. Whether it's tomorrow or in a years time or whenever, it'll happen and it'll be somebody that's even better than the last.
Here's hoping your getting over phase is a lot quicker than mine, buddy.
Thanks homie, you too.
not tonnes, just some. i know already she's got no interest in other guys on an emotional level anyway, not at the moment anyway, so I guess I'm lucky in that regard.
You're welcome bud. Hope you do.
Also, good job on crying, get that shit out it needs to be done. Doesn't have to be crying over her, watch a sad film or some shit but just cry your damn eyes out, it helps.
oh uhhhhhh idk she was into a lot. i think when we met she was really into of montreal. but idk what her fav band is now. seriously do you actually know her. what is the first and last letter of her first name.
Go download and read Yotsuba. Do it right now, forget this bullshit.
It cures the blues man. You think it wouldn't but it does.
>he's a fucking pothead
people can smoke weed and not be a pothead. did he smoke weed or was he a pothead?
>i am now drinking jack daniels at 830am because i cant handle the pain
I think you know what I am trying to say here.
still, that really sucks. I'm with you. I won't tell you it'll "get better", just hang in there.
I read the first volume on a whim and ordered the next 11 books immediately. There's a reason she's our mascot.
Here, have a four-leaf clover.
nope, definitely a pothead. he smokes weed literally all the time. thats what he does, thats what he spends his money on. ive seen him many times and hes never not high or not about to get high.
thanks for the kind thoughts. i know what ur trying to say, but many people ive talked to said that sometimes its okay to drink when you are in pain. just to not do it too mcuh. she broke up with me yesterday, so im grieving. l;et me grieve
yeah kinda. but we were clingy to each other for 2 1/2 years, until we moved in toigether. then we both started doing our own thing but were still together. then i noticed, as i said, a few weeks ago her meeting withb this other guy then i started to become rly clingy. its not something i could have stopped i dont think - she said that she didnt love me as mucu as she used to when we first moved in. she just was changing and wanted to do her own thing, which i dont have any qualms with. doesnt mean it doesnt hurt like fucking hell
>ts not something i could have stopped i dont think
nah I agree. not much that coulda been done
yeah its totally okay to drink, you didnt understand me. I was telling you not to look down on the pothead for being a pothead. I drink alone every now and then. as long as its not damaging your health its okay in my mind.
oh, yeah i guess i did misunderstand you. thank u. i dont rly look down on him. well, i sorta do for stealing the person i love most right now...but that wasnt his fault. it was my girlfriends...or should i say my ex girlfriends :|
are you that one italanon that's always using the word "gross" slightly out of context
am also slightly drunk right now, except that I'm happy
try not to worry my famiglia, shit get's better after breakups.
life can even be good at times
bro just drop the trip already
idk senpai my eyes are either dark blue, grey or light silver depending on (i think) the weather.
I know those colours are all a bit more similar than green and brown (or whatever he said) but it is a thing
Well, OP, I live in North Dallas. If you want to chill with me, my gf and some homies tonight we can get you stoned and listen to some music.
I won't post my name, though, so we'd have to find some other way to do that, like, gimme your Snapchat name or some shit.
oh shit that sounds tight af but i dont rly smok weed and havent gotten into a lot of music recently. im also going back to austin tomorrow. thanks tho senpai thats super nice of u
You're clearly insecure about yourself and question and every relationship you're in pussy no wonder you get dumped on meet me on the lawns of hate st so and I'll make fun of you irl kid lmao
i guess it's hard to let go of someone because it feels like you have much more in common or always something new to talk about because you both go on 4chan. i had to let go of a guy i was talkin to on /sp/.
>incoherent level shitposting
fucking kill ur self cunt
More weed for me ;). I'm not going to make you smoke, you do not have to unless you want to. Might have some liquor here to share with you, instead. Just trying to help out.
Just saying, if all you are going to focus sit alone and drink, you might be better off joining me and some buddies.
>abusing bad alcohol (jack is shit)
>thinks he has the right to call people pothead
srsly pot is so much better for you then jack (or any other alcohol out there, other than, arguably, wine [if ingested in moderate levels])
fucking drunk spichead
>tfw met a girl on /int/ who also loves to visit /mu/
>tfw she's a qt from Estonia
>tfw we talk everyday on Skype
>tfw she has pretty much the same musical taste as me, perfect for me
>tfw she wants to see me in France but doesn't have the money
>tfw working extra hours to have enough money for her
>tfw sending 1600€ to her on paypal
>tfw she's not connected on Skype since wednesday
Was it a scam?
I can't believe I was so naive... ;_;
Be careful if you met a girl on /int/ or /mu/
>get left for pothead
>meet nice guy on /mu/
>talk and laugh for a few months
>he gets a life
>stops using last.fm and RYM
>never talk to each other ever again
I thought this is supposed to be a nice thread wow
only did 2 of them ;^) u shouldnt be suprised more than 1 person would make fun of you for such a wanky comment tho. it could easily of been 3 different people who thought you were a cunt considering you said such a cunty thing.
Come on guys. Don't knock it till you tried it.
I get stoned and play my guitar, It's fun.
Like alcohol, It's best to be used in moderation.
I work most of the week and weed just slows me down on the job.
On the weekends, or, on days when I have nothing to do, I'll smoke.
My ex started punching and kicking and biting me one night because she thought I was looking at the models when we were looking at lingerie together. Then she took our daughter and left and called the cops on me for beating her up. I got arrested. Oh and she won't let me see my daughter
Sorry your little Perfect teen relationship didn't work out
omg ur so dry man, the marijuana has certainly killed off any ounce (scuse the pun) of personality u may have had. i thought drug addicts, reeferheads in particular, were supposed to be fun?!
>break up with girl after almost a year
>look at her twitter
>see her talking shit at me
>look at her instagram
>see that she's taken the pictures of us off but a picture of her and her previous ex are still up
Fuck you Sarah
>meet girl a year ago
>like her a lot
>she does as well
>finally ask her out
>we go on two dates but I was too beta to do anything
>fell into a huge depression when she left home
>she comes back for uni, still both interested
>fuck it up since I realized she was a boring cunt
>we actively try to avoid each other now
>imagine what would have happened if I had more guts
>never had a relationship with someone before, only held hands twice and pecked someone when drunk
Just fuck my life up senpai