>tfw I usually laugh at "tfw no gf" threads
>talk to a qt girl in class
>we both kick off and talk about personal shit
>I gave her my number but she hasn't texted me
>Worried if I gave her the wrong number, doesn't have the time for me, etc.
>Only have class with her on Fridays
>Want to see her more often
What is some music for these feels
>first time I've ever seen anyone other than me post the beautiful musical genius that is Larkin Grimm and it's in a fucking nogf thread
>meet a girl after being single for 5 years
>excited to just talk to her and hang out
>we get drunk and head back to my place to crash
>we don't have sex or anything i slept on the couch
>i say "add me on facebook" the next morning
>she doesn't and i never see her again
my therapist is as patrician as a woman can be, she likes Wagner, Eric Dolphy, John Coltrane, Metallica and south american folk music. she is also an 8.5/10, brown hair up her shoulders, dark eyes. But she is married and has two kids.
>tfw qt at my work
>she's in a different department to me so I only see her on tea breaks
>the one time I end up running into her outside of work, I'm knocked out by flu + painkillers, end up sperging out
the worst thing is I still don't know if we have anything in common :/
It's probably not meant to be although next time you see her make eye contact and smile. If she reciprocates you can see if you have a chance.
Or you know just say hello. You're not a creep for just saying hello.
No because women aren't objects you dipshit. lol sorry your ex didn't do as she was told like a fucking lapdog
>wanting a gf who does everything you say
>not wanting a gf with their own mind
we chat pretty easily on tea breaks, but it's hard to get into great detail about her interests or whatever in short conversations (she used to be a music student, so I'm hopeful enough on that score). if I could meet her outside of work I could at least figure out if we have any shared interests or whatever
Don't bother. Most girls on dating sites get 50 messages an hour. Seriously, AN HOUR.
She probably won't read it or care.
Just being honest with you.
Wait for a girl to like your profile before you talk to them.
And no, I would have not.
Go see a psychiatrist, seriously.
You seem serious, delusional and victimized, and that's just not normal.
she messaged me back already tho. and also she had initially messaged me first a couple months ago I just never responded because I was seeing someone.
she is interested, I'm just sociallty retarded so idk how to not fuck it up
Just be interesting and funny but try not to force it. Look, if you need to force someone to like you it's really not meant to be. Be yourself but be the best version of yourself.
Don't be boring because she's probably meant plenty of boring guys. Stick out. Show you're different without being a "nice guy". She's human too so she's probably nervous or feeling the same way, you'd be surprised.
>And men are not objects either, yet women expect them to do everything they say.
>If they don't, they simply just find another boyfriend.
When was the last time you were in a long-term relationship, how old were you, and how long did it last?
I never really talk about music with any of my friends. GF is really into hip hop, but mostly irony-core because it's funny. Friends are mostly into flavor-of-the-month indie pop and entry level hipster hop. My friends who are into metal really only listen to thrash and don't talk to anyone who doesn't dress the part or seem "untr00"
well, i am what you people call "patrician". does merzbow count?
you fucked up by giving her Your number instead of taking hers
i have a gf and you are retarded dude. You've been brainwashed by /r9k/.
I tell her what to do and she listens. If she doesnt do what i say, i leave. not the other way around. You probably just have low self esteem or something if you are attracting such controlling women.
what do you mean by that?
Hate to break it to you, but this might be a sign that she's not entirely interested. Her taking your number gives her control over the communication, and if she really wanted to she would have texted you by now.
>Fell in love with a girl
>Fell in love once and almost completely
>She's in love with the world
>But sometimes these feelings can be so misleading
>She turns and says are you alright?
>I said I must be fine cause my heart's still beating
>Come and kiss me by the riverside
>Bobby says it's fine he don't consider it cheating
>dorks on /mu/ trying to act alpha by creating the illusion that they're some machismo figurine who controls women
Shouldn't you be on /pol/ with the rest of the try hards?
i dont really control her perse, but she values my opinion on things and likes to make me happy,. I'm not one of those assholes who make her check in with me every hour or whatever.
Most likely she only value your opinion because you've damaged her self esteem enough that she believes she needs your approval. That or she already had pre-existing daddy issues. This gives you the illusion that you're "controlling" her.
When she starts to mature you'll be out of the picture bro
what i meant that, is that if i specifically asked not to do something, and she went ahead and did it anyway, i would leave her because it would mean that she doesnt respect me. If you want to be with some one you should be willing to make sacrifices for the benefit of your relationship
>tfw dumped my musician gf because she started smoking weed to often
Last I heard she got knocked up by some 35 year old and is addicted to opiates
I hope she kills herself, she needs to end her misery
>tfw I get random texts in the middle of the night saying " I need you" and shit like that
>tfw I don't respond
Considering she can't handle her addictions and fell off completely in a self destructive cycle after he left it sounds like he did okay for himself getting out.
maybe you don't know what its like 2 be in one of those relationships idiot.
>first date with girl from my course
>wearing a Reagan Youth shirt
>"is that a band shirt you're wearing?"
>"what sort of music do they make?"
>"cool i'll have to check it out one day"
>the next day ask if she listened to Reagan Youth
>"uhm yeah i didn't really like it, not my cup of tea"
>accept she's another human being and move on to better things in the relationship
fuck bros music for this feels :'(((((
what happened to Nattie, Madonna and meeks? they were actually women to fantasize over on the internet, and tbh they weren't that bad looking despite nattie's and meeks' personality. now it's just faggots who still convince themselves Avant Math God is a woman
>"dating" qt 10/10 from high school
>she also plays guitar and has the same taste as I do
>I'm awkward so I move too slowly
>She keeps getting sadder and sadder around me until she just leaves
>4 years later, post it in 4chan attempting to get attention to compensate the lack of friends.
why did it all go so wrong
Reading this post makes me happy that I am a cyber knight from the year 16874 ABCD, posting from my omni-tool, have a nice planet, lots of credits, genmods, the ability to move through 5 dimensions, and a high perception modifier.
I knew this girl who was patrician as fuck. She was super fucking into me as well, top QT too, 8/10. I was dating someone at the time tho, it turned to nothing and by that time the patrician got herself a 3/10 boyfriend.
Skip a year and I stumble across patrician girls nudes on some fake account on tinder. I missed out. Big style.
I don't steal from family, friends and loved ones
I don't lie to people to get drugs
I don't sleep with cretins for drugs
She deserves death, she's already fucked over her child by drinking and doing drugs while pregnant
She doesn't deserve life, she does nothing but ruin others lives by living hers
She doesn't deserve it, I tried to show her I cared about her but as soon as money went missing from my pants and I found her buying weed with it, it was over
I'd call the police on her and get her chld taken away as soon as its born, but sadly I don't know where she lives anymore, if she even actually has a home at this point
It makes me sick I can do nothing that get that child away from her, she is going to fuck up his/her life so badly when its born
She is also a pyschopath, she tried to stab me when I wouldn't give her money for weed
Told her to get her own fucking if she wants to toke bud, she threatened to leave, once I said it doesn't matter to me she freaked out and tried stabbing me
Bitch is lucky I was raised by a good women or I would have busted her face in that night