Describe feels and others give recs.
I'm depressed, haven't talked to my friends in weeks and can't see anything positive in the future.
I'm going to tell a girl that I've been in love with for like three years that I'm really into her. I already know she's going to reject me and it makes me so fucking sad I can't even get out of bed but at the same time I'm so hopeful just because I get to see her
Realise that the only way to make anything positive happen in the future is if you do something about it, call one of your friends and ask them if they want to hang out or something.
Try to relax more
If you're already good friends you still have a chance man, just don't be embarrassed. And even if she does say no, sure it will hurt for a while but trust me when I say there's loads of other girls out there, don't catch oneitis
>I hate Uni
>The girl I like is living with her boyfriend and his family
>I met her sister a few days ago and she told me she hates her bf and that she told her sister she should date me instead of him
>The girl I like once said I'd make a good boyfriend
>May be led on. I still wanna be with her.
Just send them a facebook message or something man trust me, I've been in the same boat.
Also don't listen to >>50962582
I've been on antidepressants for two years now and I'm starting to realize how they've not helped with the problems just dealt with the symptoms. Try and find out what's causing you to feel sad and try your best to do something about it.
>tfw there's not a feels community on /mu/ any more
death of the board coincided with death of the feels, everyone knows it's true.
>nothing more comfy than leaving a party early cause i'd rather be on /mu/ shootin the shit.
I'm 25 years old, I've been coming here since what, 2007? Some of you guys are closer than some of my friends, I think. Sounds strange to say but it's true.
>first semester of uni
>madly fall in love with girl on same floor
>feelings are mutual
>we're both so happy together
>lose my virginity with her
>breaks up with me six weeks later and pretends I don't exist
>feel super lonely because she was my best friend at uni
>most guys I live with don't speak to me because I can't sports
I'm glad there's actually a feels thread for once. This has all really been bringing me down recently and I just needed somewhere to let it out.
>Was on an emo kick
>Suddenly started to dress way more stylishly
>Reverted to post punk and Goth rock
>Now I dress in all black and listen exclusively to drum machine/synthesizer music
>throwing a Goth party on Halloween so I can pretend I have Goth friends for a night
>still lonely as fuck
All of this is for naught
>tfw a month ago i was a 21 kissless virgin
>tfw i found a qt3.14
>tfw i received a bj one week after my first kiss
>tfw she want to be my gf
I'm emerging from a long depression (moderate form, more like apathy), though I fear being dragged under again. I live my day with purpose, though when I dwell, it starts falling from me.
I am madly in love with my room-mate. I'm gay and he's not. He is very sexually active and I have difficulty with these things. I can't, and won't, make a pass at him, but I detect my frustration enduring.
My girlfriend left me, as well as several other sudden changes I have to adjust to.
Someone rec me a breakup album that I probably haven't listened to. I'd like something different this time.
crushed by corporate behemoth. recovering from surgery after months of waiting, last of pay from work about to run out, ICBF even sorting out centrelink. Don't know what will happen in future. Don't care either. Do not want.
muh dude. That fucking picture explains the emptiness I feel inside in this society. Born with an IQ 70 or 80 points higher than is necessary to get by in life isn't all it's cracked up to be, I'll give you the drum.
I really like someone, and I'm 75% sure she likes me back.
We had plans on Saturday night, which I was really looking forward to so that I could get to know her better and maybe tell her how I feel. She couldn't make it because she was ill.
Now I'm questioning if she really was ill and not just bailing out. I'm also thinking people who pull out on plans aren't worth my time anyway. Then again, I could be thinking this and making excuses to run away from reality, just because I'm scared of biting the bullet and telling her how I feel.
Trust me, the good feeling goes away after a few years so try to work with your problems while you still have this crutch.
>tfw remembering how you could fap 8 times in one night once but now it takes an hour just to cum and like three days to recharge
This picture speaks perfectly for the feel I'd like to describe. Suggest something that has a similar atmosphere. Looking at it definitely gives me feels.
Dakota Suite - There is calm to be done
Mi and L'au - s/t
Nils Frahm - Wintermusik
>tfw at a party getting shitfaced as you do with your best friend
>dare friend to chug half a bottle of mixed vodka and coke (you have no idea what concentration)
>does it like a baus
>With friend around the side of the party and he collapses
>stats saying shit like "i'm so sleepy"
>10 people come outta nowhere help him up
>during all this your walking around after him asking him what's up
>guy gives you 2 red cups filled with water
>asks you to wash the vomit away
>tfw too drunk to help
>he's shut in a room with strangers
>apologize to the host
>knock on the door, get told to fuck off
>spend the rest of the party getting more and more hammered whilst staring into space
Am i a shitty friend?
okay,this is basically what i did:
1.find at least three good pictures of you.
2.go to a site or download an app that show people near your area
3.start sending messages to any girl that you think is inside your league (dont send nothing creepy. just say hi and ask how she is doing, if she have a picture in a pleace you usually go say something about that place)
4.probably 25% maybe less will anser to you
5.talk to them, but always end your line with a question or something that she can talk about after so the conversation dont stop
6.find something you have in common and use that to talk more frequently
7.ask her if she want to meet
8.if she says yes take a shower before
10.if you get a long maybe you can get a kiss on the first or second date
11.if you like her and keep dating her
NEVER ASK FOR NUDES
>went to a uni
>meet a lot of people but never see someone outside classes and parties
>girl smiles at me and i think about her for a week
>can't focus on anything and spend whole days lurking
hang in there anon
I'm not sure if I can, but I'm gonna try my best, because I know it's all gonna become even worse, if I take the easy way out and just run away.
Also, thanks for the links. Not what I had in mind, but it works.
you're right. oh well.. back to apathy and nihilism.
but maybe that's the problem... I don't want to act on these kind of 'covert-cynical' ideas, I don't have any such ideas, I just remain clueless, yes I am paranoid and ultra cynical and think everyone else is probably like anon anyway. idk, but yeah fuck it. back to nothing I go.
> Can't see staying with gf much longer
> Share most friends at uni so wtf happens when I want it to be over
> Tfw I don't want to hurt her but being with her is no good bc we share few interests and have personalities which are not even remotely complimentary most days
>doing pretty good in college
>2 more semesters until i get my degree
>stop going to classes in the middle of semester
>dont make any plans for housing next yr
>dont re-apply for scholarships
>dont do financial aid
>distance myself from friends
>move back home work min wage job for few months
>quit job go on month-long camping trip to montana by myself
>meh it was okay
>return to parents house
>havent told friends ive returned
>stay in house all day
>cant even get myself to apply for a job
>only thing that gives me joy is playing my guitar
I am studying at an university now and feel more disconnected from other people than ever. I feel like I am floating through my life without touching anything and everything seems insignificant.
I am still driven by some force and have more energy than ever before, but I still have to force myself to really give a shit.
For most part I have to question if I am either all alone in the world or just do not exist.
Feels indifferent man.
A year ago I met a girl on okc and we fell in love and moved in together. After 4-5 months of living with her I realized she had borderline personality disorder. Almost a year and a half has gone by since we've met and psychologically i am more broken than I could possibly put into words. I gave her everything in me, and even that's an understatement, to help her with herself and her problems and recently I moved out from being overwhelmed and in serious debt.
I feel like I tried helping so much I gave up myself, and now I don't value myself at all. I could literally kill someone and rot in prison and not care right now. I fucked up with everything. And the worst part is she's out righy now smiling and canoeing with her new friends, laughing up a storm. Meanwhile I can barely utter out a few words, I don't feel like I have a personality anymore because I invested in everything into her. It's my own fault, my own weakness. I am on the verge of giving up on life
I play a little music, I work two 13-hour shifts on the weekend, and I attend (community) college every weekday, but I still spend every other hour on the internet. I thought these things would make me less of a loser, but I think I'll always be kind of lame. I have little motivation to be successful in life; only motivation is to not burden my parents like my sister does. I'm not depressed at all though and have never been suicidal. Kind of want close friends since I've never had any but not very motivated much to go out and live life. I am probably the most boring person I know.
Gimme whatchu got.
Ex stats to text me and I text back even though I hate her guts, and now I feel disgusting about myself. I'm simply one lonely fuck.
>keep pussying out of asking out crush
>I think she really likes me, and I'm super flirty with her and she's receptive, but I always pussy out of asking her out.
Give me music to pump myself up to ask her out
>My alcoholism is rearing it's ugly head again, it's such bullshit that I'm only 20 and can't stop thinking about alcohol.
>Depression is back in full force and so is my anxiety,
>tfw I buy individual kleenex boxes to use as toilet paper instead of toilet paper because I'm too nervous about carrying those gigantic plastic wrap/bag things they sell toilet paper on the bus because I don't want people to judge me for pooping or cause inconvenience to other passengers due to the size of the thing I am carrying
I know the second part of your feels dog. I've been addicted to xanax and fentanyl for a year now to deal with crippling anxiety and the depression that follows. I hardly even get high anymore and take clozapine just to pass out for the whole day and escape the reality of my situation for a while.
Slowly overcoming social anxiety. Hope i can fuck soon, even though i know it wont be as great as it was with my ex. I get a lot of attention from girls but im too beta and broke to get anywhere with any of them. Sorry dick.
Going to college (for a rather specific field) in the middle of bumblefuck and not being able to see cute girls ever. Daily routine of too much coffee, liberal butane hash oil use, and what seems to be amounting to campuswide cabin fever.
>tfw this is the best thread you've seen on /mu/ in years
I quit coming here regularly about a year ago. This is the first thread that reminded me of the /mu/ of a few years ago.
Good to see not all is lost to memespam.
My girlfiend said to me that she was having all her girl friends over to have a chit chat. In the cab to my friends I saw her with all my other friends and she said she didn't want me to come because it was awkward so I'm sat getting drunk by myself.
in a camp mood, not even gay. time for some nomi!
seriously, this guy is the fucking bomb
Pathology results came back today so i just found out for sure that my grandmother has cancer and is going to need chemo. My mom has been a bit of a wreck lately since my grandma had brain surgery. We thought the worst was over and we were wrong.
Dont suggest Hospice pls.
I got a gf and all my tfw music no longer applies, give happier music please
>feel dissociated from everything anyway
>in a small town where nothing happens
>worsening mental health
>growing alcohol problems
I feel like i just want to enter in Minecraft and explore and make stuff for ever so inever gonna be sad again
>girlfriend hinted at taking a break, asked what i thought outright
>told her fuck no im not doing that
>not sure if its over at this point
I dont know what to feel right now, anyone in similar standing? feeling alone
pic related, been on repeat for a little over 3 hours now
Post rock. I don't know the genre TOO well, but it always helps me during those procrastinatory periods. I listen to Explosions in the Sky and Mogwai for late-night essay paper production
idk man you two are clearly on different pages. she wants to "take a break" for a reason. if you don't just let her break things off then she'll probably either dump you herself or just cheat on you or something. i can almost guarantee she won't just be like "oh ok anon if you're not ok with it i guess we'll just stay together."
when my ex hinted at this and I asked her to just say what she meant, we ended up breaking up. i think that if i had pushed back a little more, we wouldn't have. but if this means that she's cheating on you (which i still suspect of said ex), let that bitch go.
At university. Friends are all back home. However some people have been nice here. Actually putting an ounce of effort into classes. Getting decent grades.
The feel when you realize you are still an apathetic fuck up and everything can and probably will go to shit soon.