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>my bf bottom shames me all the time
When I try to go against him he always sez "thats not what you said when you were moaning on my dick last night" he also makes fun of
>my drooling while being fucked
>my vocalizations while being fucked
>my faces while being fucked
>my begging while being fucked
He is a really nice guy... but he really likes bullying me about how I bottom 100% of the time. Some times he even makes fun of me for sucking dick infront of his friend and then makes me suck his dick right after.
Is this abusive in the long term?
This is like 1% of our relationship.
I just think its a low blow to bottom shame when the top is the one benefiting from you specifically bottoming.
General bottom shaming i just bantz.
One time they were still in the house. But usually no lol.
>beat him in drunken/high casual party gaming
>he says some retarded shit like "well you still suck dick lol"
>his bros all laugh and roast me
>later we go upstairs to find one of his games in his room
>while I am on the floor searching he drops trou
>gets me to suck him for a bit
>his bros yell for us to hurry up
>He finishes in my mouth and we find game and head down
>his friends ask why it took so long
>he makes another dirty jokes at my expense
>night continues normally but I am pretty sure his friends read between the lines.
Thats the closest its ever been to the public dick sucking you guys seem so interested in.
I can't take anyone seriously who shames people for bottoming. As soon as I hear it, I immediately flag a bottom-shamer as a complete idiot whom I should just avoid. Maybe it's unfair, but I don't care.
One of my exes tried that a few years back. One day I got tired of his shit and told him he can easily be replaced. He told me that was impossible, I downloaded Grindr and showed him how easy it is to get dick. He stopped after that but our relationship was doomed from the start
I like being bullied and made fun of, ever since I was a kid I would do bad stuff just so my parents would yell at me and it would give me a little baby boner while they were telling me how bad I was, and it just so happens the boys I'm into now like to bully and take advantage of me, I know it's bad but I can't help it because it feels so right in my heart