Tips for enjoying bottoming? My vers bf really wants to top me but I don't want it to feel "forced", I enjoy fingering my ass when I masturbate but everytime I try to bottom I just feel the reverse pooping sensation, not pleasure. Should I try some other positions?
Move with his rythm. If he is good at topping, once you get a good rythm going, it should feel pretty great.
Obviously, good lube. Do not use warming lube, as it will feel like you ate spicy chili the night before.
I like to moan a lot when I'm being topped. It turns me on tremendously.
The 'reverse pooping' thing, for me at least, went away over time.
learn to ride on top. go slow. it'll give you the most control. it makes it easier if you take it all the way, balls deep. take a deep breath and let it resonate for a sec. so long as you cleaned out your ass (enema) you should be golden.
I don't dislike it but it doesn't make me erect :( I like it when he penetrates me because I enjoy watching him feel pleasure but he told me it "feels" forced because I'm not erect when we do it. I love him very much and want to satisfy him 100% that's why I wanna learn how to bottom. It's not a big problem though since he loves when I fuck him, but part of me still feels like I'm missing out
Honestly the best part of it is right after your orgasm. The spasms feel sooo good, when it's like your butt is trying to seal closed but there's some~thing in the way.
If your prostate isn't getting stimulated it's probably not going to happen though... try different angles until it works. Doggy works best for me, but I hear riding is best for a lot of people.