Tips for enjoying bottoming? My vers bf really wants to top me but I don't want it to feel "forced", I enjoy fingering my ass when I masturbate but everytime I try to bottom I just feel the reverse pooping sensation, not pleasure. Should I try some other positions?
>>5703200
Move with his rythm. If he is good at topping, once you get a good rythm going, it should feel pretty great.
Obviously, good lube. Do not use warming lube, as it will feel like you ate spicy chili the night before.
I like to moan a lot when I'm being topped. It turns me on tremendously.
The 'reverse pooping' thing, for me at least, went away over time.
>>5703302
what about positions? I really don't like missionary, it hurts, but I'd like to kiss him while we're doing it. :(
>>5703410
I actually love missionary, so I don't know what to tell you there. Only been bent over once, when my back was fucked up and I couldn't do missionary.
>>5703443
Actually. Now that I'm thinking about it... you could try and ride him. I used to do that too, and that is pretty hot to the right guy.
>>5703454
Will try.
About the reverse pooping thing, it just goes away over time? Guess I have just to practice more
>>5703856
>>5703302
>>5703200
mfw the reverse pooping feeling is the best part. Like you know when you just take a nice clean dump letting it out is fucking amazing? Yea like that.
>>5703200
learn to ride on top. go slow. it'll give you the most control. it makes it easier if you take it all the way, balls deep. take a deep breath and let it resonate for a sec. so long as you cleaned out your ass (enema) you should be golden.
>>5704455
I don't dislike it but it doesn't make me erect :( I like it when he penetrates me because I enjoy watching him feel pleasure but he told me it "feels" forced because I'm not erect when we do it. I love him very much and want to satisfy him 100% that's why I wanna learn how to bottom. It's not a big problem though since he loves when I fuck him, but part of me still feels like I'm missing out
>>5703302
do you totally relax inside or use your pelvic muscles?
How big is he? Is he too big to hit your prostate dead on?
>>5709216
My bf is very large and has trouble stimulating my prostate with his donger.
Explain what you mean by this.
>>5703200
Honestly the best part of it is right after your orgasm. The spasms feel sooo good, when it's like your butt is trying to seal closed but there's some~thing in the way.
If your prostate isn't getting stimulated it's probably not going to happen though... try different angles until it works. Doggy works best for me, but I hear riding is best for a lot of people.