Breakups

some guys use grindr like porn, they like to look but would never actually meet up. Why so mad over grindr?

>>5683910
>>Catch him getting on grindr
Should have dropped him there

>>Literally does it again days later
You're seriously surprised?

I'm sorry that happened, op, but seriously you should have dumped the first time. At least you ended it soon after, though.

>>5684098
He tried to meet up but the guy bailed on him. Also he lied to me about all the details. Sent nudes and sexual preference stuff. It was a whole long messy thing, posted it on r9k.


>>5684131
>>5684146

I guess. Mistakes happen and if he was sincere I think we could have worked through it. But the second time confirmed him a liar so no point really continuing. Why do people lie?

Just sucks. I should be happy and moving on just fine but its really hard.

>>5683910
Serves you right, thinking a gay man would ever be monogamous.

>>5684243
There are the rare few. Gotta keep hope.

Nothing nice will ever happen. But gotta keep hope, otherwise literally why go on

Why didn't you say you wanted to share the grindr account?

>>5684186
>mistakes
There is no such thing when it comes to cheating. If someone actually attempts to cheat, they clearly don't appreciate or deserve you. There's no excuse for being on grindr when he has a bf. What that other anon said about maybe he's just looking is bullshit. If he wanted to look at hot guys, there's you and there's porn. Hope you find a guy that actually sees you for what you're worth.

>>5684243
This meme isn't even funny anymore, it's just sad that people actually believe this and won't let themaelves see it any other way out of bitterness.

>>5684481
I agree I agree. I'm just saying I'm frustrated that it really is so cut and dry, and yet here I am hopeless and depressed as fuck. Frustrated at myself for not being able to just drop him and the baggage and move on. He'll be able to.

>>5684492
it's like you've never read the statistics for gay men...

the odds are not in their favor. Even for liberal areas where gay men are thriving.

>>5684492
it's like you don't even live in the real world...

maybe you should dump your husbando and make the grown up leap to a 3D bf?

>>5683910
>bf dumps me
>was an emotionally distant asshole who didn't know how to socialize properly
>few months later I start dating a guy I met on grindr (hold your criticisms, I know)
>we hit it off great
>he's not a whore, not a total degenerate, is an excellent student and is working to become an anesthesiologist
>we've been together for six months
>occasionally download grindr for the lulz and each time I've seen my ex there
>each photo he posts looks increasingly more miserable and disheveled
>part of me feels bad but part knows he deserves it

>>5684518
>>5684540
Nice same fag anon and projection in that second one. Maybe you should stop being so bitter and complaining about everything and actually do something that makes you happy for once in stead of bitching on fillipino flapjack boards?

>>5684544
I hope that happens. I just feel he's gonna be happier and happier. Nothing nice ever happens to me haha.

Ha...ha