About 3 or 4 years ago I found this video of a class lecture explaining how admiration of the penis isn't a gay thing it's a masculinity thing. I cannot find this video and I was hoping you intelligent fellows could help me out.
Well, basically, penises are something that men can relate to and associate with arousal and pleasure. Many men find their own penis to be very sexy, and some men fetishize the penis. It seems like it should be obvious - the erect penis is a powerful indicator of pleasure and arousal.
So, a man with a penis fetish who is otherwise heterosexual might be interested in pre-op trans women.
I'm completely straight.
But I can admire the penis as being an Icon of masculinity. What other genitals can demand such attention? I mean a pussy is there to be fucked, dominated. A penis is the master, the superior, the dominant genital. As such its not gay to masturbate to pictures of dicks, I'm simply feeding on the masculine energy as a means of self improvement.
That would explain all the guys who are into dick but not guys overall, I almost never hear of the same level of obsession for pussy, even from straight guys. And I've always found it funny that seeing a huge cock in porn is cool for straight guys until the dude's face appears.
I'm not entirely sold though, and it'll take a lot to convince society as a whole that getting aroused from dick ain't gay.
That completely depends on whose dick you're liking.
If it's your own then it's not gay. If you're a man and you enjoy another man's cock, then yes that's the gayest thing this world has to offer.
> As such its not gay to masturbate to pictures of dicks, I'm simply feeding on the masculine energy as a means of self improvement.
I used to say that bullshit tomyself when I'd go through youporncocks(and occasionally jerk of to gay porn and feel really ashamed after I came).
Now I can't really jerk off without thinking about other guys dicks, now I jack off to gay porn daily, I'm even gonna find a guy that I can do gay shit with. I want to see how it feels to let another man ass pound me. Now when I don't even care for girls anymore, when I'm in the gym I'd rather look at muscled guy than a girl with a good butt, hell when I was in the gym to day I accidently bumped my triceps into another guys triceps(skin touched), he was very fit and good looking, I even got an erection... I haven't really had erections for girls since I was a teenager(except when I fucked one, shit wasn't that cash).
I don't know if I turned myself gay by having penis envy or that I've always been gay...
But you ought to look into if you're gay or not. I used to say "guys are ugly, girls are much more prettier" that might be true, but girls don't make my dick hard as men do.
Gays are attracted to men. Dicks are only a part of the male body.
Being attracted to dicks only is not gay. Gays are not masculine by themselves because they can be attached to a feminine body
I used to be straight, I'd love seeing big dicks in porn. I'd always search for porn that had good dicks/big dicks/lots of dicks and of course a busty lady. (sure I'd occasionally jerk of to gay porn) but I still was attractive to girls irl, or at least I noticed beautiful girls and their ass and breast, but I really didn't get hard though.
But when I started jacking of to gay porn on regular occasions I started noticing hot men, and their bodies, now I notice hot guys first before hot girls. I feel like I've done perminate damage to my sexuality. I've literally turned myself gay by this cock obsession(which all straight men have).
Do you jack off to gay porn? When I was straight I would sometimes go on jack off benders, that became more and more dick oriented. until I imagined myself being down on my knees sucking dick, that might be get really hard when looking at gay gangbangs, I just wanted all those cocks. Now I want to touch toned guys skin and blow them and kiss their bodies, I love the sound of a guy having orgasm.
I fantasize about being feminized and raped by big dick fat dudes, I'm still not fond of male bodies or faces though, but I can tolerate full blown gay porn if I focus on dick and penetration.
>I haven't really had erections for girls since I was a teenager
What's the deal with this? Its the same for me. I remember having some mild attraction to girls in my teens, had a few erections about girls. I was always more attracted to guys though. Any attraction to girls has gone now.
It's still pretty gay thought, when I was a repressed homo I'd fantasize about being captured by black guys in some African war were they would make me their bitch. I'd also loved OZ because I'd really like to become a bitch for some strong well endowed black man that would protect me and he'd keep me safe.
I know guys like you who are just into humiliation and sissy play, if they go out to get fucked by dudes it turns out a disappointment, they dont enjoy sex with men, they don't like men. They get off on being forced to suck and degraded and force-feminized.
Basically you can think of your brain as divided into attracted to guy parts and attracted to girl parts. Initially you had more attracted to guy parts, and as you followed those desires you added to them while pruning your attracted to girl parts.
After a while there was no more attracted to girl parts. For a while these two brain networks were in competition, but the attracted to guy parts had the upper hand and won the war.
(Some people are born with more or less of these parts.)
Attraction to other men, sexual and romantic.
You ever had sexual/wet dreams of other boys? Maybe even had a crush? ever met a random guy that would make you fell lightheaded and filled with lust? Or feel like you want to cuddle and kiss that pretty boy?
I'm just bi and been more into girls, but I've had those episodes, so I cant write it off as some porn-induced dick-fetish.
>"Born that way" is a political position. Not a scientific one.