Did you at least pretend to be your own girlfriend at first? To be clear, I mean introducing yourself as your boy mode's girlfriend and saying that he will be coming along soon so you can see your parents' reactions.
>>5660085 >Mom knows I'm trans >she gets a free bag of high quality makeup >Am out as trans, but not presenting, so would feel ashamed asking for it >Hope she gives it to me, cuz' that'd be hecka cool >Instead gives it to my brother's girlfriend >right in front of me She didn't do anything wrong and it was my fault for not speaking up, but I still cried a lil' that night.
One of my elementary school teachers told me that that is what Miss is for. She also told me Ms. sprung up as a feminist thing because Mr. is ambiguous about whether the man is married or single, but women had to choose between Miss and Mrs.
>>5660601 My mom literally brought me cologne for christmas because my brother didn't like the scent. 5 years on hormones. She said, "I always liked how my ex's would smell when they were all cleaned up. You should have a scent." Fuck off, mom!
>>5660085 I remember when I first started nearly 8 years ago.
That first time someone used female pronouns for me when I didn't even ask. I got chills and butterflies in my stomach. It is so weird now. I don't even think about it anymore. It has been so many years since anyone called me sir or he. Thinking back to it it almost feels like it never happened. Too bad about the dick. If it was gone I feel like I could legitimately forget I was ever trans.
>>5663496 >Losing sleep because someone called you something other then straight
I use straight because EVERYBODY knows what that means, and to most people it's synonymous with "cis." But I hate the word straight. Straight people named themselves that to imply that everyone else is crooked. Which is why I usually just refer to straight people as "dog shit."
>>5663454 Failing boy mode. I just ran around wearing gender neutral stuff like always but suddenly people started gendering me differently. I didn't even wear make up or anything. Do keep in mind I started at 17. >>5663698 How old are you?
Is every fucking thread in this board a mentally ill tranny thread? Good god, there should be /lgb/ and /t/ boards since the first is orientation and the other is identity. Sick of being associated with mental cases.
>>5664097 Although I'm doing it through informed consent and my doctor had me on a low dose for quite awhile, only got bumped up from 2mg estradiol 150mg spiro to 4/200mg a les than a month ago. Although I was gendered female twice before I even started hrt, but only when I was hanging out with a group of girls
>>5664115 I flirted with transition for a bit, and all of the trans people I know kept going on about how pretty of a woman I would make. On one hand, they just want everyone else to be like them because it makes them feel better. On the other hand, one of them got drunk and was crying about how I was lucky because I was so much cuter than her.
Anyway ultimately I realized that for me, it was secretly a fetish all along, and didn't transition.
>be fem twink on hrt >5'11, 145lbs (gained a little weight with hormones, trying to lose it >guys at work say hello like "how's it going big man, you good?" >can't tell if they're mocking me for being a little faggot or they legitimately think i'm a big guy for you
>>5664400 You should have at least crossdress for a bit. You could have said you were trans and not taken hrt. No reason no to take advantage of your good looks and youthful femininity while you had it. You could have always manned up later.
>tfw constantly pure sheer androgynous >tfw confusing shop assistants >tfw i can buy womens clothes without being stared at for being a crossdresser >can you serve this... person next please >neutral pronouns everywhere >gendered female at work >people think i'm some fort of afab nonbinary tumblrsexual >mfw i'm actually binary trans woman, insist on medicalising trans issues, think queers who are essentially cis poison and dilute the movement and there needs to be a purge to keep transsexualism as it is meant to be, neurological differences causing mental illness treated with mones and surgery to help live a fulfilling, normal life >mfw tranny equivalent of a nazi
>out in boymode >go to a buffet cafeteria >pass by the lady that serves salad >"For you, ma'am? >don't get anything but feel nice >pass by the lady that serves entrees >"What can I get you, ma'am? >open my mouth >"Ohh I'm sorry, sir." >i-it's okay >tfw my dad just scoffs at me in humorous disapproval
Well I guess it's nice to know that I can pass in boy clothes while standing 2 feet away from someone.
How can you guys tell the difference between them saying "ma'am" or "man". This is at places where they usually use "sir" and "ma'am", but how can you tell they don't just see you as some laid back hippie man with long hair? Can I assume it's "ma'am" since "man" would be breaking protocol?
>tfw CIS but reverse trap Fuck me. I never asked to look like a guy. How does anyone mistake a chick wearing lipstick and nailpolish and a skirt and jewelry for a guy anyways? My damn phone case is pink.
>>5664413 Same. I mean I don't wear anything provocative or feminine and I present in boy mode 24/7 but it's like people love to point out what a "man" I am and idk why. To me it always sounds encouraging like they want to flatter me even though that makes me incredibly bitter inside.
>>5667794 Since you were assigned male, and society mandates strict and specific behaviors and responsibilities for those assigned male, society will call you a woman (or imply either directly or indirectly that you're womanly through passive aggression) to shame you until they discover that you identify as a woman... then they'll call you a man to shame you (and possibly subject you to violence) because you're now completely off the social grid they were taught to follow and police since birth.
Essentially it's less about what's right and wrong and more about social dominance and interpersonal hierarchy. Nothing says "you're worthless and I own you" more than convincing others to ignore your identity and instead use the one they define for you. Power. People get off on it, but they often don't have much. Therefore when they see someone they feel they can boss around, it doesn't matter what's right, what's wrong, what's proven or disproven by science, what's nice, or mean, or anything. They do it because it's something they couldn't do to someone else and get away with it, and that drives them wild. Even more-so when they're in a direct position of power over a trans person where they can force the trans person to mis-identify themselves so that they're not fired, bullied, assaulted, or killed.
I'd imagine that most of the people who are drawn to /lgbt/ come here solely to exert that power over trans people remotely. It makes them feel good, like they actually matter in comparison. At its core, it's weak, pathetic and parasitic. But that's humaity. Always punching down because they can't punch up without getting stomped.
>>5663496 >assuming the term cis came from SJWs on tumblr when it is the opposite latin prefix of trans and is widely used by the scientific community in any context that has to do with gender identity.
Trans means "across" or "on the other side of". Cis is the opposite and means "on the same side as/of"
>>5668732 >implying "straight" was used to describe sexual orientation before SJWs got triggered by the word "normal" >implying "sexual orientation" was used to describe sex before SJWs got triggered by the word "mentally ill" >implying "mentally ill" was used to describe people who were suffering from an illness of the mind before SJWs got triggered by the word "crazy"
so on so forth
Why don't we all just go back to grunting at one another and jerking off with banana leaves?
>>5668475 >completely off the social grid This is exactly what is scary about just being a fem guy. You end up not getting the protection and people looking out for you that women get. And you don't get the sort of male comradery that helps men out either. You're basically left out in the cold, and it's open season on you.
It's one of the reasons I won't ever let my guard down and take the more vulnerable role in a relationship. Probably just get burned.
>>5668475 >a bunch of revisionist science mixed with a victim complex and a touch of inflated moral superiority (while trans punch down on their own 'hons)
Typical transshit. No one wants to be associated with word-policeing, radical mental cases that are willing to mutilate their own bodies and demand other people indulge in their fantasies. It has nothing to do with some systemic oppression that you find problematic.
>visiting new orleans with friends >french quarter >"haha lets go to the strip club!" >strippers stripping and pole dancing >friends (male and female) enjoying themselves >sit in back, trying not to cry while drowning in overpriced drinks
>>5668732 except it wasnt ever about SJWs being triggered and youre just a autistic high and mighty moron that just wants to make yourself believe youre better than those 'le crazy sjws xD'
"normal" makes NO fucking sense at all to use in a professional or medical context because its vague as SHIT and could literally be referring to anything. do you think people without cancer should be referred to as "normal people"? people without dementia? people with all of their limbs? honestly, id be confused if someone used it in a casual context unless they specified what the fuck they mean with "normal people".
its absolutely pointless and takes more work to communicate just what the fuck youre talking about, because you have to explain how "normal people" actually means cis people, but then whats the point of that if you can just use "cis"? im all for calling out tumblrs tendency to create unnecessary terms (not that a really old prefix is something they created but you know what i mean), but the term "cis" is more helpful than unhelpful and only self righteous fuckers like you act like it isnt.
>Be in highschool >See cute slightly chubby boyish looking guy >Can only imagine myself going to his house and plowing his ass after the excuse of video games >Pop hundreds of boners >Gallons of semen spilt over him >I'm not even gay >We graduate >Meet him 7 months later >He's fat >He has pimples covering him >He's hideous now >If he didn't gain all that weight and all those pimples he would still be cute
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