>going to uni in september >finding housemates >registering on grindr >will using it every time I'm left alone >the rest will be history without my parents having an idea And this is the story that will happen with a 10% chance as I know my "luck"
>>5658466 Grindr is a hookup up, why would you want to use it? Unless you are a disgusting slut that is... Thats how they all start being sluts... They first go to college pure and then suck 100 cocks per week
>>5658489 I am a shut-in guy myself and moderately attractive but I wouldn't want anything to do with someone who uses Grindr. I have had many chances to lose my virginity in the past but I prefer to abstain until I find someone I want to spend my life with. The LGBT community is filled with sluts so this is almost impossible though..
>>5658500 Just like me. Although I also have to face feelings of sexual frustration and emptiness every night, and meaninglessly flirt with guys on the internet. Why can't my body be as patient as my mind and quit getting worked up?
>>5658500 Well, I wish you good luck. I don't really consider loosing virginity that big of a deal and I don't feel like I could really keep up a relationship, but that's just me (and yeah, others) but this could change with the right person I think. You sound like someone who could do it though.
>>5658527 Flirting with guys on the internet is possibly the best way to find someone, especially here on 4chan. The chances of finding someone IRL are way too low unless you visit gay bars and pride parades, which are exclusively populated by flamers and sluts.
>tfw bored of the hookup thing >end up scoring a beer date with a guy I've been crushing on >he's 30 min late >he asks last minute to bring a coworker >she's cool but dominates the conversation >he gets pretty drunk >decide to move to different bar >he picks up cocaine >gets even more messed up >on his phone the whole time at new bar >goes outside to make a phone call and doesn't come back >hang with his coworker for a bit and then leave >haven't heard from him since
Very disappointing and the worst part is I'm still pretty into him for some reason
>>5659234 >bored of hookup >still has the hookup mentality >literally clings to the first person you crush on ugh you're like those christians that are "reborn" and won't shut the fuck up about it and do everything in the worst possible fashion
>>5659926 Sure thing doll, there was absolutely nothing in that post at all that would make anyone think you're clingy even though you literally wrote all that over a guy you're 'into' - despite just a single date.
>Meet a guy at a party >He's nice, he's into me, I'm horny >Have sex >Wants to meet again >"Yeah sure, we can have sex" >Repeat x5 times >He developes feelings for me >I say I'm not in love, I just want sex >Tell him that if he wants a bf, he should leave me >He still wants to see me >I still meet with him, but I still tell him that i don't want anything more >He keeps pushing me to "open yourself" and try to go further with him >I really don't want to even have sex anymore, but he he's too nice and has puppy eyes
>never been with a guy >get Grindr >figured I'd just hook up with someone >super picky when it comes to guys >realised I can't just hook up with some random guy im not attracted to >absolute social retard >tfw destined to be forever alone
>>5666770 >Heterosexuals ruin everything. Finally someone said the magic words of truth! I am finally freed of my prison of eternal torment. I can now finally leave this world in peace knowing the truth has been spoken.
>>5670508 That's the plan. But I think most faggots would wait until they're 65 and dying before they quit and settle. So I have about 40 more years of loneliness up until that point, I don't want a husband who'd die on me before I turn thirty. Although, I suppose that I could find a series of old, lonely men, and inherit their real estate once they die. Rent it, and live without ever working. I could probably buy a hot, third world husband eventually and dump all that money and real estate on him when I die...
>>5666421 Don't fuck natives, m8. That shit is not Pocahontas, they drink, steal and depending how far north you go people disappear around them. Coincidentally after having all thier stuff go with them
>>5670801 I wonder if there is a market for a randomized dating app that is geared towards pairing the spares with the aim of getting as many sad lonely people together as possible until they kick it. I'm a couple years away from wizardhood and I'd sign up for that.
>>5670813 A little bit of jealousy, a little bit of fear, and a little bit of insecurity.
Most people don't want to be with someone who had miles of cock through their body. It's gross and it trivializes sex to the point where the slut can't bond through sex anymore, and where infidelity doesn't seem any different than just pissing in someone else's toilet. And the slut's partner knows he probably isn't the best lay they ever had, and that the slut's head is filled with previous encounters while they're fucking. Plus, there's always the fear that the "reformed" slut is like a "clean" alcoholic. There's always a chance of a relapse. Especially because they demonstrated that sex and emotion aren't tied in their mind a countless times.
>>5670832 When I was younger I had litteraly no grasp of the difference between one night stands and actual relationships so sex was intensely emotional but it got to the point where it was a crutch. Luckily I realized maybe the best way to not get heartbroken every time I got a fake number or ignored after a night with someone was actually have dates where talking and getting to know the other person takes precedence to getting physically close with them.
Of course it turns out I'm boring as fuck and I haven't had a date in years but at least I'm not a slut anymore.
>>5670952 lol, I moved across the country because my slut phase was in uni and the most my friends know is that I'm gay. Not like I'm advertising the adventures if my boipussi either. >inb4 stds Checked and clean, this is why you wrap it niggas.
This is exactly why I don't want a slut as a bf. I want a man who shares similar values to me, including commitment. I want us both to have successful careers and to have a child, or no more than three children, provided we were financially sound. All this open relationship shit creeps me the fuck out.
>>5671027 Because I've only ever worked blue collar jobs, currently a forklift operator in a warehouse and getting 12 bucks an hour, okay money for a single person with no education where I am but nowhere near family money.
I may land myself a bf. He's 7 years older, is deaf (handicap) and is on benefit. Met him at a mutual friend's party. Has no job. Loves weed. Fucking tall (over 6'5) and everything's big on him (yeppp). I know because we fooled around all night after the party but I held back from going any further.
I'm pretty much a hermit with seasonal friends. I don't do gay apps or websites so...I'm that desperate that I'm willing to date a "loser". But I actually like him. FML. I have a good job. Still paying off my student loan debt. Bought my own apartment. I'm pursuing this because even though he may be a deadbeat I have my own issues. So who am I to judge? If this leads anywhere I hope I can provide support so he fairs better.
>Decide that I'm not going to meet anyone by staying indoors >Go out to local gay bar/club >Get approached a few times, all just for casual sex >Just want a qt bf to play vidya with >mfw I'm maybe 6/10 at best and wanting a qt is selfish as fuck >JUST
>Be racially ambiguous brown guy >Talking to qt(area/(radius^2)) crush >>Can't tell if he has a thing for me or not >Talking about weird entrance ceremony at university I applied to >Ceremony involves alcohol >Him: "Wait, but you can't do that, can you." >Me: "Why not?" >Him: "Well, you're Muslim, aren't you?" >Me: "No! I never said I was Muslim. Why would you think that?" Is this my life now, /lgbt/? Will every other legbutt just avoid me because they think I'm a Muslim? What if he actually does like me, but just thought I'd drag him to a mosque and behead him if he ever told me? How into let people know I'm not religious without having to tell every single person explicitly?
I absolutely fucking hate my life Loneliness is one of the worst things that can happen to anyone I just want to go back years to when I took whatever path it was that made me so autistic and friendless and do something else so it wouldnt have to be this way I just want to live, and be normal and do everything normal people do
>>5669195 Greek here. Wouldn't mind having a long distance relationship for several years before getting to know someone IRL considering the unlikelihood of meeting a partner offline. Small dating pool and sluts have made me give up all hope on IRL dating tbqh, but it appears there are many lonely gays of similar morality here. You seem like a decent person and something tells me it is worth it to get to know you more. What is your age?
>>5672646 Not wearing a cross; I'd look Christian. I'm too busy living the edgy atheist life. Also, I'm already (near-)fluent in Spanish, and everyone I know knows this (not posting in Spanish in case of ban for non-english). My name is a massive indicator to part of my racial heritage.
Oh well, I guess I'll be off to /r9k/ then... >Sighs in gay Spanish
I'm 24, long distance for several years seems a tad long
And I'm probably a terrible person really, I could meet the nicest guy in the world but if I didn't find him attractive I just couldn't see myself being with him. I'm so shallow and fickle yet so emotionally needy I'll probably never be happy.
>>5672923 My best friend is a Lithuanian girl I've known for 7 years. We only spoke long distance for the first 4 years before meeting in person. She fell head over heels for me but being the faggot I am such a relationship would be impossible despite being otherwise perfectly compatible in every way. If she was a man I'd be the happiest person alive at the moment but now I am a miserable lonely emotional wreck. Currently 20 years old and considering suicide. Regardless, my experience has convinced me that long distance relationships are possible and I'd like to experience one with a man. Sorry for blog post
>>5672886 Unfortunately, my morals are far from Christian, and jewelry really wouldn't go with my clothes or personality. My clothes are either fabric or functional. >>5672921 Rather not tell online; my name has irregular spelling, so it narrows me down to about 10 living people. Lets just say it sounds Muslim as hell. Don't really want to get rid of it though, because alliteration and I'm too lazy to deed poll.
>live in tiny countryside town with shrinking population >can barely find people my age because younger population move to cities >takes hours to drive to some other town where I might get to fuck >still don't want to move to city because heart belongs here and I have a job as a tractor driver and it offers a place to go hunting Can't some qt just move here and live by my side, I can manage financially
>>5672961 >My clothes are either fabric or functional. le old testament fabric meme
You are a millitant atheistard who has no idea about Christian philosophy or morals. Keep parroting atheist memes and thinking you know anything about Christianity besides le jewish desert religion meme.
>>5672987 Ok, maybe some are (pure monogamy > all other relationship models), but not enough to warrant wearing Christian symbols. [lies] Anyway, being lonely is fun. I'm getting amazing grades... A-and my STD risk is pretty much non-existent... [/lies]
>Be 15 >Have crush on friend in class >We always fight with eachother, its been like this all the time >Try to make friends with him all the way from grade 6-9 >He doesnt want to, we just keep fighting all the time >In 9th grade, we're out camping >Sit down by his tent when he and his friends are taking the tent down >He tells me to go away >"Why?" >"Because, I HATE YOU, YOU FUCKING IDIOT." >Heartbreak.exe >All the way home, Im on the verge of crying >Come home and go straight to bed >Cry myself to sleep that night >Dont go to school for a week
>Last year of high school >Get really drunk during the prom >See him again >Sit down on the stairs outside and cry like hell
I know I was stupid trying to become friends with him but it was really close one time. My mom kept telling me to just try to make friends after every fight.
Is it better being dead? I still have feelings for him.
>tfw have a bf but not sure if I still want to be with him
It makes me feel bad too because he keeps saying how sometimes he gets anxious about our relationship. Just recently he said he loved me and I felt forced into saying I love him too, even though I didn't mean it and I still don't mean it, and every time I say it to him I feel horrible because I'm lying to him and myself.
At the same time, he probably has the best character out of any guy I've been with. He obviously adores me, he's an excellent student and seems to have his life together (he's in pre-med now), doesn't do drugs either. But we're still so different in many ways, he knows this but he says it's opposites that attract and I get that but at the same time I wish there were SOME things we shared in common, it feels like the only thing we actually have in common is our ability to give each other erections. Personality-wise, we're polar opposites.
>>5673497 You will learn to love him with time. You will get used to it and it will no longer bother you. The other alternative is breaking up with him and becoming a lonely depressed faggot for the rest of your life. You will never find anyone better.
>>5673558 >>5673535 I mean, we do things together, but even when we talk on the phone (like he always wants to do) we run out of things to talk about because we really don't share that much in common.
We've been dating for six months; it's not that I dislike being around him, I just don't share the same feelings he does for me, and I keep asking myself if I ever will and if this relationship is just a waste of time while I could be dating someone who does make me feel the things he feels. I understand how rare his character is, especially among gays, that's part of what keeps me with him.
>>5673497 Fucking hell...the luck of some people. Love comes in all forms. Sometimes it's instant, sometimes it takes time to grow. If I had someone like you described in my life I would fucking grab on and never let go. Good-looking (?), responsible, worships me? Sigh.
>15 years old, tfw no bf mode >develop obligatory straight crush that goes horribly bad when I confess and get rejected in complete silence >17 years old, starting to try apps and dating sites >I am lonely and don't see how a poliamorous bisexual with mental issues is trying to use me to get sex >I want someone to have feelings for me so bad that I try to be the best friend that I can be but eventually we grow distant when he finds a girl. >18 years old, find a guy with okcupid >we text everyday for one month before actually seeing eachother, I am basically already in love because I was that starved for attention >I don't see how he wanted only sex, again. He takes my virginity and tries to dump me the same day but eventually we reconciliate and start a relationship >he loves someone else >two months in, he leaves me for good >20 years old, in university now >find the most lonely of the bunch in the lgbt group and start talking to him frequently >we eventually kiss and everything but he says he's not sure to have a relationship >but still; we form a couple after a while and are togheter still after more than one year >he loves someone else and doesn't love me, he just cares about me, but I want to try and make myself loveable because I am a pitiful coward
This is what saying you are lonely and getting depressed will do to you. You will become starved of love so bad you will become blind and make terrible mistakes. I am exceptionally stupid, and don't mean to say that every one of you will become like this, but the possibility exists.
>>5676091 I did manage to stop people from having sex with me and I've only made sex with someone I got in a relationship with in one way or another, so I don't see your point. I never said to be lonely, just stupid. I'm sorry if my post was kind of blog-ish.
Guys... I don't even know if I want someone anymore. Something is slowing slipping. Not that I'm heading to slut-town or anything, but I feel confused about how much love I can and want to give. I wish someone could hug me back into being a loving person before I turn into a cold hearted robot.
Have only been single since August so I may not fit in here as well as the rest of you, but still, six months of not so much as a hug from somebody feels awful. This is going to be my first Valentines day as a single guy for seven years ._.
>>5657380 I would be a good girlfriend. I'd suck your cock whenever you wanted. I'd cook and clean if we were living together. I wouldn't bug you when you were doing your own stuff. Just don't cheat on me and don't be too mean to me and I'll do anythimg for you. So why don't you want me? Is it my face? My body? My personality? Please tell me what I'm doing wrong.
>meet a guy on 4chan >trans, pre-hrt, about same age, lives in the same country >chat n talk online >arrange a meeting in a town where he has an apartment >we hang around the town >later go to his place >talk about stuff >browse internet n chill >gets pretty physical >cuddling, leaning on each other >first kiss >he compliments me >sees that i like him a lot >eventually have sex >later he takes me to the train-station >hugs n byes >ask if i could see him again >he tells he's too busy and leaves back to his hometown
Being with him made me realize how lonely I am deep inside.
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