So I like this girl who I'm still not sure is straight or not, I need your help lesbanons
We've known eachother for a year I guess, sometimes she talks to me sometimes she doesn't. I'm not always her first priority to put into short terms. When I'm around idk but I just get that vibe she "likes" me. She blushes a lot, smiles a lot, she even told me that she didn't have a bra on for some reason, Idk if that's just my imagination or what, I'm afraid to ask if she ever had feelings for me because recently I moved away but we still live in the same state. I'm not good with this, because I'm afraid of rejection and I don't want to lose a good friend over my feelings.
Any tips to make this easy for me? Is there clever ways of telling if she likes me or not?
Try the indirect route.
>Start talking about a TV show, or politics, or even (if you're really desperate) some LGBT event you saw recently.
>Keep slowly steering the conversation towards LGBT topics.
>Gauge her reactions and ensure she's OK with le gay before continuing.
>When the time is right, bite the bullet and just say "You did know that I'm a lesbian, right?"
>Maintain chill and try not to vomit.
>>Seriously. Please don't vomit.
>Check reaction again.
>Try asking her if she is IMMEDIATELY afterwards, if she doesn't give a "me too" response.
Then, if all goes well and she's available, you can ask her out guilt free.
Easier said than done, but at least you're a girl. Hetero girls tend to be more OK with le gay than hetero guys, so she'll still probably keep contact even if she isn't interested.
Well she likes orange is the new black, always talks about it whenever we mention tv. She never bad mouths lesbians before. So I guess if we ever talked about it, I could say I'm bisexual (since I am) when the opportunity arises?
>Blushes a lot
>Smiles at you randomly
>Told you about her underwear for no reason
>Likes Orange Is The New Black
She a legbutt; it's so obvious.
Approach with caution; she's probably still closeted.