So I like this girl who I'm still not sure is straight or not, I need your help lesbanons
We've known eachother for a year I guess, sometimes she talks to me sometimes she doesn't. I'm not always her first priority to put into short terms. When I'm around idk but I just get that vibe she "likes" me. She blushes a lot, smiles a lot, she even told me that she didn't have a bra on for some reason, Idk if that's just my imagination or what, I'm afraid to ask if she ever had feelings for me because recently I moved away but we still live in the same state. I'm not good with this, because I'm afraid of rejection and I don't want to lose a good friend over my feelings.
Any tips to make this easy for me? Is there clever ways of telling if she likes me or not?
Just ask
>>5647527
It's not that simple, that's why i made this thread
just ask or find a gay event or bar that's well known then ask if she would like to join you.
>>5647534
There aren't any around where I am, not that I know of.
I know she supports lgbt though
Try the indirect route.
>Start talking about a TV show, or politics, or even (if you're really desperate) some LGBT event you saw recently.
>Keep slowly steering the conversation towards LGBT topics.
>Gauge her reactions and ensure she's OK with le gay before continuing.
>When the time is right, bite the bullet and just say "You did know that I'm a lesbian, right?"
>Maintain chill and try not to vomit.
>>Seriously. Please don't vomit.
>Check reaction again.
>Try asking her if she is IMMEDIATELY afterwards, if she doesn't give a "me too" response.
Then, if all goes well and she's available, you can ask her out guilt free.
Easier said than done, but at least you're a girl. Hetero girls tend to be more OK with le gay than hetero guys, so she'll still probably keep contact even if she isn't interested.
>>5647605
Well she likes orange is the new black, always talks about it whenever we mention tv. She never bad mouths lesbians before. So I guess if we ever talked about it, I could say I'm bisexual (since I am) when the opportunity arises?
>>5647623
>Blushes a lot
>Smiles at you randomly
>Told you about her underwear for no reason
>Likes Orange Is The New Black
>Pro LGBT
She a legbutt; it's so obvious.
Approach with caution; she's probably still closeted.
>>5647686
she was raised with a Catholic Mexican family, wouldn't doubt if she's closeted still