>>5644212 Because I want to have a loving relationship that doesn't devolve 100% around sex. I mean sure I'll have sex with him whenever he wants but I want to do stuff when we're not having sex, like discuss art or talk to him or play vidya or go out to dinner or challenge eachother to do shit or gamble or do anything other than sex.
Men who are sluts have nothing to give except their body.
>>5646866 >Want to find a bf? Get outside of your comfort zone and meet new people, lots of new people. Yeah because gay and, god help the poor sould who accept this second one, bisexuals just happen to have a neon sign over their heads for easy identification.
This dumb complex of "what you want to do something that has more of 1% chance to actually works? You are ENTITLED" has to stop.
>>5650969 Just because someone was promiscuous doesn't mean they will always be. I have gone thru both phases in my life. If I find a dedicated BF, my eyes are only on him... If I'm single, whorehouse.
>>5644237 You seem very quick to judge. I've done slutty things on grindr before, but I've also have a few loving, caring relationships. There's a good chance that you could meet someone on grindr, and then after you've shagged you start talking and you realise you are each other's soul mates.
You're just showing your lack of experience. Straight people complain about the EXACT same shit too - life would be easier if everyone who was single / gay / not a dick had a neon sign; but it's usually subtler than that.
Situations you can tell someone is gay / bi / not going to be offended if you make a move:
>They are checking you out >They see you checking them out and start talking to you >You see them checking out only men, and not women. >"I really loved the new gaga album" >"Yeah, my ex bf was like that too" >Someone who knows them announces their sexuality >They announce their sexuality >You ask them >They are part of your gay football team / basket ball team / potters association / whatever >They're obviously gay >A mutual friend introduces them as such (because they're trying to set you two up, hint, hint). >You make sure people are aware that you are gay and they come on to you >"So anon, do you have a girlfriend?" No I'm gay actually. "Oh cuteanon is gay too" >"Hello everyone and welcome to the first meeting of our new badminton club"
>>5651949 >I've also have a few loving, caring relationships >a few loving, caring relationships >a few Do you have any idea what "love" actually means? You do not have "a few" loving relationships. If the first one goes to pot, maybe you might find a second. By the time you've surpassed several, you're probably doing it wrong.
>after you've shagged you start talking and you realise you are each other's soul mates Yeah, it really shouldn't happen in this order. How can you enjoy your super special, yours forever bf when he's heartlessly shagged 100 arses just like your own?
But +1 for realise and shag. British English is best English.
I usually take the good with the bad, at least she cares, and at least she's trying to help.
If I don't know the guy / am unsure about him I usually suggest a lunch date because it's easy to get out of unlike dinner time dates / drinks where leaving after an hour will seem rude. At least then if all we have in common is an incidental love of cock it's easy to get out of - and if he's great then it's a win-win.
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