I've got a question or two for all you asexual males (biologically male, MtFs too) out there. Do you just not get erections or ever masturbate? Or is it that you just do not have real interest in sex? I'm not trolling, I seriously want someone non-tumblry to explain male asexuality to me because, let's face it, males are normally very sexual.
To be asexual doesn't necessarily mean that you're not interested in sexual stimulation; it's more like never viewing someone in a sexual way, and never wanting to actually have sex with people. So an asexual guy masturbating isn't necessarily a contradiction. There are still people like the person above, though. It's a pretty broad field.
For me, nothing. I just do it because I feel horny. I'm not thinking about anything in particular. It's like scratching an itch. I don't ever think of having sex during masturbation. I hate sex and don't ever want to be in an "intimate relationship" with a sexual person again. I'm perfectly happy being my own sexual partner. I don't know if I'm really "asexual" or if I'm just sex-repulsed with a very low libido, though.
Don't want to make my own thread, and I think someone here would know...
I'm not asexual, I think sex is the only thing I've got interest in. I don't desire a romantic relationship, I don't ever feel like I 'need someone' in my life. When I see '>tfw no gf' I can't relate. I've always been this way, and because of it I've never had a girlfriend or crush. As I turn 21, I'm concerned about it. I don't want it gone, but It can't be normal, even the asexuals want romantic love. Is something wrong with me? Or is it known to happen?
You can say I'm young and just haven't found the one, because the being young part is true, but wasn't my teenage years the most rip for romantic desires? Also I can't imagine ever romantically caring for some girl...
That's not at all unheard of. The stupid Tumblr term would be "aromantic." I'm the opposite; I have intense romantic feelings toward people, but I have no desire whatsoever to actually pursue or even fantasize about having sex with them.
I believe the more categorizing types call that "Aromanticism".
Honestly, this sounds better in men because it won't end in them beating their gf to death or cutting themselves to Metallica and cyberstalking her when she leaves.