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2016-01-31 22:22:21 Post No. 5641713
Post No. 5641713
I need help /lgbt/
My boyfriend and I finally had enough time to meet up and have his place to yourselves. We cuddled, had plenty of foreplay and kissing, and we were both in the mood. So he decided to try and give me oral...and it didn't work. He had great technique, I could tell, but I just couldn't get off. So then he tried giving me a handjob, and again, nothing worked. I was opposed to anal, seeing as I doubted I'd be hard enough to go in. We tried everything to stimulate me or get me hard but all I enjoyed doing was kissing and cuddling. I really wasn't that horny.
I felt horrible. We'd been waiting so long to do this, and he couldn't even make me cum. Thing is, for me, sex isn't even a turn-on or a fantasy. I'm a virgin, and while I've been okay with that, I wanted to try having sex with him. No matter what we did, I couldn't get off. I love him, I really do, but I'm beginning to wonder about the boundary between romance and sex. Is it possible that I'm no sexually attracted to him? Even if I wasn't, surely getting a bj would still get me off, right? I just don't understand. I feel horrible, and I care so much about him. I want out relationship to work, and even though we're both okay with what happened, I still wonder if maybe I'm just...not a sexual person.