>Tfw about to get hormones but a salaried position is offered in management for an entire market in the industry you have been working in all of your life so you take it and cut your hair and hate yourself for caving to pressure to conform and your hair was so close to being long enough to look okay it just needed like another inch to not look like shit.
You couldn't have worn a wig to hide your hair? From what you have said, it sounds like your hair only had to be short during the review/recruitment portion and you'll be free to grow it out after. Otherwise I don't know why you would take the job.
Well I considered this.... I'm in a state where you can legally be fired for being a homosexual and I really don't want a court case. In enjoy my job and I've been reaching for a job like this for the last 5 years.
Also I am going to be interfacing with clients for contracts so I doubt I'll sell many with long hair and a girly face.
I might just go for a more femme/andro look and work out to get dat ass and dem thighs.
I'm almost 25 so it's not like the hormones would do shit anyways so it really isn't worth it at this point if I have to give up my dream job considering the meager effects they will have.
My plan before was to transition before I went upper level but I was offered the job out of the blue by a former boss. I hadn't planned to have this spot until atleast 2 or 3 years down the road so I thought I had plenty of time.