How do you gays keep straight male friends? I always tell myself they're just friends and they don't see how I do, but I can't help every time one of them gets a girlfriend or tells me they're hanging out with another group of friends without me, I just get so jealous and my heart just sinks to my stomach, I mean I had plans tonight and now all I want to do is be alone and cry because my friend casually mentions a new girlfriend! Just kill me now ;_;7
>How do you gays keep straight male friends?
By being yourself. Even though our sexualities are different we can still relate in our interests
>all I want to do is be alone and cry because my friend casually mentions a new girlfriend!
Why is this even a problem? You should feel happy for them. You can also work with their gfs and be your friends' hype man to strengthen all of your guys' bonds
You sound really young, so I'm going to assume you're under 20 years old.
As you get older, you get less clingy and shit like that will bother you less and less. Just don't make it a big deal and let yourself naturally grow up with time
Yeah I just turned 20
Well it's not with every friend, just sometimes you get really close with one guy, maybe he's kinda ugly but his personality is hot, and you're hanging out a lot and he's in your dreams and always on your mind... I'm probably just crazy, laying in bed imaging a romantic hangout with my friend while he probably just sees me as another guy to waste time with, I can't be the only one this happens to right?
My best friend is drop dead gorgeous. We've been friends since highschool ended. He is obnoxiously straight however and that's a big enough turn off that I can be just friends with him. As I got older it became even easier to make straight friends.
What about those "comfortable with their sexuality" guys that constantly joke about gay stuff, I knew a guy(actually multiple guys) who was always pulling such gay shit, he was the biggest tease ever, and he was straight as a pin! I even got drunk with him and he wouldn't even cuddle with me, but they just keep pulling you in with how they act.
Meh then you just lack experience. When you experienced these things multiple times you just get over it. And you'll likely just embrace being alone and having sometimes casual sex since a stable gay relationship is impossible to get with someone who actually looks decent and has a decent character.
>You should feel happy for them.
It's pretty hard to be "happy for them" when you are lonely and miserable. For gays great friends would also make excellent lover material, except that the other party has a 90% chance of not being available.
Okay, fair enough
I don't have that problem because I realize that not everyone is going to be attracted to you. Even if all my male friends were gay/bi the amount of them that'd want to fuck me wouldn't be 100%
Just because you have feelings for someone doesn't mean they feel the same way about you even if they're attracted to your gender and there's nothing you can do about that.