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Hey /lgbt/, wanna commiserate with me?
>finally take a giant leap forward
>actually go out with a guy
>he's likable, but nothing like I imagined he'd be
>get to the 'nitty-gritty' (I'm a virgin up to this point)
>the sex is literally the most disappointing thing I've ever experienced
> tried bottoming -- not only did it hurt like a son of a bitch, no improvement in subsequent trials
>hate sucking cock
>don't get off on oral
> tfw can't be a proper fag....
What do, /lgbt?
Care to share your sexual griefs, and how you got over them?
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>he's likable, but nothing like I imagined he'd be

That's probably your problem, the sex ain't gonna be great if you aren't lovin the boy. There's that new fake tumblr sexuality called demisexuality. I think it's when you're only sexually attracted to someone if you're romantically atteacted to them.

When I first realized I was gay it was so exciting to start going out with dudes, the problem is I forgot you don't have to love everybody. Straight people don't just love every opposite gender person. I realized that since I was gay didn't mean I shouldn't have standards, which helped me have better sex.
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>>5628900
iktf
I got a numb...everything really. Anal does nothing at all unless I mindfuck myself.
Nasty psychological side-effects, and it still isn't that good.
Sucks to be us.
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>>5630029
the point is though, I probably *don't* have any standards.
What's more, I'm kinda self-conscious, about the whole thing.
Is there anything worse than being very average-looking (perhaps ugly) and gay?
I'm really scared I can't do better :(
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>>5628900
maybe try non-penetrative sex.
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>>5628900
>Don't really like the guy that much
Main problem. When you're a young you just want to start experiencing stuff, and you'll make some mistakes.
>Bottoming hurt
You did it wrong.
>Hate sucking cock
Most people do
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>>5633935
>Most people do
Ah, but it's not that simple. Most people find a compromise, or at least feign enjoyment when doing it. I feel like he needs it, expects it, and I'm having trouble delivering. That is, i just *don't* want to do it.
>You did it wrong.
I think I got the mechanics alright. Where could I possibly go wrong?
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