It wasn't easy but I've succesfully managed to get back into the closet. I had to cut ties with a lot of people, but I don't mind it. It's cozy as fuck in here and I don't want to leave ever again.
Same. It's the good life honestly.
My transition back into the closet was seamless as fuck though.
>tfw can fuck others in the closet
>tfw don't have to deal with public attention whores who just want to finger each other in public
G O A T
All I'm missing is an innawoods home tbqh
>All I'm missing is an innawoods home tbqh
Literally my dream.
At least a weekend cabin I can take my fuck buddies to every other weekend or something like that.
A place were we can enjoy each other's cozy company, and then go back to the city, straight as an arrow to everyone's else eyes
What about settling down or having kids? If you're in the closet, are you going be single and childless for the rest of your lives? Having/adopting a child while single is very difficult.
Hope you won't rope some poor unsuspecting person into a sham marriage.
>If you're in the closet, are you going be single and childless for the rest of your lives?
Being in the closet does not close you off from relationships if you desire such.
> Having/adopting a child while single is very difficult.
For sure, but you have to remember the kids being adopted are in far worse measures. I still wouldn't recommend it, but keep that in mind before making any complete judgements.
Childless, maybe. I never wanted children anyways.
Single, not necessarily. But then again, building a prosperous monogamous relationship with another gay man is hard as fuck, mostly because the fewer number of options we have.
I know very few older gay guys who are out of the closet and aren't steadily getting older and older by themselves.
Yeah, this was one of my main reasons to want to go back in.
People just seem to treat you differently when they find out you're not straight. At first I thought I was just being paranoid, but after some 'experiments' I've done with people, I think it's safe to think it's true.
I don't want to be treated differently, even if that means being treated better because of my 'struggle'.
I consider myself a guy like any other, and that's how I want to be seen.
Personally, not that anon, I just don't get drunk. I'll drink to controllable levels so people aren't uncomfortable around me (or I'll volunteer to be the driver) but otherwise no drunkenness. Might get drunk with my boyfriend if he's up for it in a more secluded place (like home), but otherwise nope.
While I do like drinking, I never get drunk. Really, I just can't get drunk. My body goes from ok to throw up machine with nothing in between.
I have a high alcohol tolerance, but after one point just the smell of anything with alcohol in it makes me feel sick, and I have never felt 'drunk'. Tipsy, maybe, but never really drunk.