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2016-01-24 16:19:26 Post No. 5602430
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Growing up I was the fat kid and no one wants to go to the dance with the fat kid or flirt with the fat kid. Then through high school I started to lose weight and my face got more handsome and I got a new haircut and cared about style. Needless to say I went from about a 3-4 to a 7-8. And people started to notice and I started to get attention but I didn't know how to respond. I was absolutely clueless about flirting and romantic gestures and my confidence was very low. Fast forward to me now at 20. I have more confidence and can kind of flirt but I haven't even so much as had a kiss or cuddled next to someone. My confidence is still not very high. And as of today I've went to three dates and gotten stood up three times. At first I thought it was because people are cruel but I've realized that I'm so undesirable that people won't even Give me the chance. I think I truly understand that it's just not going to work. I'm not going to find anybody out there. I just needed to tell somebody because I do not feel good right now.