Lesbian General: Career Field Edition
Tell me lesgen, what career field are you in? What are you studying to go into? Are you a NEET? Do you fit the CS stereotype?
What race are you ?
I'm in engineering. Hispanic for race. Idk what else to say about it. Don't feel like I fit the nerdy stem stereotype but there's a fair amount more dykes than fags in engineering. My uni kinda annoyed me cause it was such a special little nerd haven and I got into engineering because I thought the group work was great and just liked building shit. Thankfully career wise fit more into that than just some nerdy circle jerk.
Emergency medicine. I want to eventually volunteer in disaster areas and other places that need care. But I'm going to take classes in writing because that's just something I've always been ""good"" at.
I have a masters in women's studies as well as my BA in communications and my BS in gender studies.
But sadly due to patriarchy and sexism a highly qualified women like myself can not find work. I am currently working on getting my patreon to support myself.
Me too. I'm getting mine in women studies but I'm getting a PhD. I'm currently fighting rape culture and I'm voting for Hilary. I find air conditioning offensive and my pronouns are Ham and eggs. My race is Chernobyl.
In work there's about 11 that I'm aware of. In uni there was about 50-70 girls I'd say in my major in my year. Out of about 200-250 students. But damn if half the girls weren't bi or lesbian. And there was a lot of inter dating because the guys were god awful gross. Probably a lot ended up lugs where it was just date a girl or date a guy that's not bathing regularly.
Hey keeping up with posting some semi lewd shit to scare away the homos.
I know this is a troll post but air conditioning is too cold for women and is only set so low because men choose to wear suits. It is really sexist that AC is set to a man's needs but not for the women. Why should we cover up when he could dress down?
What I'm hearing is that you wanna see pussy right? Like these tits just aren't doing it for you, gotta see the full frontal.
>>implying homos aren't straight males that didn't get a good pussy-ing
True. Never got the whole dicking meme for lesbians since I can buy a steel ridged vibrating dildo that'll last longer, be harder, and just overall better than a dick but there really is no equal exchange for some pussy. Anal is an inferior hole by all accounts and what else is there? And even accepting anal female butt is still the best butt.
I feel like I'm gonna pick my battles to not be over the damn AC. Sometimes the climate is just the climate.
>tfw got a folder called "sorry god" with bunch of pics and gifs of girls making out or having sex
Programming/game design, not a NEET but do live with my parents and partners but it's a big house. I guess I'm white/hispanic but let's just go with white since that's what I look like.
Pic unrelated just something on my phone I don't remember downloading.
It's based on the thorough investigation in the 1960s which assumed an office worker was a 40 year old man in a suit. Which is no longer even remotely accurate. It's just superstition at this point, held on because of sexist power displacements. Men control the business world, that's not a secret.
It's stupid anyway to keep it so cold. You can save money most days of the year by setting it higher.
>Tell me lesgen, what career field are you in?
>What are you studying to go into?
>Are you a NEET?
Do you fit the CS stereotype?
Customer service? Um I guess every job I've had has been customer service (retail mostly, and a couple call centers).
I got pretty sick and failed my last two years of school, then gave up. I hate myself because I want to learn, but I don't trust myself enough to not fuck it up again.
Now I sling coffee for $500 a week, live with my parents and have no idea where to go from here.
Also I'm extremely white.
Why would anyone want to be in IT anyway? Its just trannies and manchildren. I want to be where the qt girls are. I'm lucky because there are an endless supply of young nurses here.
I'm studying philology and I'm planning to become a translator. I know it's not as impressive as all those people in tech here, but I'm currently fluent at five languages (some of which are fairly obscure) and I'm learning more, so I don't think I'll have problems landing an okay job. Plus, I have always loved books, so getting to translate them for money is a dream come true. I won't be a millionaire, but I'm doing something I love.
Oh, and I'm white. (Unless you fell for the "Eastern Europeans aren't white" meme, in which case I am some sort of mixed Mongolian, I guess.)
>What are you studying to go into?
>Are you a NEET?
>Do you fit the CS stereotype?
Don't think so. What's the CS stereotype anyways?
Haven't met a gay girl ever in my field. But then I live in a third world shithole.
Currently, in retail, will probably fuck off back to work at either Disney world or universal this summer because it's warm. I'm black and majoring in film. Hmm, I was a NEET for about a year, but I don't think I could ever go back to that.
My best friend is very religious. He was homeschooled until college, large family, multiple family members as ministers or pastors, all of that. He's also gay though, and trying to find a balance between having a boyfriend, and you know, all the burning in hell thoughts.
I'm studying computer science. Haven't met any lesbians there yet. Before computer science I studied engineering for two semesters until i decided i don't like it. There were a few lesbians there but i was too shy (kept telling myself it's "just a phase", even though i had the biggest crush on an girl); Haven't met any lesbians in computer science, we are only a few girls and they're all hetero.
>tfw you just want a qt tomboy gf to play vidya with and talk about nerdy stuff
>you're femme af and look like a normal non-nerd chick and it doesn't even cross people's mind to think you could be a nerdy socially akward lesbo.
>tfw relationshipless virgin at 20
i have a lot of christian friends, the kind of homosexuality-is-wrong-christian. Some of my christian friends know, i guess since i havent been in a relationship yet (neither hetero nor homo) they don't take it seriously. they think being homo is not what God wants us to be, but they say it's your own decision it's not theirs to judge. most of them also have other gay friends.
I've had super religious guy friends and they're kinda ok. The most homophobic one just had this kind of "I don't like gays or want gay marriage or rights and think you're too much in media but you're not like those other gays so you're ok with me" which was annoying but can't do shit about it.
My best friend is an ex jehovah witness that still practices some shit and is gay. So he basically can't donate blood twice over. Had another super religious friend and he was cool but had this fear that I was gonna take his girlfriend all the time because I was friends with her too.
>what career field are you in?
Aiming at psycho, but damn sounds hard.
>what are you studying to go into?
psychologist or some shit.
>are you a neet
>do you fit the CS stereotype?
I don't know what CS mean.
but I'm going to guess, no.
biracial (half white half black)
I'm studying finance, all the girls seem straight so I'm closer to those in the marketing department or arts. Sad but hey one day I'll have this badass bomb boss gf to prove wrong on who really gets to order around and power struggles.
I teach music for work, not a neet.
Race... Like pic related, I really don't know if you call that brown or whatever.
>men choose to wear suits
Yes, because it's not like their company dress codes require it or anything.
Look at I think it was the bus drivers in Sweden who weren't allowed to wear shorts in the summer when it was hot, so they protested by wearing skirts from the women's uniform. UPS, or the postal service had a similar restriction on men not wearing shorts. These aren't office examples but you can bet that at banks and c-level offices they are required to wear suits.
>teasing your sexy folder but not dumping it
I'm NEET but was in CS before dropping out. I wish I was born a neckbeard instead of a qt girl.
No, she just thinks kissing is gross. Doesn't like the idea of anyone else's saliva being on/in her. Except, obviously, for certain lips that can't generally be accessed in public.
If she weren't hot I wouldn't deal with all this shit, I swear to god.
>No, she just thinks kissing is gross.
what the fuck even.
dumping my folder of girls making out to preach away the bad tastes of your gf anon
But I don't ~feel~ like a man or whatever, I just want a beard.
Also gonna test if DDT works here. Would /lesgen/ be interested in a sekrit club within the thread? So that gaymen, trannies and straight men troll and roleplay among them.
If I was a neckbeard I would not go after lesbians of course, or after any other real woman.
Well, I have had some dreams where I have a beard but never posted about them here so I'm not that anon.
Also it seems DDT is working. See >>5603802
If anyone is interested I will be listening
Desu Desu Talk, is a script that embeds text in images, posts them in the thread and then the message can be seen through its interface. You can broadcast a message so that everyone can see it, or only send it to your contacts. You can add people that broadcast or give you their address to your contacts, so it can be used as a sekrit club as an alternative to the archive.
Pic related is how my message in >>5603802 looks. If you want to install it you can follow the easy guide in Lainchan.
Oh fuck off, I don't envy men's bodies besides the beard, I don't even have penis envy, I'm happy being a girl.
Another Anon here.
I would have probably gone through with creating an account on there already if I wasn't so paranoid about showing my face online. A couple of my friends have recently been mentioning they use OKC as well, so it would also be nice to able to contribute stories about our encounters there.
Yes, I'm shy too but not socially retard. I wanted to go to my college LGBT group, but it closed that year ...
And I live in France, and their is no gay community outside Paris, I'm pretty much screwed.
How the fuck are you still not banned? You've stated (attention whored) that you're underage already like 10 times.
>Oh fuck off, I don't envy men's bodies besides the beard, I don't even have penis envy, I'm happy being a girl.
>Tfw I was posting unironically
Depends with whom. I think it's easier for hetero girls probably cos they can just be pillow princesses if they don't know what to do.
Watch porn for reseach and then do it with someone you love and it'll be fine.
My biggest fear is becoming a meme and I'm not even ugly.
I tried to rationalized it. If people I know are on okcupid, with the filter, that mean they are gay too, but still, I can't fight this fear.
Because once your face is up there, it's up there forever. Anyone can do anything with it -- append stories, photoshop, save and print and repost covered in semen, whatever. You have no way to manage your appearance, past, or reputation any longer. Most people don't think about it at all, but some do.
Until you're banned, who cares. I started on this shithole when I was 15. If you want to ruin your life like this, go ahead.
Ten years. Kill me now, I'm an addict to an ocean of piss.
Nah, you're gonna get the hammer in some minutes/hours. I hope you know how to ban evade, otherwise you're gonna stay the fuck out of here for 29 days.
You should learn to integrate into communities, not attention whore your stupid life.
I started when I was 12, it's been 9 years of wasted life.
Not really. Just thinking about employment alone, they become facades or liabilities. Then there's stalkers, hacks, endless drama bleeding between online and offline, becoming some stupid meme, getting slandered (endlessly, even after it's been retracted or disproven, just because the bad story has more legs)... I don't know if I could give up the protections of anonymity and contradiction just for a slightly quicker dating cycle.
>how could a site where you only post stuff could ruin you?
I'm addicted to replies. At first you lurk and laugh, then you post intelligent things to contribute to the topic, then you just shitpost for the pleasure that is to receive a reply. 4chan works pretty much like a drug in some people.
>then you post intelligent things to contribute to the topic
then isn't it a good thing, like getting cultured and stuff
>the pleasure that is to receive a reply.
So my reply will give you pleasure?
Very much appreciated.
Yes. I'm 100% socially starved, I'm a hikkikomori, so receiving replies feels good. It also depends what sort of reply it is, though; if I get a reply telling me that I'm a dork I will sulk and get sad, but if it's a reply that proves me right or a person I rused it feels godly.
Humans are highly social, to have sociability without fetter is definitely addicting. You can always just pull up 4chan and be anybody, even changing from post to post. Losing your identity to a community can be very stress-relieving, but it can also be indoctrinating. The collective infects your normal personality.
Then there is the mask you have to wear in normal life because of how the website has infected you, and the humor you've developed, and the standards that you can validate through this one website and literally nowhere else. This isolates you further and the ease of camaraderie in the anonymity starts becoming a replacement for the comparatively more false interactions in the mainstream.
4chan is a fucking cult.
>tfw no celebrity or irl crush
Only cute waifus for me.
>no gay community outside Paris
Yeah, if you're not in Paris, you're condemned to stay alone, unless you got the chance to have friends who know lesbians. Wich is not my case. Fuck it all.
Well, I feel absolutely nothing when I see a celebrity that is not a Japanese idol, and even then I don't have one I especially crush on. I rarely watch anything with real people on it for the past 15 years, my brain is conditioned to find 2D girls more attractive than real ones at this point, it's just natural. I don't even watch 3D porn, it's disgusting, and I find it weird when people say watching hentai is weird. The brain is weird.
In middle school I was weirdly attracted to a really cute and slutty sophomore, although it was unbelievable that I could be a lesbian so I tried to not think about that. It was until I was reading homoerotic lily comics on a daily basis when I realized I was gay.
To be honest I have never had a significant crush on anyone real, but I'm mentally ill so it could be that.
Assburgers and acute psychosis is what says in my diagnosis. I never treated my psychosis because I was afraid the drugs would poison me, KEK (and I still do).
Of course I think about having sex with girls, but I don't think I'm repressing real life attraction, girls in real life are not that attractive in the first place. The girls in my fantasies are 100% perfect, sometimes white, sometimes Japanese, sometimes they are animu.
No idea to be honest. While I was in the loony bin they told me through a study that my brain was "wired" differently but that was because of severe depression during my childhood so my brain just developed shitty like that. Maybe it could be related but I don't know.
I don't have any psychological traumas.
If it's psychological then it oges this way:
when we're a baby, we think your mother is a prolongation of your own body, that we are all she needs, then we realise we're not when we learn 'the existence of something your mother needs, other than you' (you learn its existence through what your mother tells you) and psychotics didn't learn the existence of it.
Probs' why you're gay desu, but you're not legit gay, since a relationship wouldn't work, you want to fuse with the other girl, while the 'normal' dyke puts some distance between her and her lover
do you have hallucinations
This is why I think psychologyfags should be forced to go into worthy fields and into not meme pseudo-philosophy of the mind.
This sounds good. Now all I need to do is find a woman I consider smart and get her to become my gf.
Who's twisted theory is that?
Stress of mom moving twice while I was gestating, and dad being in basic training back in the Vietnam era. Even though dad was a veterinarian, they were shipping them over in droves to be surgeons in the MASH units, and in the triage units that worked just behind the lines.
Fun bit of trivia, the veterinarian surgeons in the MASH units had a higher survival rate than the doctor surgeons.
I really don't mind dumber but it's not so simply cut. Ultimately it's just about different skills. She can be dumber than me in math or technology but ought to be better/smarter at different things. Can't be with someone that's just dumb at everything.
>be in dortmund too
>get excited for a second
>remember the slightly weird lesbian i met in a similar way and now have to awkwardly dodge at school
>and another one before that
h-hi fellow dortmunder. we'll never meet in rl but it's nice to know you're here too.
Curious now based on some bs I just read, got a question
>it's +100 years ago
>all homosexuality is frowned upon
>you're in a very catholic country
>and you got a sweet gf
>family disapproves of you living with her
>pressure to marry a man already
>or you'll both lose your jobs
>as secretaries/teachers/whatever little job they'd let a woman hold
>along with put in asylum or just have your lives ruined
>a) pretend to be a man so you can marry your gf
>b) have your gf pretend to be a man so you can marry her
>c) run the fuck away to Argentina together
meanwhile in reality
>marry a man and be his housewife, zone out while he fucks you as you lie limp like a dead fish and have his children
>see your girl on the side if you're lucky
>suicide by 40
20yo lesbian virgin here. i just never really fell in love and i'm quite conservative when it comes to sex, i don't want to fuck with people i don't love. But I guess it's weird to be virgin at my age, most of my friends think it's weird, they don't say it but i can be sure they think it's creepy, especially because i'm quite good looking from what i hear from people, and it's unusual to be a virgin with 20 if your not ugly or if you don't have religious background.
und mexikaner und skandinavier! deutsche, besonders aus nrw, hab ich bis jetzt nur in gaygen gesehen. nice to meet you :)
mach kurz mein abi nach; vorher ausbildung...komm einfach nicht von dortmund weg wie's aussieht. du studierst?
(sorry for the german, lesgen.)
idk based on two chicks that got married 100+ years ago in spain by one crossdressing but then they got caught and ran away to argentina. First gay marriage in spain.
I'm just assuming they couldn't find some gay dudes back then, or at least obvious ones, to make that kind of connection. I've read that girls did do that in early to mid 1900s. A lot of lesbos hung around with sailor dudes that were also gay back then so shit worked out.
>people that go into cs
I hate this meme. The gaymers that go into CS drop out once they realize they have to learn mathematics when they just want to use some shitty engine and C++ for their gaymez.
studier informatik, im ersten semester und hab in 2 1/2 wochen die ersten klausuren und bin etwas aufgeregt. was hast du gelernt? respekt dass du abi nachmachst ich hätte sowas von kb drauf das zu machen wenn man erstmal gearbeitet hat usw
Freudians are not psychologists. That's a shitposting retard, a smug pseudoscientist that has nothing in common with behaviorists and post-behaviorists that are able to have testable theories and measurable results. That faggot isn't even a student, I guarantee it.
Don't worry, I had a friend who managed to make it into her twenties before having sex. She was straight, and a model so it wasn't for lack of chances. She would get hit on just walking down the street. It also wasn't that she was raised religious or conservative. She honestly hadn't found anybody available she thought was good enough to get that interested in. Her mom was also very picky.
So um, I'm 22 and in college. College lesbians are sort of intimidating so I got scared and decided to date a 16 year old high school girl.
I feel like it was a fairly good decision. I dunno the next step in my master plan.
Why is "virginity" such a big deal for some people?? There's nothing creepy about your situation, and you're sulking over it for very silly reasons. So what if you're kinda hot but haven't gotten laid yet? You know what's truly creepy? People who care too much about other people's sex lives.
Honestly i dont give a fuck about other peoples sex life, it's just that i have some friends who give me the feeling that it is slighly weird to be a virgin, so it makes me think about it.
hell, i even had one friend of mine crying "ANON WHY ARE YOU NOT HAVING SEX WITH PEOPLE?" to me while she was drunk... wouldn't you start questioning yourself if everyone around you acts like being a slut is normal?
i hate our oversexualized society
you really need to know the math to make good gaming software.
Cool, than you should be able to make and extend your own gaming engines.
I grew up in a 16 age of consent state. Didn't stop me from having sex with adults when I was 14. I was way to sexually knowledgeable by the time I reached 16.
I was referring to your friends, not you lol
See, they have a problem with you still holding your v card. But it's *their* problem (and I can't wrap my mind around some1 crying bc their friend isn't fucking anyone.... like????) and they want you to think it's yours too
>think this qt is friendzoning me but she is too nice to tell me she's doing so
>she's going through a lot right now so I don't want to push the issue or demand clarification
>trying to just tell myself it's hopeless and move on, but then she texts me again and I forget everything except her beautiful smile
This. Really. Sucks.
You don't know the depth insanity can descend to yet.
LOL I went off to college sans HS diploma. Of course I had many community college courses to my name by the time I should have graduated HS, but my second HS wouldn't let me count them despite them being all As and A+s.
>but then she texts me again and I forget everything except her beautiful smile
ouch, I know that feel, and the one doing it to me is straight too. Aiiigh!!!! Please shoot me now....
Wow that girl fucking sucks. What's the typical college experience anyway? Mine's been getting severely depressed and anxious lmao
Anyway I'm so sorry anon! I hope you find someone who loves you back as much as you love her
You're too deep in. You should stick a little longer and ask her if she's interested. She's probs a total sweetheart
This is so very very very cute indeed!! And it makes me a lil jealous
How's going to college without a hs diploma even possible??
>But sadly due to patriarchy and sexism a highly qualified women like myself can not find work
Forgive a possibly awkward question, but what exactly is it you are "highly qualified" to do?
Aside from telling everybody how to think, that is.
tl;dr Known proven performance at a college level trumps HS grades all the time.
I took my first cc course during 8th grade, and was aggressive about taking one or two courses every semester after that so I had a bunch. The selection committee looked at my community college transcripts, saw that the courses were all the ones for majors in the respective areas, and were all A or A+ final grades. They also looked at my SAT and ACT scores, and saw they were above the average for their university. Also my academic letters of recommendation were from my community college teachers, not HS teachers. One of my character letters of recommendation was by a curator of a museum. The other two were from former bosses/mentors. After all that they said I was in. My hs hadn't even gotten my hs transcript to them yet. I entered with a near Jr standing credit wise.
With a degree in Women's Studies you can:
>tell videogame developers what to make
>falsely accuse people of rape through your twatter account
>show your support towards women and minorities by making posts in your tumblr
>prove people wrong on the internet using countless fallacies
>write codes of conduct for tech projects
>invent genders, sexualities and terms ending in ism/ist
>blame males for everything
>support the lgbt movement
>paint your hair technicolor
What you CAN'T do with a degree in Women's Studies:
>be a productive member of society
>do activism in real life
>go to third world shitholes and fight for women and minorities' rights
>not pull statistics out of your ass
>earn money through a job that is not prostitution
>get a job that is not prostitution
>understand that by attacking a specific group of people you're promoting discrimination and an endless cycle of it
I'm a creative writing and communication double major, hoping to either into screenwriting for TV, and while I attempt that, do something PR-oriented. On a completely different note, I took a BDSM test, and found that I am not at all a switch or submissive. My dyke appearance is matching what's inside me after all.
Majored in biology. Getting my master's in cell biology but taking the semester off to make money. Currently work at a CVS call center as a pharm tech and as a runner for a drug trial company. I had a hard as fuck time finding a job in my field until I went to a big city but I'm glad my degree is working out for me unlike pic related.
>majority of my coworkers are men or older women
Gay guy here trying to get his bachelor's in engineering here. Saw your post while browsing through /lgbt/. I didn't think getting a degree in biology would be a problem. Most of my friends who are engineering majors have some type of internships and have even gotten actual jobs while still in school. I thought hard sciences majors were in the safe as well.
Where are you gals going to school? We live in California so thankfully there's a market and job in everything in LA and bay area (which we are closest to) but living expenses are ass. I'm sure your friend could definitely find a job in the tech coast (LA), SD or in SF/SJ. There's plenty of these BME jobs here.
Is it normal to feel like you're over your ex but feel really messed up inside when you see her after a long time? it was messy breakup
A girl I used to bully/beat up in high school saw me leaving this like, unofficial lesbian bar Friday night.
Sunday she messages me on okcupid and asks me if I want to get a drink.
Why? I was such a horrible bitch to her in school, I mean like I caused her to get stitches once, cut big chunks of her hair out a few times, force fed her snack cakes while calling her fat.
Is she going to murder me?
At the monent i'm dating a girl that in theory should be much smarter than me sonce she's getting a phd but she believes in the lonniest shit.
She thinks every GMO gives you cancer and that womens nipples are never sensative.
She won't murder you immediately. >She'll want to go on a few dates with you
>acting like she doesn't even remember high school
>She'll want you to really like her, and see how pretty she's gotten now
>She'll want the guilt to get to you, to gnaw away during every date
>one day, when you're planning your wedding, you'll ask why she doesn't hate you for all the cruel things you did
>Anon, I could never hate you
>she'll lean in for a kiss
>you'll meet her lips, relieved and close to tears
>eventually she'll pull away from the kiss
>but just because I love you doesn't mean I could ever forgive you
>and THEN she'll stab you
Tell her to post your torture online, I want to watch.
She's gonna fuck you or make you fall in love with her then break your heart or just talk shit about your pussy. Don't do it.
That or she's insane with a victim complex. My brother had a girl he used to bully in high school fall in love with him and they dated years after. It didn't end well, she has mental issues with extreme clinginess. Basically used to being abused, fucked understanding of what's a relationship.
Well, that sounds like a surprisingly fun ride to be honest.
I think my guilt+her hate will make for a short relationship filled with very good sex and potential murder.
I'm actually pretty sure I could still take her if she went to kill me so it might be okay.
Also kinda hot, I'll leave it in my will to post the video to les gen for you bbygurl.
Yes, but she isn't even the person I bullied the worst.
I feel bad that I hadn't really had any guilt over her because she was like a side character in my high school rampages.
The first girl I ever had a crush on never forgave me for quitting the basketball team in 7th grade so I lost my shit and beat her up and threatened to kill her and her parents.
I was pretty fucked up.
I know I've heard this story here before or a variation of it. It always changes a small detail for better or worse but each time I think it's more made up. Like some dude writing out a lesbian sub/dom fantasy.
Anyone have kids here?
My gf/fiancée is pregnant with our second and it's freaking scary.
Should I take the boy and run?
I'm rather fond of him.
He's 5 at the moment.
>And what does she do?
>Is money a problem?
Not really, I work during the day and earn 25k per month. We have a good life.
>Would you consider more children?
Well, it doesn't really matters since if we had another child it wouldn't exactly be mine, and she has told me she doesn't want more children.
>A big part of my fear is that we had always planned for her to have two kids and for me to have a third and I really don't wanna be pregnant
Talk to her about it. Maybe a brother can provide sperm so she can get pregnant and it would be like the kid is yours :)
I would constantly worry if my gf worked at a bar.
I don't have any male relatives that I would want sperm from. Actually I'm not sure we could handle three kids and feel we should really wait and see how much we like the 2nd one.
Maybe we can compromise and get a pet or take care of an elderly family member instead.
Don't project so hard. There's no reason to think that anon hasn't heard of Freud. And there's also no reason to intimately study something that's pure bullshit, except to point out why and how it is, so that it can be countered in the wild. So both of your assumptions are just hogwash.
>I don't end up spewing shit like this
You don't even understand dafuq I wrote, how can you judge
It's like I went like
>I want to study biology but if you tell me that some people have XXY chromosomes/[insert something you find weird af] I hope I don't end up spewing that shit.
Do you like the research? I used to do AI programming when I was young. A TBI killed that skill. I can't understand the programs I wrote back then.
Many programs don't bother to teach pure Freud. In fact mom never had any Freud when she got her PHD. I also never had any when I minored in psych.
>There's no reason to think that anon hasn't heard of Freud.
How about you read what me and this anon actually wrote plz.
>And there's also no reason to intimately study something that's pure bullshit
How could you think that's bullshit since you have no clue what it's about, what is so bothering about it to you?
>Many programs don't bother to teach pure Freud. In fact mom never had any Freud when she got her PHD. I also never had any when I minored in psych.
I guess it's america that wants this
Where I live they teach some of it even in high school
hey guys, i invite you to vote for Claudia Morales Flamenco,thank you so much!
No one uses it in the retarded way that Freud proposed, and it is not a purely Freudian theory as it has been confirmed by experiment as a false consensus bias. Modern models tend to be based on this: http://psycnet.apa.org/?&fa=main.doiLanding&doi=10.1037/0022-35220.127.116.110
You're a fucking shyster.
How do you bring up roleplaying to your gf? I got a schoolgirl/teacher fantasy I wanna fulfill, not even sure which I'd rather be cause I'm open for either, and gf seems chill but I'm just not how to bring it up without it seeming weird even though it's not the most abnormal kinda fetish.
Ask her if she ever wanted to fuck a teacher, if she says no then ask her if she ever wanted to fuck a schoolgirl, if she says no force her to watch 48 hours straight of moe schoolgirl animu.
You have no idea what you're talking about so shut up anon, I don't give a fuck about what you think anymore.
You're the dumb one
Getting sucked in america's system that basically says everything scientific is the real truth and everything that's not demonstrable is pure bullshit. You act like you don't even have a mind anymore. Keep on throwing psychological concepts and your moral for reductionnist biology, I'll be watching to see how you all end up.
kek, bye retard. Have fun in last century, in whatever rat infested, brick hovel passes for a university in eurocuck.
Show up at her place dressed as a six year old loli, she'll figure it out
>can't understand why people lust after asian pop stars
They are prettier than meth-ridden white popstars, they also have the public decency of not bragging about choking on big black cocks every night.
Haha, y'all niggas think Freud is anything less than a genius. Soooo many of his theories have since been scientifically tested and verified as true. Sure he was off on some stuff, but to snub Freud would be like a physicist calling Einstein a hack.
Freud is still studied in both college and high school, not only in psychology classes, but in other contexts as well. It's inescapable. He's theories are well known and even if many have been disproved, they are still relevant.
There's no way a higher education student has not read at the very least "Civilization and its Discontents", which I've had to read for 2 different philosophy classes, and my mayor is not even psychology.
Even Americunts can't be that poorly educated.
He's studied cause he's a basic bitch kinda shit you gotta read, don't mean it's cause he was right about everything. Like studying Aristotle and starting with the greeks in philosophy, ain't cause he was right about all that classification and 5 elements and his bs causes and shit metaphysics, you just study cause it's important to know history and context and the basis and all that shit.
tldr freud is a punk ass bitch but it's good to know his punk ass bitch in the context of psychology and all that.
Lesgen gets weird. I like it. Sometimes chicks be talking in random languages, sometimes we're just dumping lewd shit, sometimes we go on about gay ass philosophy. Most of the time we're biting obvious bait and arguing over waifus.
Speaking of different languages though I've got a question.
Any of you multilingual girls get into issues with your girl over it? Or have any funny stories?
>be dirty beaner
>dating white girl
>fluent in english
>but in bed I once mutter something in spanish
>she finds it hot, asks for that all the time
>sure no biggie
>mainly call her pet names, she finds it cute, just stuff like my dear and love and sweetie
>call her what is basically "little pussy" at one point while going down on her
>it sounds cute in context ok
>but of all the fucking pet names
>she repeats that one to me in public among family
>family in general hated her
>called her dog as a nickname in spanish
>mainly cause she was a cop and therefore they thought she was a snitch
>but she didn't know a lick of spanish so she thought they liked her
>and she thought they were hilarious
>never had the heart to tell her the truth
Just weirdly thinking of her cause I ran into her recently and she asked about my family talking about how much she loved them and wanting to see my mom again. Mom hated her the most.
I have one that's somewhat funny
>be white Hispanic
>going out with NYC Dominican qt.
>we go over to NY since we both have family there
>go shopping with her mom
>I don't usually speak much so I'm just hanging there while they talk and shop
>mom starts saying all kinds of personal things
>thinks I'm just some regular American white girl
>qt. asks me something in Spanish
>I start speaking Spanish
>mom goes pale and then red
>starts apologizing for stuff she said
This has happened a few times, people say all kinds of crazy shit when they think you don't understand them, it's usually fun.
NYC weirds me out cause I'm not used to seeing so many diverse looking people all able to at least understand spanish. African american or asian looking people will just holler at me in spanish and it freaked me out at first. Idk why she'd assume you wouldn't know, I now assume everyone in that city just knows spanish regardless of how they look.
But then I swear to god this shit happens to me when I know I look hispanic and am in all hispanic communities so you'd figure everyone would assume everyone might speak spanish, yet people will still talk shit in that off chance you're one of those hispanics that doesn't.
>hs was 99.9% mexican-american
>with at least half being wetback kind
>south texas whatchu expect
>chilling eating that free lunch one day
>2 girls sitting table ahead
>just start openly gossiping about me in spanish
>nothing particularly cruel at first
>just this rumor that I was dating a guy friend of mine
>lot of girls liked him so some straight girls would get jelly of me for being friends
>didn't know I was a dyke
>but then it gets into personal shit about how I couldn't be good enough for him
>look them dead in the eyes
>tell them to shut up I can hear them, in spanish
>they get mad and leave
A lot of racism going back and forth between those born in the USA and immigrants looking back. We would have all kinds of end of the year games and we'd divide teams up by if you were born in the US or not, then shit on the immigrants hard if they lost.
Oh and one more story to be contrary
>volunteering for this feed the homeless dinner in a city
>work in kitchen
>assembly like set up with a bunch of old mexican ladies
>aw hell yea love cooking with old mexican ladies
>we're blasting music
>old ladies talking shit
>gossiping about their families
>and church shit
>listening to one sad story from a lady about how she used to be homeless but overcame it and now volunteers every year
>some white girls come in to volunteer
>about my age, early 20s
>try being nice
>especially cause a couple are qt
>nah they kinda ignore me
>they got their own group, it's cool, I don't wanna be awkward
>go back to talking to old ex-homeless lady
>in spanish as we were before
>she tells me to tell one of those girls some direction
>because her english isn't that good
>all of a sudden one of the white girls has an attitude with me
>all "HEY I UNDERSTAND SPANISH TOO YA KNOW" and glaring
>"SO YOU CAN'T TALK ABOUT ME LIKE THAT"
>other white girls just all "yeah you go girl"
>all these old mexican ladies just bust out laughing at them
>no one was talking shit before about these white girls
>but now everyone is
>little old ladies imitating her outburst
>head kitchen guy just talking to them only in spanish like a soccer announcer and laughing in their faces when they don't know what he says
>before kitchen was kinda mix in and out english
>now all spanish out of spite
>white girls getting more and more secluded and mad
>I try to help once but old ladies liked me and just kept me away
>they just sat at a table to themselves mad at the end
We were just visiting NYC, living at VA back then. Maybe that's why she figured I didn't know Spanish, plus I'm pale as fuck. Ironically I was only in the US for a little while, for college and just traveling around, doing random shit.
Now that you mention it, there's also a lot of friction between those that live in Latin countries and those that leave or that were born over in the US.
Personally I find those born over there to be rather silly, they play up their Latin roots and are all proud and shit when they are as American as they come. Also those that migrate sometimes get an annoying ego bust and start speaking Spanish with a somewhat American accent, as if suddenly better. Bitch if you are an immigrant it's because you were a poor desperate fuck and couldn't even make it on your own turf, now you are cleaning toilets and feel like a super star, please... Anyway, end of rant.
>late to the topic.jpg
I'm in medicine. I think I'll end up in anesthesia or a related field such as emergency medicine. Still many years to go because med school is long here
I just started my ob/gyn rotations, I think it's disgusting, but I seem to have a natural affinity for gynecological exams. (no lewd intended)
Fuck I feel so sad for you. Few things hurt as bad at the hospital as brain injuries/strokes/congenital problems no matter young or old. Most other disabilities can be compensated for, but not cognitive and intellectual.
>fluent in english
>but in bed I once mutter something in spanish
I do this frequently. I'm a Britbong, but live in a non-English speaking country, yet I usually talk in English during sex. It didn't lead to any particular embarrassing situations though, since most people here understand English, so they would know what to say to me in public/around family and what's better kept to themselves.
Can someone explain to me the point of a butch lesbian. Femme cis lez here. I mean why not just transition to being male? It seems so pointless to me. And no this isn't bait. Truly I don't see what the point of being gay is if the girl you like dresses like a guy. Why not be straight? Quite frankly, I only date other lipsticks and sometimes chapaticks, and yes I'm the one approaching them. We do actually exist. Sorry for the poor English.
Most people can't tell I have a TBI other than I struggle some when speaking. I'm still smart and often can learn things easily, but sometimes what I learn goes into the black hole and I can't retrieve it. This often happens with stuff I lost. It really sucks because I learned most of theoretical physics. Now that knowledge is full of holes, and I can't fill in those holes. I also haven't been able to relearn a few of the languages I knew.
Not butch but here's my opinion:
>People are weird, they like what they like
>Butch and FtM are similar, but FtM is just the logical progression
I'm friends with an old instructor who's butch. I guess she's masculine enough to dress like a dude, but doesn't mentally "cross the line" into thinking she'd be happier as a dude.
I dunno. I feel like everything's kind of on a scale, and people mentally land somewhere between girly <-> manly.
I don't think I like full butch but I do like some more andro dressing/styled kind of girls. It's just that under all the clothes there's a nice female body with cute tits and pussy. I'm more femme than I find the average lesbian to be and while I'm attracted to multiple styles of girl I do have a type. Plus I just like dominating the fuck out of girl that doesn't seem like she'd be dominated. I've sought out femme girls but it's always either they're too submissive or they wanna subtly turn me into the more butch one or they're just too damn hard to find.
But devil's in the details. Most butch girls turn me off cause of the shit style or fat. Won't date a fatty, won't date a girl that thinks snapbacks are the ultimate in fashion.
I have subtly turned a more butch girl I like into a bit more femme. Just set her up on some skincare to smooth out any flaws, more fitted clothes, get her hair cut the way I prefer. It's just my own shallowness, if I put on a dress and spent time on my hair I'll be damned if you stand next to me looking like a lazy loser.
I don't know either. I like feminity, so butch are pretty much the opposite of what I want. But I don't think it has something to do with sexuality either. One of my collegue is the definition of butch : she wears men's clothes, got a military hair cut, walk, talk and act like a man; her only feminine attribute is her voice and yet she's straight.
Same here. Snapbacks are horrendous. I refuse to wear any hats. They just look odd on women. And I understand why gay guys date twinks but I don't understand why lesbians date butches. Why not make the most out of being a woman rather than trying to be a guy you'll never become. I'm also a dominant femme, and I have no problem finding other femmes. Although oddly the femmes I seem to find want to be more dominant than me. I never have found a completely submissive femme. I would love to find a submissive sub who is NEET and would be waiting for me to come home from work. Then fuck her as soon as I opened the door and bend her will to my control. I also would want to give her cuddles though and take care of her too. Any takers? Also sorry for the bad english. From Quebec with love.
For some reason white people do this a lot. They lie. The us bi lingual people dont want to call them out on it because they are all master race. Yet they have no Idea how stupid they look trying to hard.
>tfw I would not mind this at all
>tfw I can't cook, only clean
I'll be the TV dinner wife, anon
>I don't think I like full butch but...
Similar here, but it is the personality I want. Give me a woman with a strong masculine personality, but dresses and looks fem and I can't control myself.
Yes, well fitted clothes can make or break one's looks. Last Friday I was salivating over a gal in slacks and a fleece pullover. Normally that wouldn't get a second look from me, but they fit her perfectly.
>potential French teasing as I'm held down helplessly in bed
>someone to support my housewife dreams
I wouldn't be a NEET, though. I like studying too much. I would very happily be your musical, painting housewife, though. I don't mind distance courses.
>Yeah, they just have music videos where they need to dress like whores to get views instead.
Those are Korean pop stars, though. Most Japanese idols dress modestly since Japan has a fetish for cute and not for sexy.
R u seriously comparing something that has been widely studied and proven with a bullshit meme theory?? Lmao. I've heard a slightly different iteration of that bs, but instead of "ur not truly gay, ur looking for a mother-extension of urself in other girls" it goes like "ur not truly gay, men ignored/mistreated u so ur looking for an extension of urself in other girls to make up for ur destroyed self-esteem". Because mentally ill lesbians must be faking the gay, no??
Again, anon, I sincerely hope what >>5604924 said is true and I don't end up vomiting stupid theories.