Femboys, what do I have to do to attract one of you adorable little fucks? I'm an average/masc-ish kinda guy. Tall, dark, kinda quiet serious type of guy, dress pretty conservative and I'm a die hard romantic. What should I change about myself? Straight men cant figure out women for some reason, and I can't understand what the average femboy would want, though I know preferences will vary.
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TL/DR Help a top find a LTR?
get fit and grow some chest hair and you will have all the fembois.
But be careful. They are a fickle breed and will jump ship for anyone more masculine than yourself, so you have to constantly be improving in order to be the best and keep your harem loyal.
Good luck, OP.
I think most of my problem is I'm almost 28. Most fems are highschool or just after highschool type guys. So there aren't really any guys like that in the places I frequent. Foreverascone.png
Uh last time i checked they're all cheating with hormones so they can stay feminine, but don't worry, they say it totally doesn't make them trans.
Hope you're okay with the estrogen habit.
Fucks sake, you dont have to stay fem FOREVER. By the time you age I'd be in love with you anyways. Half of a relationship is being with eachother, learning eachother and aging with eachother. You can still be sensative and cute when you have some years under your belt. You guys make me realize how shallow homosexuality can be....
It's not aging that is traumatizing in and of itself, it's the masculinization that goes with it. Do you know how traumatic that is? Losing the soft skin, hair all over, more muscles, even skull masculinization, and god forbid, balding.
I had a friend who was more attentive and gentle with me than a normal guy would be. Basically, he kind of treated me like a girlfriend even around other guys. Although, he never took the next step, so there was always this weird tension. I couldn't even look him directly in the eyes after a while because I would always think about how much I wanted to cuddle with him and bury my head in his chest. So, be that guy but take the next step. Also this >>5596667
Some of us would just rather keep the body we have, m8. We wouldn't be doing all the crazy stuff if it wasn't something that mattered/hurt from inaction. Sorry.
Why not just date girls if you find it that off putting. I'm sure most of them don't give a fuck about their looks.
Man, you guys are super held up on looks. I mean, I understand you want to be attractive, and thats good, who wouldnt want to be. I just mean dont be afraid to be old with a guy you spent your life with. Your worth more than your looks, though your looks ARE important. Id love to have a cute femboy curled up against my chest at night, and who would let me kiss his neck and all that. But looks dont last forever guys, embrace aging as it eventually comes.
I'm 27 and date a 21 year old qt. You know where we met? Fucking 4chan. Be hot, post pictures, somebody you like will find you.
...I mean, you'll also be "found' by creepy old guys and chubby mexibros and people into piss play, but that's just being on the internet for you.
Literally this, the first 18 years of my life have been spent finding a way to move away from my abusive father, I've grown up this whole time without a strong male figure I can look up to, pls help
The problem is that aging as a man means getting more masculine. It's the fact that men age like unrefrigerated milk. It only takes a few years for a qt to turn into a silverback with a receding hairline and a lantern jaw. Call me a tranny, but I don't want to be like that. I know getting old is inevitable, I just want to do it more gracefully. I'd be happy if I managed to look as good as Bowie in my 60s. Anything more is icing on the cake.
You femboys just need to get your balls snipped, so you don't have to worry about testosterone ruining your bodies. You'll never go bald. Your skin will stay soft forever. Your boyfriend will always have to open jars for you. You don't have to go full tranny or anything, but there's seriously no reason to kill yourself when you're middle-aged.
Not just the balls...lose it all. Your sex life should consist of making sure that your dominant man's cock is properly satisfied, not wasting your time being distracted by your own sexual stimulation.
I wished i had my balls removed but with penis intact when i was a kid. Then i wouldnt of grown disgusting facial and body hair and have a cute androgynous voice pitch.
>It's not healthy to not have any hormones in your body
That's an unfounded belief parroted mindlessly on /lgbt/. Untreated males, in fact, have an increased lifespan. Just because it causes some problems, doesn't mean it isn't more healthy. Two steps forward, one step back.
S-same ._. My masculine features are the main reason I'm so depressed. Most of the time I feel so disconnected from my body. Like, my reflection is so gross it doesn't even feel real. I wish I could undo the facial hair, deep voice, bad skin and being so tall. I wish I were cuter, but I also don't want to be a girl. Just an androgynous male. I mean looking like a girl wouldn't be so bad, but I like my dick too much to give that up.
>Or you could just find us when we are single and claim us.
Do you know how hard that is for someone like me? I'm 27, bi, nerdy, and somewhat chubby (not too noticeable until I'm without a shirt though). I'm like kryptonite to you beautiful people. No guy takes me seriously when I flirt with them.
I am displeased with being disregarded constantly. It makes it hard for me to keep trying, honestly.
>It's not aging that is traumatizing in and of itself, it's the masculinization that goes with it. Do you know how traumatic that is? Losing the soft skin, hair all over, more muscles, even skull masculinization, and god forbid, balding.
Then take hormones duh.
>Don't consider myself fem or fem looking, yet have basically no masc skills either, just nerd hobbies
>Fall somewhere in the gray area
>Will never ever get a masc as fuck bf to fuck me savagely and then cuddle with me into the wee hours of the morning due to not being effeminate
>somewhat chubby (not too noticeable until I'm without a shirt though).
That sounds pretty perfect, actually. Muscles are nice, but at least a little bit of pudge is a necessity for me. My current bf is built pretty much like you just described, maybe a little chubbier.
Don't let your weight get you down.
>You femboys just need to get your balls snipped, so you don't have to worry about testosterone ruining your bodies
I dunno f@m, that sounds like a lot of trouble and pain.
Can't I just take HRT and pretend it's as good as having them ripped out?
I'm not a girl, so I don't see the point in having a crotch like one. Plenty of far better things to spend the money on.
Maybe if Mr. Right wanted me to be a woman or there were some other very major external reason I'd say otherwise .
Just be yourself (assertive and dominant), be nice to them and make them feel safe. Be the first to make things physical as well because you can crush them with your pinky and they're typically not gonna risk you being a violent phobe just because they want your dick.
>What's wrong with pushing all the hard stuff onto someone else
Because you also inevitably blame them when shit goes south and you become one of those "woe is me, who am I REALLY" Hedwig and the Angry Inch sob media stereotypes that makes trans people with even a modicum of agency and self-respect look bad.
Acting like a child isn't acceptable past childhood. In fact it's rarely even acceptable in childhood.
>mfw people are talking about love, aging together, accepting your/other's faults and romanticism
What the fuck am I reading.
Do I qualify as a femboy?
>slim (114 lbs, was 108 lbs before the holidays ;_;)
>above average face
>got pulled over while walking past a middle school once because cops thought I was ditching classes at the near by high school
Living Near High Schools suck.
Cops think im cutting class but its just because i look younger than my age.
School kids after class like to scare people by following people and then laughing off after getting a scared reaction from somebody.
Loud kids screaming to their friends for fun while they walk back to their neighborhoods.