>come out at 13
>realize being open sucks
>back in the closet
>meant to tell my friends but its been two years
>have no desire to tell them whatsoever
>but i am getting the urge to come out as a nudist
Nudists aren't even that unusual. I didn't think there was any need to even come out. I've been to nudist events and beaches and whatnot and my friends and family know and I've never formally had any sort of "coming out" as a nudist lol
I didn't think it was something that even was abnormal.
the only nudist people i know i met through nudist situations. until i started going to nudist events i never really 'went out' and now my friends are kinda surprised. im not even ashamed abotu it but bringing it up cohesively is pretty much impossible but for some reason its something id like them to know.
im not too worried about them being creeped out, i was just wondering if there was any insight as to why i want to share this and not the gay thing.
though i suppose advice on how to tell them this would be helpful.
If you make a big deal about being a nudist they will too. Nudism is great but you can't make a big deal out of it and that is the whole point. It's about being free and open. You're not confined by clothing which affects your societal status and such since you're completely naked. If you get too caught up with the idea of nudism that you have to "come out" as a nudist you've completely missed the point of nudism.
You're not being naked wrong, you just need to be casual about it. There's nothing wrong with it so you shouldn't feel compelled to make an event over telling people you do it.
They used to wrestle completely naked in the olympics and do you think they had to have a sit down with their friends and discuss why they're wrestling another man in the nude?
Though there is a way to bring it up to them. If you're of legal age there are lots of nudist campgrounds throughout the US and Canada if that's where you live.
Maybe ask your friends if they would like to join you assuming they are a couple. Usually it's couples-only since single people tend to be creepers. It can be a great experience and if they're first-timers it's always entertaining to see how they'll react lol
>clothes are awesome.
they can be. despite being nudist i usually feel more comfortable in a full set of PJs as i sleep. its funny cuz i like being nude in some public settings but not so much in private.
i like both.