>>5591387 >>5591513 Bi MtF, and I am literally all of these things and yet not a single person said they had suspicions I wasn't straight I guess only fags are on the look out for others who seem faggish
>>5591442 >Shitty dress sense n-n-nigga please im a closet mtf and i take pride in how i dress, get complimented on it sometimes. i found a style that is JUST effeminate enough so that i come off as feminine, but not look like an autistic man playing in his little sisters closet.
I dunno. I am 6'1'', but finally got a 6'7'' boyfriend who knows how to turn on my submissive side. That sounds materialistic, but I sincerely love him even without the sexy stuff. I just always took care of my skin & hair, wore as feminine clothes as I could get away with, & even make-up when I was confident/drunk enough. I can't speak for everyone, but I was so happy to be noticed & asked out (also becoming a kinky-sub, hehe).
MtF's legs are closed more than a guy's, but less than a cis girl's. Their index finger is longer than the ring finger in most of them. If they don't visibly enjoy a comment about how manly they are. If they enjoy being treated like a girl in a way that isn't humiliating. The way they walk can be different from men. They get quiet when people talk about LGBT. They seem depressed.
>>5591846 >tfw always end up looking like an autistic man playing in his little sisters closet so i threw all clothes that could be seen as feminine in the dumpster and now only wear shapeless guy clothes it's for the best i guess
>>5592986 >legs are closed I got this drilled out of me in high school. "Anon, why do you sit with your legs closed like a girl?" Unconsciously eating like I was trying to avoid smearing my nonexistent lipstick, and having the angry girl glare reaction during arguments were some others.
>>5592986 This hit way too close to home. You know us too well. >>5593118 For me it was "Anon why can't you stand like a man?" among other things. I swear to God, I was so much of a trainwreck the girls in my class took pity on me, and were trying to teach me how to be a man. "Here, let me show you how it's done. You spread your legs like this. More. Put your hands in your back pockets. Straighten up, shoulders back. Nonono, not like that. That's better. Relax, you look like you have a giant stick up your ass. Okay, now ever so sliiightly tilt to the right. See, this is how men are supposed to stand" Even the guys tried to help me in their own ways. How much of a failure does one have to be being a guy, for all this to happen? Anyway, I kinda ended up being an MTF.
>>5595515 Hormones change something around the eye area, making them look wider and more innocent. It's hard to describe exactly, but obvious if you look at before and after pictures. It doesn't seem to be related to a happier facial expression either.
>>5591339 They lock eyes with you without provocation, a product of gaydar.
I work customer service at a service station. See about a hundred people a day. Most men avoid eye contact unless they're engaged by conversation. If you make it otherwise, they'll scurry away. However, at least once a day, an effeminate male "notices" me, we lock eyes and usually go about our business. Sometimes they'll switch on the friendly switch and every blue moon they'll flirt with me.
This happens with -every- male who carries stereotypical effeminate features, every time.
Girls can help you identify them. At some point they will be complaining about boys with guys standing around, and they will say "all men are idiots, or jerks, or pervs or whatever, except anon, he's not like them". Then observe that guy.
>>5591513 Closet MtF and these all apply, damn >>5592986 All apply except for the finger thing >>5604457 100% that guy, especially when I was in high school and would get invited to girls night outs, sleepovers, and just had a dumb level of trust with girls. Didn't know I was MtF though >>5595282 Similar things sort of happened to me but I just didn't care and would make jokes about how unmanly I was so people stopped caring too. In high school I was in a musical and there was this girl trio that I would always hang out with (always making jokes about becoming a member) and one time one of the girls was having trouble with a dance number which I ended up teaching to her. Afterwards she told me, "Anon you're better at acting like a girl than I am." and it still took me two more years to figure out I was trans.
Jesus, looking back it was probably obvious to everyone except me
Not that I know how to identify chasers, but what types of chasers are you looking for? It might be helpful to determine what you need to look for if you know who you're looking for, right? I'm excluding guys who are not specifically looking for trans girls but wouldn't mind dating one.
>Closeted tranny type (personally a turn-off) >Wants the dick in his ass type (turn-off, and probably overlaps with the closeted type) >Only looking to fuck on the down-low and will never date you or acknowledge you in public type (apparently these sometimes become willing to hold a LTR with trans women after years according to https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/the-straight-men-who-have-sex-with-trans-women) >Has a fetish for dominating a male so effeminate they became a girl (hot) >Thinks a little feminine penis is cute type (pretty nice) >"I'm n-not gay" repressed homo type (actually completely gay and will leave you for a man, should be pretty rare these days)
>>5605049 >>"I'm n-not gay" repressed homo type (actually completely gay and will leave you for a man, should be pretty rare these days) >"I'm n-not gay" repressed homo type (actually completely gay and will leave you for a man, Not him but wat?
>>5605049 >>Closeted tranny type (personally a turn-off) do not get involved with >>Wants the dick in his ass type (turn-off, and probably overlaps with the closeted type) do not get involved with >>Only looking to fuck on the down-low and will never date you or acknowledge you in public type (apparently these sometimes become willing to hold a LTR with trans women after years according to https://broadly.vice.com/en_us/article/the-straight-men-who-have-sex-with-trans-women) get involved with if you have 0 self respect >>Has a fetish for dominating a male so effeminate they became a girl (hot) avoid at all costs, it's kinda hot but guys with that fetish are always psychos who will harm you >>Thinks a little feminine penis is cute type (pretty nice) the only acceptable kind. where are you senpai? >>"I'm n-not gay" repressed homo type (actually completely gay and will leave you for a man, should be pretty rare these days) may get drunk and stab you for being a temptress sent by the devil
>>5605049 >Has a fetish for dominating a male so effeminate they became a girl oh my god i almost got involved with one, he was 45 year old and into BDSM. it's definitely not my thing but i am dtf with any chaser as long as he's dom
Not who? It's a gay guy in denial who can't get it up to cis women, but starts thinking maybe he could enjoy being with a trans woman for the penis, so he begins looking for them. This type should be short-lived and rare, I think. It's not quite so stigmatized to be gay anymore.
>>5605374 >There was a German neo-nazi chaser of that type who had bitches fighting each other in a thread here for him. The difference is he had money (patents, he said) to pay for transition. >The difference is he had money
Figures. Its heartbreaking to realize that traps and trans pretty much use chasers for beta bux, thats why so many of us have this misconception that they are more okay with their cocks than they really are, they'll put it front and center and play with it like its their favorite toy if its for profit (porn/camming). In reality they just want dom/tops and other traps.
>>5605564 How do I not get conflated with that sort of attitude? I'm totally okay with chasers and stuff so long as they aren't repressed trannies themselves, that's legitimately my only chaser-specific concern.
But the closeted tranny type will just start transitioning on you. They may even decide to leave you for a man, in the end. And you probably want a man, right? You wouldn't be looking for a man specifically if not, right?But I guess you're not looking for a long-term relationship if you're okay with the type who ignores you in public.
You could post an ad on Craigslist's personal sections. There are lots of guys looking to fuck trans women and crossdressers on there. So you shouldn't have to worry about whether they think you're ugly or not.
>Its heartbreaking to realize that traps and trans pretty much use chasers for beta bux
Only the chasers who aren't tops. The tops get no complaints from trans women. There are trans girls with integrity though. Even if you were rich and were trying to court me, I wouldn't look over your red flag (wanting my dick in your ass) because of your money. That's just not how I want my sex life to be.
>>5591741 >TFW you're a super subby puppy that gets molested by hot daddies and handlers..and puppys at mosh events >6' 3" >230lbs >beard and hairy >takes the dick like a champ and loves to be tortured and beat up yall faggots need to stop worrying and just do your own shit.
>>5591339 In school I was a super jock, homophobic, boisterous, and was mr. bravado 24/7. Once I left school, I got more and more paranoid about looking too fem while starting hrt. So I put on a bunch of weight and let my facial hair grow out a bunch and just leave my hair to do whatever. I try and just wear whatever terrible clothing I can to make me look like some weirdo neet loser. I figure if I stay that stereotype people won't assume I'm trans and give me shit. Then once HRT has time to work and I have money saved and stuff I can just be like shave and switch to fashionable clothes and BAM hot lady mode.
>>5617372 Well I already had gyno. Im a year in now and I have like boobs big enough to fill my entire hands. It does that tension thing in between the boobs and its embarassing. If my shirt isnt black with logos or lettering all over the chest, I wont wear it because my boobs are too obvious.
>>5634815 I have atypical autism, which means my autism isn't as bad as for the average autistic fuck, that's why I can make fun of autistic fucks and people with autistic hobbies(like bronies, or people who watch anime/hentai).
I'm a undercover autist, people can't tell that I'm autist unless I tell them... I feel pretty smug about that.
Being an autist of my caliber is bitter sweet, I'm aware of my autism(so I don't spazz out like most autist) or act like an autistic fuck around people but I'm also aware that I might come off as autistic so I become kinda socially aloof and try to avoid social interaction because I'm afraid of embracing myself(social phobia).
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